I'll be honest. I think that sometimes we do not give kids enough credit. My example is a personal one used with my daughter from the time she was 18 months old. When she did something she was not supposed to (and KNEW she wasn't) she would run from whatever it was. She knew good and well that she was wrong. So I would redirect her. If she continued, then I would tell her to have a seat wherever she was without toys. I would simply say "you did X so you have to sit." She sat for maybe a minute and she was very quiet the whole time. Even the times she was not quiet it never lasted longer than 10-15 seconds. Then I would thank her for being quiet and invite her back to toys reminding her not to do X. She got it. She is now 2 so this wasn't that long ago!
I think that people sometimes abuse "time outs" and time outs can be very different for different people. If a child is being destructive, "time away" by theirselves is great and safe.

I think that people sometimes abuse "time outs" and time outs can be very different for different people. If a child is being destructive, "time away" by theirselves is great and safe.
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