I Am THE Unregistered Problem Causer

[Crystal]

Just so long as the mods don't let their power go to their heads I think we'll be ok



So that's why I was never able to register at her site. Hmm.

Nah. I didn't know you tried. Did you use the same username, cuz I would have approved you?

[Crystal]

Of course the mods can "check up on you". You do this on your site. You blocked me from your site. You have blocked other people I know from your site.

There HAS to be a check and balance system on these boards. You use it on yours. You don't want people like me.. or me specifically... reading your board or participating. You have a darn good reason for it too.

There has to be a check and balance system and with a board THIS big it has to be done by a handfull of volunteers. If the volunteers make a decision that doesn't work for the owner then it will be reversed. You are in a good spot on your board that you and only you get to decide but your board is way smaller than this board. It really can't be done singlehandedly here.

I agree. There does need to be a checks and balances system. However, when you use it to be rude and condescending to others, it is innapropriate.

FYI....I closed my forum to guests, and only approve members I want because I have been friends with this small group of women for about 7 years, and they/I post some fairly personal stuff as friends, I don't want it public for your average jo blow to read.

[nannyde]

I agree. There does need to be a checks and balances system. However, when you use it to be rude and condescending to others, it is innapropriate.

FYI....I closed my forum to guests, and only approve members I want because I have been friends with this small group of women for about 7 years, and they/I post some fairly personal stuff as friends, I don't want it public for your average jo blow to read.

Yeah I remember you closing it when I quoted something from your site that contradicted what you were saying in a post.

I don't have a problem with that... your site your rules.

What's rude is using us as test rats to try out her "theory" of different reactions if she poses as different people in different circumstances. What's condescending is her expecting us to believe it.

[Daycaremomof2]

No you didn't.

I can respect indiduality when the individuality comes from one person not five with different stories to intertwine within their questions. You have two usernames AT THE SAME TIME and posted as a bunch of different people with stories as unregistered.

You really want us to post all of your "valid questions"? We can. We can show how you are posing as a parent who has a child in child care and THAT day received an email thru your provider. We can show you as a provider who just started in april or a provider who has had a kid for a year. We can show you as the parent of two or the parent of three. We can show you TTC and being pregnant with twins. You are in Ohio ... you are in California. We can show you as the SVP to a bank and a person with three degrees. We can show you answering your own questions.

Want more?

Your words like "devil's advocate" and "methodology" don't fly with me. They are just words to use instead of admitting that you lied and deceived. You think this is over because a couple of people said "ok" to you but what you don't realize is that the moderators on this board have been watching you for a while and we can all see all of your actions.

Listen to me. Stop it. Admit what you have done and quit putting words onto it and embellishing it. If you really are a child care provider then pick a dang username and post. If you have stuff you want to know and don't want it under your username then post unregistered and clarify that you are a user but want this one off of your username.

All the foot stomping you are doing is making this worse. You have been busted... caught... outed. You got got. So just **** it up and move on and do better tomorrow.

If you want to learn this craft then stick around... READ THE ARCHIVES ... and ask real questions. We don't need drama fortified questions to be able to answer them. Just ask real questions and you will most often get a great answer. If you don't get what you want... go back to the archives.

Stop blowing things out of proportion. Grow up. Get real. This is a daycare forum. I asked daycare questions. I wanted daycare information. Each time you post something you make everything sound worse and worse than reality. Get things in perspective. You don't like my questions or posts- ok I get it, but get over it. I got the information I needed. Isn't that the purpose of this forum- information? This isn't facebook people.

Again- I was searching for information. I apologize that you do not understand the methodology behind the search. I started this thread to let whomever it bothered know that I was apologetic, and I admitted to the things that I said so that it was out in the open. I even tried to drop it and move on, and told everyone to enjoy the rest of their week. I made several attempts to be the bigger person. YOU are the one who will not stop it. Let it go.

I am sorry that you do not understand the words devil's advocate and methodology. I understand that the overall concept may be difficult to comprehend. You have probably never been exposed to the scientific method before. You have probably never conducted you own cognitive research laboratory before either, nor have you statistically analyzed empiracle evidence, nor have you done any type of research study of any kind. Your words are a reflection of your lack of understanding concerning my methodology, and I don't blame you for your ignorance. Let me provide an analogy that you might understand: it's like asking an infant to start potty training- they just can't do it, and don't understand the overall goal quite yet. You can't blame them for that.

