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I just change them into play clothes and change them back during the last diaper change. After seeing their kids in spare clothing all the time in photos, they finally catch on.
I can't let them mess with my day and I am tired of policing adults.- Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.- Flag
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Dcm knows it's inconvenient, too! She told me as she dropped off, "sorry, I know these aren't practical for potty time."
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Why do parents do this at drop-off?
"Miss X will get you a blanket."
"Just ask Miss X and she'll go get you a stuffed animal."
"You're gonna go outside in just a few minutes." (Not true)
"I bet if you ask, Miss X will get out the train set for you."
"Don't worry, I bet Miss X will hold you."
No, I will not be doing any of these things! I know they only do it when their child is being difficult at drop-off, but still!
Drives me bonkers!!- Flag
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Why do parents do this at drop-off?
"Miss X will get you a blanket."
"Just ask Miss X and she'll go get you a stuffed animal."
"You're gonna go outside in just a few minutes." (Not true)
"I bet if you ask, Miss X will get out the train set for you."
"Don't worry, I bet Miss X will hold you."
No, I will not be doing any of these things! I know they only do it when their child is being difficult at drop-off, but still!
Drives me bonkers!!- Flag
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You guys are more patient than me. "Karen, please stop coaching him to ask for things he already knows he can't have. You are making us both uncomfortable and taking up valuable time. We have a routine here. If you want him to play with the train set, you can let him play with his own at home after daycare."- Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.- Flag
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Why do parents do this at drop-off?
"Miss X will get you a blanket."
"Just ask Miss X and she'll go get you a stuffed animal."
"You're gonna go outside in just a few minutes." (Not true)
"I bet if you ask, Miss X will get out the train set for you."
"Don't worry, I bet Miss X will hold you."
No, I will not be doing any of these things! I know they only do it when their child is being difficult at drop-off, but still!
Drives me bonkers!!
Hey, honeybunches, just ask mommy to stop at the park when you leave dc today!
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You guys are more patient than me. "Karen, please stop coaching him to ask for things he already knows he can't have. You are making us both uncomfortable and taking up valuable time. We have a routine here. If you want him to play with the train set, you can let him play with his own at home after daycare."
She was FOLLOWING ME!!! Then she was telling him to be a good boy etc. I was LIVID!
The next day, again we were in the classroom..she said "it's okay Snowflake...Ms X will hold you (he's a freaking PRESCHOOLER!!!) while Mommy goes to work". NOT AGAIN! I said right to her face "No I am sorry I can't. It will just upset him more once he knows you will follow him. Please just say all your goodbyes now. Snowflake, when Mommy leaves for work, please come and join me and Snowflake 2 (his BFF) at the cars and we can build a ramp for jumpoffs." Then I walked away. He followed me immediately. She didn't do that BS again ::
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I hate having only one child in care! That's the case for me tomorrow. I told dcm that dck would be the only one here tomorrow hoping she would take my hint.
Told me that dck could stay home since the other siblings are home, but nope. Still sending dck. Now I'm bummed knowing that dck COULD stay home, but she'll be here anyway. I COULD have had a paid day off with my kids.
*sigh*
It was worth a shot ::
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I have the annoying parent who calls everyday during lunch time to "check in". She asks the same questions every single day yall I voiced how i felt multiple times it's always an excuse to keep calling I gave the option to call later during the day which was great for 1 week then started calling earlier and earlier. I told her I will stop answering and she said naw dont do that. Now she want to talk to the kid I'm so over it !!- Flag
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I have the annoying parent who calls everyday during lunch time to "check in". She asks the same questions every single day yall I voiced how i felt multiple times it's always an excuse to keep calling I gave the option to call later during the day which was great for 1 week then started calling earlier and earlier. I told her I will stop answering and she said naw dont do that. Now she want to talk to the kid I'm so over it !!- Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.- Flag
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I have the annoying parent who calls everyday during lunch time to "check in". She asks the same questions every single day yall I voiced how i felt multiple times it's always an excuse to keep calling I gave the option to call later during the day which was great for 1 week then started calling earlier and earlier. I told her I will stop answering and she said naw dont do that. Now she want to talk to the kid I'm so over it !!- Flag
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Tell her you just don't have time for that and then stop answering. Say it nicely (or text it if you have trouble saying things like that face to face) but once it's said then stick to it. She will either eventually quit trying or find another daycare. If she wants that kind of special she needs a nanny anyway.
Friday afternoon suggestion: When she calls have one of the older ones let out a bloodcurdling scream and yell "Oh my God!" then hang up. Don't answer the rest of the day. :::
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