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  • littlefriends
    New Daycare.com Member
    • Jul 2018
    • 304

    Originally posted by CountryRoads
    Can rompers be banned at daycare, please?!
    I have that exact thing in my contract! Kiddos need to be dressed in clothes that support independent pottying habits.

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    • Cat Herder
      Advanced Daycare.com Member
      • Dec 2010
      • 13744

      Originally posted by CountryRoads
      Can rompers be banned at daycare, please?!
      I just change them into play clothes and change them back during the last diaper change. After seeing their kids in spare clothing all the time in photos, they finally catch on.

      I can't let them mess with my day and I am tired of policing adults.
      - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

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      • CountryRoads
        Daycare.com Member
        • Nov 2018
        • 678

        Originally posted by Cat Herder
        I just change them into play clothes and change them back during the last diaper change. After seeing their kids in spare clothing all the time in photos, they finally catch on.

        I can't let them mess with my day and I am tired of policing adults.
        That's a good idea!

        Dcm knows it's inconvenient, too! She told me as she dropped off, "sorry, I know these aren't practical for potty time."

        Thanks for sending her in them anyway

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        • Unregistered

          Three day weeked

          Theee day weekend coming up and I actually had someone ask if we will be closed Monday! Yes it's a holiday we are closed. Try reading your parent handbook it's in there so you won't have to ask me. 😑

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          • CountryRoads
            Daycare.com Member
            • Nov 2018
            • 678

            Why do parents do this at drop-off?

            "Miss X will get you a blanket."

            "Just ask Miss X and she'll go get you a stuffed animal."

            "You're gonna go outside in just a few minutes." (Not true)

            "I bet if you ask, Miss X will get out the train set for you."

            "Don't worry, I bet Miss X will hold you."

            No, I will not be doing any of these things! I know they only do it when their child is being difficult at drop-off, but still!
            Drives me bonkers!!

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            • littlefriends
              New Daycare.com Member
              • Jul 2018
              • 304

              Originally posted by CountryRoads
              Why do parents do this at drop-off?

              "Miss X will get you a blanket."

              "Just ask Miss X and she'll go get you a stuffed animal."

              "You're gonna go outside in just a few minutes." (Not true)

              "I bet if you ask, Miss X will get out the train set for you."

              "Don't worry, I bet Miss X will hold you."

              No, I will not be doing any of these things! I know they only do it when their child is being difficult at drop-off, but still!
              Drives me bonkers!!
              Yes!!! So annoying! Just wanting to make it easiest for themselves so they can get out of there without a fuss from kiddo. I had one that was coming alone for a bit during the stay at home and his dad every time at dropping off time "OOOO Petey, You get Miss X all to yourself again today!! You could ask her to do anything you want! What do you want Miss X to do with you today?"

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              • Cat Herder
                Advanced Daycare.com Member
                • Dec 2010
                • 13744

                You guys are more patient than me. "Karen, please stop coaching him to ask for things he already knows he can't have. You are making us both uncomfortable and taking up valuable time. We have a routine here. If you want him to play with the train set, you can let him play with his own at home after daycare."
                - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

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                • Josiegirl
                  Daycare.com Member
                  • Jun 2013
                  • 10834

                  Originally posted by CountryRoads
                  Why do parents do this at drop-off?

                  "Miss X will get you a blanket."

                  "Just ask Miss X and she'll go get you a stuffed animal."

                  "You're gonna go outside in just a few minutes." (Not true)

                  "I bet if you ask, Miss X will get out the train set for you."

                  "Don't worry, I bet Miss X will hold you."

                  No, I will not be doing any of these things! I know they only do it when their child is being difficult at drop-off, but still!
                  Drives me bonkers!!
                  Hey, Sweetums, I bet Momma will stop at McDonald's on the way home!
                  Hey, honeybunches, just ask mommy to stop at the park when you leave dc today!

                  You get the idea.....

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                  • littlefriends
                    New Daycare.com Member
                    • Jul 2018
                    • 304

                    Originally posted by Josiegirl
                    Hey, Sweetums, I bet Momma will stop at McDonald's on the way home!
                    Hey, honeybunches, just ask mommy to stop at the park when you leave dc today!

