Wonderful Here/Awful At Home?

[daycarediva]

Dcm was screaming in the driveway, everyone could hear him inside the house. We are doing byebye outside, and the second he walked in, he smiled and hugged me and dcm started to cry. I really have to let them go at this point, since they seem bent on blaming me.


Dcb has said things to me like "My Mommy no wants to stay home wif me" etc. alllllll day.

[lilcupcakes09]

YES YES YES!!!!!
I had posted a thread exactly like this probably 2 months ago!

My 3 year old was excellent here, so soft spoken sometimes I couldn't hear him. When Mom pulled up EVERYDAY he became an instant demon. Kicking/ pushing kids, throwing toys, yelling NO to me! It was awful! He even one time at pick up while we were outside playing, ran into my empty house and went upstairs and hid underneath my son's bed!

Mom was a pro at the all talk no action! She always had a surprise in the car for him that he got after acting out at daycare. If I were him I would continue that behavior too, he got a toy daily for it!!

She is now a SAHM with a newborn, I can't imagine how that is going::

[Loveyoustinkyface]

Dcm was screaming in the driveway, everyone could hear him inside the house. We are doing byebye outside, and the second he walked in, he smiled and hugged me and dcm started to cry. I really have to let them go at this point, since they seem bent on blaming me.


Dcb has said things to me like "My Mommy no wants to stay home wif me" etc. alllllll day.

Did you mention you are letting the DCB go?? Does that mean you are terming them? I think this DCB adores you!!

[julie]

Dcm was screaming in the driveway, everyone could hear him inside the house. We are doing byebye outside, and the second he walked in, he smiled and hugged me and dcm started to cry. I really have to let them go at this point, since they seem bent on blaming me.


Dcb has said things to me like "My Mommy no wants to stay home wif me" etc. alllllll day.

What a terrible situation for you AND DCB. He does seem to adore you and I am sure you care for him based on the things you have said here. I don't understand parents who want to ruin the relationship with the person providing a stable and loving atmosphere for their child. I don't understand how they cannot get that they have created this dynamic by clearly showing their child that face time with him is on the absolute bottom of their priority list. Kids are smart. They get when their parents don't want them around and then they act out as a result. It's not rocket science. And now he's going to lose the one person that loved having him around due to their accusations. It's terrible. I feel for you because I wouldn't tolerate that behavior from parents either and feel for the kid because he may lose you due to their poor choices. I hope you have a good weekend and don't have to worry about this too much.