I Am THE Unregistered Problem Causer

[Daycaremomof2]

I would have rather you written a long post about your two usernames and two unregistered names that have completely different information on them than read many many paragraphs about the word terrorism and your story of your family member dying in 9/11

Why don't you tell us that story? Tell us WHO died in 9/11 and how they are related to you. Do fifteen paragraphs of THAT.

Sorry but this looks just like what my son does when he's been BUSTED. He spends three seconds about what he did and goes on and on and on about what everyone else did.

Your postings are a prime example of why readers should ALWAYS take into consideration that the person posting is completely faking their education, experience, situation, and relationship to child care. There's a chance they don't even DO child care, they have little or no experience, and little or no education. Just because someone SAYS it doesn't mean they are coming from a pure place.

You have taught us that.

Be offended about the tag and I'll be offended about your usernames and stories. How bout that? Some of us have deep respect for daycare.com and don't like seeing it being used as a playground of lies.

You have got to be kidding me. Everything was resolved, and everyone was ready to move on, and you just had to get your last 2 cents in. Very mature.

You are wrong about your assumptions. This post has nothing to do with you.

I was a supporter of your forum celebrity status, but I just lost a lot of respect for you. Not that you care, and not that I care about you either. I did explain the different user names- perhaps if you read all of the previous posts you would have the answers to your questions. You did take the time to read everything, right?

Your response is just plain ugly.

You think I lied about my education huh? Hilarious. You think my 2 undergraduate degrees and masters are phony. And you are now attacking my deceased family members. Seriously? Where I come from, that is called being a hater. I don't have to justify my education to you. Grow up.

I think you are very self-righteous. That's fine, best of luck to you lady, I hope it carries you far in life. I would love for you to say something pertinent and intelligent concerning the entire conversation; instead, you just had to kick dirt and stir up trouble after everything was resolved. Frankly, I am disappointed, I held you in a higher regard.

[nannyde]

You have got to be kidding me. Everything was resolved, and everyone was ready to move on, and you just had to get your last 2 cents in. Very mature.

You are wrong about your assumptions. This post has nothing to do with you.

I was a supporter of your forum celebrity status, but I just lost a lot of respect for you. Not that you care, and not that I care about you either. I did explain the different user names- perhaps if you read all of the previous posts you would have the answers to your questions. You did take the time to read everything, right?

Your response is just plain ugly.

You think I lied about my education huh? Hilarious. You think my 2 undergraduate degrees and masters are phony. And you are now attacking my deceased family members. Seriously? Where I come from, that is called being a hater. I don't have to justify my education to you. Grow up.

I think you are very self-righteous. That's fine, best of luck to you lady, I hope it carries you far in life. I would love for you to say something pertinent and intelligent concerning the entire conversation; instead, you just had to kick dirt and stir up trouble after everything was resolved. Frankly, I am disappointed, I held you in a higher regard.

Nothing was resolved. You just gave some lame explanations and a couple of people accepted them.

You realize now that we can see ALL your posts from both usernames and every single one of your unregistered posts where you pose as completely different people. You didn't know that before you did it but you do now.

I appreciate your statement of support but I can't figure out which one of you is supporting me. There's so many after all.

Quit disrespecting this board. There are a number of us on here who have devoted a lot of time and personal resources to build this up to the biggest, baddest, most content rich daycare board on the net. Nobody is even CLOSE to daycare.com Respect our work and respect us. Quit messing around with us. We don't like it.

[Daycaremomof2]

I asked questions relating to daycare on this forum.

Who cares if I asked those questions under different names?

They were valid questions. I got good information and answers.

Just because the method of asking them is not the same method that you use does not make my questions any less valid.

Please respect others' individuality.

[countrymom]

I would have rather you written a long post about your two usernames and two unregistered names that have completely different information on them than read many many paragraphs about the word terrorism and your story of your family member dying in 9/11

Why don't you tell us that story? Tell us WHO died in 9/11 and how they are related to you. Do fifteen paragraphs of THAT.

Sorry but this looks just like what my son does when he's been BUSTED. He spends three seconds about what he did and goes on and on and on about what everyone else did.

Your postings are a prime example of why readers should ALWAYS take into consideration that the person posting is completely faking their education, experience, situation, and relationship to child care. There's a chance they don't even DO child care, they have little or no experience, and little or no education. Just because someone SAYS it doesn't mean they are coming from a pure place.

You have taught us that.

