Do You Ever Have To Hold Kids Down?

[country girl]

Hahahaha! This is laughable.

Really? you are going to come back to something that has already been resolved, with the OP NEVER having an issue with my posts.....she was actually quite nice to "talk" to.....and berate me? Whatever

Pretty sure she was just voicing her opinion Crystal, after all everyone is entitled to one. Isn't that what forums are for??? Something tells me if she had agreed with everything you had said you wouldn't have a problem with her "coming back" to it.

[Crystal]

LOL! Hey, tell ya what. If it makes ya'll feel better to come here and attempt to start controversy, knock yourselves out! I on the other hand will be enjoying my day in a more positive light. Good day

[daycaremum]

Yes, I thought everyone was entitled to their opinion and was allowed to post. I only read the thread last night and felt I was also "allowed" to post. Again, you seem to think you are in charge or something. I wasn't trying to stir things up. Just getting out my two cents on the topic and on how you handled it. Sorry I didn't respond in a timely enough manner for your liking, but I don't sit her all day waiting for a chance to respond as soon as a post is made. Also, the OP did take issue with many comments made, as per her request to have the negative posts removed. I'm happy for you if you had a lovely conversation with her privately, I am only responding to what is written on this thread. Funny how everyone's perspective of what is going on and being said can be so different. Anyways, I reserve my right to post when and how I so choose.

[Crystal]

Oh my I never implied that you cannot post. Please, do, post freely. In fact, if you click on my username you can find ALL of my posts if you'd like to reply to those as well! Enjoy

[Blackcat31]

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I am guesiing it is time to close this thread again.

.....but just for the record, everyone IS entitled to their opinion.

[daycare]

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I am guesiing it is time to close this thread again.

.....but just for the record, everyone IS entitled to their opinion.

don't kill my only entertainment............

just kidding.......

But on the serious note, I do hope that it does not spiral out of control.

[Crystal]

don't kill my only entertainment............

just kidding.......

But on the serious note, I do hope that it does not spiral out of control.

No kidding. This is VERY entertaining. I have been LMAO all morning!

No reason for it to spiral out of control. I am not taking anything personally, even though it is meant to be personal

[daycaremum]

Crystal. I have no interest in reading your comments on other threads. I was referring to this thread only.

[Crystal]

No thank you Crystal. I have no interest in reading your comments on other threads. I was referring to this thread only.

You're welcome.

[tenderhearts]

I wish I could see your evil eye, because whenever I give my evil eye, it doesn't work with the 2 yr old boy I have ...

[Unregistered]

Really?

No kidding. This is VERY entertaining. I have been LMAO all morning!

No reason for it to spiral out of control. I am not taking anything personally, even though it is meant to be personal

Were you really LMAO all morning over this thread? I don't find the content of this thread funny, Crystal. It's actually not a laughing matter at all.

[Crystal]

Were you really LMAO all morning over this thread? I don't find the content of this thread funny, Crystal. It's actually not a laughing matter at all.

Haha! Even funnier that you wasted your time scolding me again! Hope you are enjoying your weekend

[MyAngels]

Gosh, what's the deal with relatively new members of the forum blasting a long standing member like Crystal?

I would think you might want to get to know the other members a bit first (and let them get to know you, too) before taking such a harsh tone.

[MizzCheryl]

Well, she said she had to hold him down against his will and that she felt bad about it......SO, I would take that to mean that she physically held him down to get her point across that he had to lay down.....as she said "he got the point"

I think she gave plenty of information to for me to draw that conclusion, hence my response.

My advice was, as previously stated, "If you cannot deal with a toddler or preschooler getting up and having to put them back down (even if it is over and over and over) without getting "physical" about it, then you should not be caring for children. " and I stand by that.

WOW attitudes like that are what make so many providers apprehensive about seeking support on this board.

[Crystal]

WOW attitudes like that are what make so many providers apprehensive about seeking support on this board.

Attitudes like what? What is my attitude like?