                    You get the idea.....
                    OH. MY. GOD. Yes!!!! happyface

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                    • Former Teacher
                      Advanced Daycare.com Member
                      • Apr 2009
                      • 1331

                      Originally posted by Cat Herder
                      You guys are more patient than me. "Karen, please stop coaching him to ask for things he already knows he can't have. You are making us both uncomfortable and taking up valuable time. We have a routine here. If you want him to play with the train set, you can let him play with his own at home after daycare."
                      Exactly! I once had a preschooler (!!!) who was always difficult when he was dropped off. Thankfully we were outside usually at that time so it was easy. One time, she was late dropping him off and we were in the classroom. So (my assistant was in the room) he started running down the hall chasing her as she was walking away. I ran and grabbed him and she told him goodbye again. I started walking away and he was crying holding out his arms. I was telling him the fun stuff we had planned etc.

                      She was FOLLOWING ME!!! Then she was telling him to be a good boy etc. I was LIVID!

                      The next day, again we were in the classroom..she said "it's okay Snowflake...Ms X will hold you (he's a freaking PRESCHOOLER!!!) while Mommy goes to work". NOT AGAIN! I said right to her face "No I am sorry I can't. It will just upset him more once he knows you will follow him. Please just say all your goodbyes now. Snowflake, when Mommy leaves for work, please come and join me and Snowflake 2 (his BFF) at the cars and we can build a ramp for jumpoffs." Then I walked away. He followed me immediately. She didn't do that BS again ::

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                      • CountryRoads
                        Daycare.com Member
                        • Nov 2018
                        • 678

                        I hate having only one child in care! That's the case for me tomorrow. I told dcm that dck would be the only one here tomorrow hoping she would take my hint.

                        Told me that dck could stay home since the other siblings are home, but nope. Still sending dck. Now I'm bummed knowing that dck COULD stay home, but she'll be here anyway. I COULD have had a paid day off with my kids.

                        *sigh*

                        It was worth a shot ::

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                        • LovelyK
                          Daycare.com Member
                          • Sep 2019
                          • 10

                          I have the annoying parent who calls everyday during lunch time to "check in". She asks the same questions every single day yall I voiced how i felt multiple times it's always an excuse to keep calling I gave the option to call later during the day which was great for 1 week then started calling earlier and earlier. I told her I will stop answering and she said naw dont do that. Now she want to talk to the kid I'm so over it !!

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                          • Cat Herder
                            Advanced Daycare.com Member
                            • Dec 2010
                            • 13744

                            Originally posted by LovelyK
                            I have the annoying parent who calls everyday during lunch time to "check in". She asks the same questions every single day yall I voiced how i felt multiple times it's always an excuse to keep calling I gave the option to call later during the day which was great for 1 week then started calling earlier and earlier. I told her I will stop answering and she said naw dont do that. Now she want to talk to the kid I'm so over it !!
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                            - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

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                            • littlefriends
                              New Daycare.com Member
                              • Jul 2018
                              • 304

                              Originally posted by LovelyK
                              I have the annoying parent who calls everyday during lunch time to "check in". She asks the same questions every single day yall I voiced how i felt multiple times it's always an excuse to keep calling I gave the option to call later during the day which was great for 1 week then started calling earlier and earlier. I told her I will stop answering and she said naw dont do that. Now she want to talk to the kid I'm so over it !!
                              Tell her you just don't have time for that and then stop answering. Say it nicely (or text it if you have trouble saying things like that face to face) but once it's said then stick to it. She will either eventually quit trying or find another daycare. If she wants that kind of special she needs a nanny anyway.

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                              • AmyKidsCo
                                Daycare.com Member
                                • Mar 2013
                                • 3786

                                Originally posted by littlefriends
                                Tell her you just don't have time for that and then stop answering. Say it nicely (or text it if you have trouble saying things like that face to face) but once it's said then stick to it. She will either eventually quit trying or find another daycare. If she wants that kind of special she needs a nanny anyway.
                                Real suggestion: Don't answer. Text her later to say "Sorry I didn't answer but I was changing a diaper." Next time, "...feeding the baby." Then "...dishing up lunch." "Reading story." Eventually she'll get the hint.

                                Friday afternoon suggestion: When she calls have one of the older ones let out a bloodcurdling scream and yell "Oh my God!" then hang up. Don't answer the rest of the day. ::::::

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