Be offended about the tag and I'll be offended about your usernames and stories. How bout that? Some of us have deep respect for daycare.com and don't like seeing it being used as a playground of lies.

ha, I agree, you should really say what you want to say. I think it was wrong on so many levels, its like we were players in your game, thats not fun or cool. We come here to look for advice, to vent, to hang around our "water cooler" but it feels like you were mocking us, and it does hurt our feelings. And you want to move on, I'm not sure how many will trust your input. Oh, I can usually tell who's who by the way they write.

[nannyde]

I asked questions relating to daycare on this forum.

Who cares if I asked those questions under different names?

They were valid questions. I got good information and answers.

Just because the method of asking them is not the same method that you use does not make my questions any less valid.

Please respect others' individuality.

No you didn't.

I can respect indiduality when the individuality comes from one person not five with different stories to intertwine within their questions. You have two usernames AT THE SAME TIME and posted as a bunch of different people with stories as unregistered.

You really want us to post all of your "valid questions"? We can. We can show how you are posing as a parent who has a child in child care and THAT day received an email thru your provider. We can show you as a provider who just started in april or a provider who has had a kid for a year. We can show you as the parent of two or the parent of three. We can show you TTC and being pregnant with twins. You are in Ohio ... you are in California. We can show you as the SVP to a bank and a person with three degrees. We can show you answering your own questions.

Want more?

Your words like "devil's advocate" and "methodology" don't fly with me. They are just words to use instead of admitting that you lied and deceived. You think this is over because a couple of people said "ok" to you but what you don't realize is that the moderators on this board have been watching you for a while and we can all see all of your actions.

Listen to me. Stop it. Admit what you have done and quit putting words onto it and embellishing it. If you really are a child care provider then pick a dang username and post. If you have stuff you want to know and don't want it under your username then post unregistered and clarify that you are a user but want this one off of your username.

All the foot stomping you are doing is making this worse. You have been busted... caught... outed. You got got. So just **** it up and move on and do better tomorrow.

If you want to learn this craft then stick around... READ THE ARCHIVES ... and ask real questions. We don't need drama fortified questions to be able to answer them. Just ask real questions and you will most often get a great answer. If you don't get what you want... go back to the archives.

[countrymom]

No you didn't.

I can respect indiduality when the individuality comes from one person not five with different stories to intertwine within their questions. You have two usernames AT THE SAME TIME and posted as a bunch of different people with stories as unregistered.

You really want us to post all of your "valid questions"? We can. We can show how you are posing as a parent who has a child in child care and THAT day received an email thru your provider. We can show you as a provider who just started in april or a provider who has had a kid for a year. We can show you as the parent of two or the parent of three. We can show you TTC and being pregnant with twins. You are in Ohio ... you are in California. We can show you as the SVP to a bank and a person with three degrees. We can show you answering your own questions.

Want more?

Your words like "devil's advocate" and "methodology" don't fly with me. They are just words to use instead of admitting that you lied and deceived. You think this is over because a couple of people said "ok" to you but what you don't realize is that the moderators on this board have been watching you for a while and we can all see all of your actions.

Listen to me. Stop it. Admit what you have done and quit putting words onto it and embellishing it. If you really are a child care provider then pick a dang username and post. If you have stuff you want to know and don't want it under your username then post unregistered and clarify that you are a user but want this one off of your username.

All the foot stomping you are doing is making this worse. You have been busted... caught... outed. You got got. So just **** it up and move on and do better tomorrow.

If you want to learn this craft then stick around... READ THE ARCHIVES ... and ask real questions. We don't need drama fortified questions to be able to answer them. Just ask real questions and you will most often get a great answer. If you don't get what you want... go back to the archives.

you go girl!! you said it way better than i can.

[Heidi]

Thank you, Nan! You don't mince words, something I appreciate about you. I don't buy most of what she said anymore either. That's the problem when one is caught lying. No one knows what the truth is anymore!

This whole thing is starting to remind me of my 22 yo niece. She has unpaid parking tickets, unpaid speeding tickets, and all sorts of money problems. She has now been served with 2 warrants because of this.

It is everyone ELSE's fault, although no one is allowed to give her advice. I have yet to hear her once say that she the whole mess is her own doing.

Like OP, she cannot take responsibility, make it right, and move on. Instead, she uses excuses and blame and lies to continue the same behavior.

I was going to try to let it go, but it seems to me that OP is STILL trying to explain and excuse, not trying to say "hey, I messed up, and I'm sorry". THE END.

