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So I think I told you that I just re-signed up a girl I had earlier this year.
Mom and dad are not together.
Mom went elsewhere for care when she moved to another town.
She was incredibly unhappy with the care and wanted to move back to me.
Dad did not. He liked me he just liked the other lady better?? She is a teacher and she is in his town - those are his reasons.
when ever I see dad - he is as sweet as can be (he is the one that picks up every day).
Last Tuesday his daughter fell off the kiddie rocking chair (she is 17m) she hit her nose on the toy that was right next to the rocker and it bled. Not even classifying this one as a bloody nose because I wiped it away and no more blood came. I couldn't see exactly where she hit her nose at the time but it was clear after nap that it was the bridge of her nose. She WAS FINE!!!!
I've made all of my paperwork in mom's name. he is NOT on the contract except as an approved pick up and OK to make decisions for her -but he did NOT sign my contract.
So I filled out my little state mandated form that says what happened (accident report). Although there is NO spot on the form for parents to sign - I make one. I put a line next to it, mark it with an X and below the line I write (parent's signature) so that if ever something came up I would have proof they knew about it.
Well - he asked the next day (after bloody nose) if there was an accident report and I said no - I have a form that I complete for my records but that is all. And that was all that was said. I did not have him sign it - I waited until the next morning and had mom sign it (not sure if that was the wrong thing to do - but that is how I handled it).
Mom went away on business this week So dad is supposed to do all drop off/pick ups.
I get a text from him at 8:50 (50 minutes passed drop off time) stating
"Sorry for the last minute notice, C... will not be attending daycare, until wed., its do to my schedule!! thks"
and that was that.
I thought it was odd but didn't think anything of it.
Mom is in California and texted me 10 minutes ago to ask if he dropped her off - I said NO and she is THROUGH THE ROOF pissed because he brought her to the old daycare provider. He claims there should have been an accident report filed (not required by State of Connecticut) and that she should never have signed my personal paperwork regarding the incedent.
so he was pissed (although he NEVEr shows this to me - sweet as honey with me) so he brought her elsewhere? And plans to bring her here on Wednesday? Will my home be safer on Wednesday????
I just don't get it. WTF am I supposed to do with this????
Mom and dad are not together.
Mom went elsewhere for care when she moved to another town.
She was incredibly unhappy with the care and wanted to move back to me.
Dad did not. He liked me he just liked the other lady better?? She is a teacher and she is in his town - those are his reasons.
when ever I see dad - he is as sweet as can be (he is the one that picks up every day).
Last Tuesday his daughter fell off the kiddie rocking chair (she is 17m) she hit her nose on the toy that was right next to the rocker and it bled. Not even classifying this one as a bloody nose because I wiped it away and no more blood came. I couldn't see exactly where she hit her nose at the time but it was clear after nap that it was the bridge of her nose. She WAS FINE!!!!
I've made all of my paperwork in mom's name. he is NOT on the contract except as an approved pick up and OK to make decisions for her -but he did NOT sign my contract.
So I filled out my little state mandated form that says what happened (accident report). Although there is NO spot on the form for parents to sign - I make one. I put a line next to it, mark it with an X and below the line I write (parent's signature) so that if ever something came up I would have proof they knew about it.
Well - he asked the next day (after bloody nose) if there was an accident report and I said no - I have a form that I complete for my records but that is all. And that was all that was said. I did not have him sign it - I waited until the next morning and had mom sign it (not sure if that was the wrong thing to do - but that is how I handled it).
Mom went away on business this week So dad is supposed to do all drop off/pick ups.
I get a text from him at 8:50 (50 minutes passed drop off time) stating
"Sorry for the last minute notice, C... will not be attending daycare, until wed., its do to my schedule!! thks"
and that was that.
I thought it was odd but didn't think anything of it.
Mom is in California and texted me 10 minutes ago to ask if he dropped her off - I said NO and she is THROUGH THE ROOF pissed because he brought her to the old daycare provider. He claims there should have been an accident report filed (not required by State of Connecticut) and that she should never have signed my personal paperwork regarding the incedent.
so he was pissed (although he NEVEr shows this to me - sweet as honey with me) so he brought her elsewhere? And plans to bring her here on Wednesday? Will my home be safer on Wednesday????
I just don't get it. WTF am I supposed to do with this????
but thats what I would do.
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