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I have been doing so well after almost 9 years of daycare but a new child (4 yrs old) has my head spinning! Literally getting a migrane over this and I need some help please.
So he is a new child enrolled just this week. Upon interview Mom said he had ADHD and ODD and was been kicked out of a large daycare for unruly behavior and the examples she gave me sounded usual and something I was able to cope with. First 2 days were fine. He had the usual push to a child here and there nothing abnormal. Had good manners, did as I asked basically. Today was good until I was cooking lunch. He smacked a 2 yr old in the face when I asked why he said because he didn't like him. I asked why he said because he's a baby. I sat him for time out and got the plates ready. uring lunch he was having some attitude and I ignored it. the more i ignored it the worse it got. He tore his food apart and threw it in the garbage. I warned him if he did that I would not give any more until snack. He was quiet and went to the living room. He tried to watch TV I said no TV today (sometimes I allow nickJR at nap time for kids who dont nap) He got mad and threw his cot. I told him to stop and he spit on me. I told him he is going to have to go home if he does it again so he did it again. He ran upstairs wouldnt get on the phone with his Mom. I told her we would try to work things out. I figured he would calm down and come down but instead I hear spitting. I look up and he is spitting down over the railing to the 1st floor. I ran up he shut the bathroom door. I pushed my way in and he kicked my heater across the room. I got him out but he is such a large child I couldnt get him down the stairs. I call DCM and shes on her way. I told him get his coat he has to leave. He yelled no bitch and threw my tree down the stairs. he started spitting over the railing again on to my picture frames and lamp etc. I have to get him down so I go up and try to pull him by his hand. He spit in my face and said shut up bitch! I yelled at him told him to STOP! he then said "Do you want me to smack you bitch?" I am almost in tears by this point I dont understand what the heck got into this kid. I get him downstairs and he goes spitting around the room on my sofa, on my dog, on the other child. I grab him to hold him and he spits down my arms and pinches my breast so I had to let go. Again he runs and spits on the sofa and the dog I get the dog out and guard the kids. I dont know what to do I am in shock and this kid is in control of my house! I want to put a bag over his head but know I cant. Finally his Mom comes and I think thank God. She tries to talk to him like a therapist no sorry to me. I told her everything that happened and she just said "Really Joseph lets go now" She pulled him out the door said she would call me later. What the hell happened here? What am I supposed to do with an extreme spitter??
I have NEVER had a child flip a switch like this!! This isn't normal ADHD ODD issues this is like bipolar, devil possesion!
So he is a new child enrolled just this week. Upon interview Mom said he had ADHD and ODD and was been kicked out of a large daycare for unruly behavior and the examples she gave me sounded usual and something I was able to cope with. First 2 days were fine. He had the usual push to a child here and there nothing abnormal. Had good manners, did as I asked basically. Today was good until I was cooking lunch. He smacked a 2 yr old in the face when I asked why he said because he didn't like him. I asked why he said because he's a baby. I sat him for time out and got the plates ready. uring lunch he was having some attitude and I ignored it. the more i ignored it the worse it got. He tore his food apart and threw it in the garbage. I warned him if he did that I would not give any more until snack. He was quiet and went to the living room. He tried to watch TV I said no TV today (sometimes I allow nickJR at nap time for kids who dont nap) He got mad and threw his cot. I told him to stop and he spit on me. I told him he is going to have to go home if he does it again so he did it again. He ran upstairs wouldnt get on the phone with his Mom. I told her we would try to work things out. I figured he would calm down and come down but instead I hear spitting. I look up and he is spitting down over the railing to the 1st floor. I ran up he shut the bathroom door. I pushed my way in and he kicked my heater across the room. I got him out but he is such a large child I couldnt get him down the stairs. I call DCM and shes on her way. I told him get his coat he has to leave. He yelled no bitch and threw my tree down the stairs. he started spitting over the railing again on to my picture frames and lamp etc. I have to get him down so I go up and try to pull him by his hand. He spit in my face and said shut up bitch! I yelled at him told him to STOP! he then said "Do you want me to smack you bitch?" I am almost in tears by this point I dont understand what the heck got into this kid. I get him downstairs and he goes spitting around the room on my sofa, on my dog, on the other child. I grab him to hold him and he spits down my arms and pinches my breast so I had to let go. Again he runs and spits on the sofa and the dog I get the dog out and guard the kids. I dont know what to do I am in shock and this kid is in control of my house! I want to put a bag over his head but know I cant. Finally his Mom comes and I think thank God. She tries to talk to him like a therapist no sorry to me. I told her everything that happened and she just said "Really Joseph lets go now" She pulled him out the door said she would call me later. What the hell happened here? What am I supposed to do with an extreme spitter??
I have NEVER had a child flip a switch like this!! This isn't normal ADHD ODD issues this is like bipolar, devil possesion!
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