[JenNJ]

Do you actually think we care who you really are? We don't. Just post as a provider (if you are one) or as a parent. Or go away. I don't care if you are a 75 year old man in his underpants asking for advice on the baby racoons in your small animal daycare. Just pick ONE personality and go with it. Stop arguing with yourself in posts. That is just weird. Really weird.

And realize that the mods are doing you a favor by not banning you completely. Stop arguing with them. You are like a bratty kid right now who has been caught red-handed but keeps making excuses. Stand up tall, apologize, and stop being a weirdo.

[Crystal]

Why is this so controversial? I get that she posted under different names. I get that people don't like it. What I don't get is why she is being blasted when she came here, explained herself, revealed her identity, and apologized.

Seems some people cannot live without drama in their lives, and even feel the need to create it when they aren't getting enough in their daily diet

DCMto2, please post ethically from now on. Otherwise, welcome to the froum and I hope you find all of the answers you are looking for.

[Sunshine44]

I have stayed out of this one so far, but have to say GO NAN!

[greenhouse]

Do you actually think we care who you really are? We don't. Just post as a provider (if you are one) or as a parent. Or go away. I don't care if you are a 75 year old man in his underpants asking for advice on the baby racoons in your small animal daycare. Just pick ONE personality and go with it. Stop arguing with yourself in posts. That is just weird. Really weird.

And realize that the mods are doing you a favor by not banning you completely. Stop arguing with them. You are like a bratty kid right now who has been caught red-handed but keeps making excuses. Stand up tall, apologize, and stop being a weirdo.

LOL baby raccoons::
But yeah this!

[Crystal]

As an FYI to mods.....and I realize this is not the case with THIS unregistered user, as she has admitted to posting as different people....

An IP addy does not neccessarily mean it is the same person. IP's are for regions/areas. So, you can have hundreds of people using the same IP address. I just checked on my site and I have members from Oregon who are on an IP that is based in Denver. So, you don't really know WHERE they are located.

On another note, for those of you who do come here and post unregistered and are regular members as well, be careful what you post under unregistered.....you never know if a Mod is checking up on you.....and since we don't REALLY know the mods, or even who all of them are, they COULD use your info against you.

[Blackcat31]

As an FYI to mods.....and I realize this is not the case with THIS unregistered user, as she has admitted to posting as different people....

An IP addy does not neccessarily mean it is the same person. IP's are for regions/areas. So, you can have hundreds of people using the same IP address. I just checked on my site and I have members from Oregon who are on an IP that is based in Denver. So, you don't really know WHERE they are located.

On another note, for those of you who do come here and post unregistered and are regular members as well, be careful what you post under unregistered.....you never know if a Mod is checking up on you.....and since we don't REALLY know the mods, or even who all of them are, they COULD use your info against you.

You are absolutely right Crystal. Which is why the OP was privately contacted when there was a question/concern. No one outed her or posted anything on the forum for anyone see or know about that gave her away.

The OP choose to go "public" and out herself.

I guess I am not understanding your last comment....:confused: why would mods "check up" on unregistered posters or use info against them?

I think people, in general, should all be aware of what they are posting (both anonymously and as registered) since internet is PUBLIC. If someone is doing nothing wrong, then they have zero to be worried about.

It is only when someone is practicing to deceive that the weave that wicked web.

[nannyde]

On another note, for those of you who do come here and post unregistered and are regular members as well, be careful what you post under unregistered.....you never know if a Mod is checking up on you.....and since we don't REALLY know the mods, or even who all of them are, they COULD use your info against you.

Of course the mods can "check up on you". You do this on your site. You blocked me from your site. You have blocked other people I know from your site.

There HAS to be a check and balance system on these boards. You use it on yours. You don't want people like me.. or me specifically... reading your board or participating. You have a darn good reason for it too.

There has to be a check and balance system and with a board THIS big it has to be done by a handfull of volunteers. If the volunteers make a decision that doesn't work for the owner then it will be reversed. You are in a good spot on your board that you and only you get to decide but your board is way smaller than this board. It really can't be done singlehandedly here.

[MyAngels]

On another note, for those of you who do come here and post unregistered and are regular members as well, be careful what you post under unregistered.....you never know if a Mod is checking up on you.....and since we don't REALLY know the mods, or even who all of them are, they COULD use your info against you.

Just so long as the mods don't let their power go to their heads I think we'll be ok

Of course the mods can "check up on you". You do this on your site. You blocked me from your site. You have blocked other people I know from your site.

So that's why I was never able to register at her site. Hmm.