I Don't Even Know What to Say About This.. WWYD?

[DancingQueen]

I actually just sent her a response with one more question regarding my obligations to this dad. He is not on my paperwork but he IS the father. I want to cover all of my bases.

[DancingQueen]

And she just got back to me saying that if there is no court order and he is on the birth certificate - he SHOULD be on all my paperwork and I should be sharing everything with him.
who knew? LOL

[nannyde]

sounds like the behavior of a parent who is trying to get hard copy stuff for custody papers and custody decisions.

Are they having any custody court dates coming?

[DancingQueen]

yes she is bringing him to court to receive child support and he is PISSED about that.
court date is in december.

[momofboys]

Sorry you are stuck in the middle of this situation with the parents. Frustrating for you I am sure!

[Lilbutterflie]

Oh my, what drama for such a small little incident! I have a feeling you have plenty more coming from this family!
Part of me says that you worded the email wonderfully and you should send it. However, part of me is worried about the part of admitting that you were questioning your policy and double checking with the state licensing dept. I don't think you should admit that to him, especially since he's probably going to take this to his custody hearing.
I think I would say that this is what your policy is, and you know that your policy is following regulations.

[DancingQueen]

It is Wednesday and he said they aren't coming today because she is stuffy and he is too so he is keeping her home today.
whatever - i still get paid.

[QualiTcare]

It is Wednesday and he said they aren't coming today because she is stuffy and he is too so he is keeping her home today.
whatever - i still get paid.

i'm sure that you haven't done anything wrong, but i can see why it would bother you. if someone was willing to pay me and still pay someone else instead of coming to me - i'd be offended. it's one thing if he didn't want to drive and didn't have to pay you if she didn't come, etc. but to pay DOUBLE not to bring her to you - that would bother me too.

[misol]

It is Wednesday and he said they aren't coming today because she is stuffy and he is too so he is keeping her home today.
whatever - i still get paid.

Does the Mom know he isn't bringing her today?

[missnikki]

I would just keep mum about it. After all, he is following the rules of letting you know she isn't going to be there. At least he isn't shining you on. And if he is paying you, well, that is extraordinarily odd and would annoy the hooey outta me but I would let them iron it out amonst themselves.

[DancingQueen]

Mom may or may not know. I feel like letting her know about it is butting in where I don't need to be.
If she asks then I'll let her know.
HE isn't paying me. MOM is. (and the State of Connecticut).

(I secretly think he has a *thing* for this other provider)

[DancingQueen]

Still a no show
Mom comes back from her trip tomorrow - and supposedly she was planning to drop off tomorrow.
But his text this morning said "No sorry, not today, will let u know tonight bout tmw!"

So who the heck knows.

he infuriates me

[missnikki]

(I secretly think he has a *thing* for this other provider)

Well if that's what is going on, then you don't need to worry about it being personal. Just buckle your seatbelt, it's gonna be a bumpy week.

[DancingQueen]

He showed up 2 hours late last night (weather related) to pick her up and then texted me at 11:30pm to tell me he is keeping her daughter out for thursday and friday (today and tomorrow) he is clearly bringing her to the old provider again.
I'm LIVID

[laundrymom]

Are you still getting paid?