I'm sorry that it seems so out of the ordinary to have a double major undergraduate degree and a master's degree; where I am from, that is very typical. I'm sorry that you couldn't help yourself but to be childish and make more rude comments after my initial apology, and I'm sorry that I feel cornered to even have to say these things to you. I'm sorry that, after I said all is forgotton and let's move on, that you just have to keep flapping your gums.

I'm sorry that you can't let it go, and I'm sorry that reading this post right now is probably the highlight of your day. I bet you can't wait to come back with some facetious, self-righteous comment, with your gaggle of followers begging for the scraps from your table while cheering you on. I'm sorry that you feel the need to read and re-read all of my posts. Do you not have anything better to do? If they bothered you so much initially why do you keep reading them? Are you masochistic?

And I'm sorry that people are actually buying all of your crap. Sure, you have lots of great daycare ideas, that's your niche, and for that I applaud you. But you have become extremely narcissistic; as I am willing to bet the farm that this isn't the first forum squabble you have been a part of. Your continual pattern of forum squabbles throughout time with a variety of different people are clearly indicative of some sort of superiority complex. You're just dying to jump in the ring, aren't you? That's called a lack of inhibitory behavior control- you just can't help yourself can you? I challenge you NOT to respond to this anymore and just drop it. Can you do it? Maybe one of your many followers will grab the reins, and pick up where you left off?


I also understand that you took information from my PRIVATE IP address, as well as my PRIVATE profile, like my home state, and chose to disclose that in this PUBLIC thread. Is that even legal? Are mods allowed to post your private information? Clearly I chose to mask my home state for liability purposes, and here you are disclosing it to the world. Isn't there a privacy policy about this somewhere or no? If that is in fact allowed, then I will make sure to make it a point to spread the word about the integrity and privacy of this particular daycare forum, and let everyone know that you disclose private information publicly.

What an abuse of power. Pulling information from a person's private profile and publishing it on a public forum for your own vainglorious personal gain.

The Mod Gods have gone too far. What kind of a dictatorship is this?

Can we PLEASE all just move on, or do you have some more redundant, half-thought out words to spew? I am sick of this, however I will continue to defend myself if you continue to attack me. I was only attempting to gain information.

I beseech you.... again.... drop it and let's move on.

[busymommy0420]

This thread reminds me of my teenage son and my heated discussions...Who will get the last word? And will it ever end???

I have enjoyed this online soap opera but hope everyone can have forgiveness and love in their hearts and remember daycare is about the children and getting this heated online has to have some effect on our moods at home.

Peace & Love to all! lovethis

[Daycaremomof2]

One last thing:

Many of my so called "controversial" threads have received over a thousand views in a matter of days, and have more than 1 page of responses.

Clearly the people are interested in the topics that I have posted, and knowledge has been gained.

Maybe that is a good thing ::

[daycare]

One last thing:

Many of my so called "controversial" threads have received over a thousand views in a matter of days, and have more than 1 page of responses.

Clearly the people are interested in the topics that I have posted, and knowledge has been gained.

Maybe that is a good thing ::

ummmm seriously can you just keep your word and DROP IT!!!! MOVE ON.............

BTW I have only read your last post that said you were moving on. The only reason i even know about this whole mess is because I am also a moderator and was informed by the other mods as well...

[My3cents]

Stop blowing things out of proportion. Grow up. Get real. This is a daycare forum. I asked daycare questions. I wanted daycare information. Each time you post something you make everything sound worse and worse than reality. Get things in perspective. You don't like my questions or posts- ok I get it, but get over it. I got the information I needed. Isn't that the purpose of this forum- information? This isn't facebook people.

Again- I was searching for information. I apologize that you do not understand the methodology behind the search. I started this thread to let whomever it bothered know that I was apologetic, and I admitted to the things that I said so that it was out in the open. I even tried to drop it and move on, and told everyone to enjoy the rest of their week. I made several attempts to be the bigger person. YOU are the one who will not stop it. Let it go.

I am sorry that you do not understand the words devil's advocate and methodology. I understand that the overall concept may be difficult to comprehend. You have probably never been exposed to the scientific method before. You have probably never conducted you own cognitive research laboratory before either, nor have you statistically analyzed empiracle evidence, nor have you done any type of research study of any kind. Your words are a reflection of your lack of understanding concerning my methodology, and I don't blame you for your ignorance. Let me provide an analogy that you might understand: it's like asking an infant to start potty training- they just can't do it, and don't understand the overall goal quite yet. You can't blame them for that.

I'm sorry that it seems so out of the ordinary to have a double major undergraduate degree and a master's degree; where I am from, that is very typical. I'm sorry that you couldn't help yourself but to be childish and make more rude comments after my initial apology, and I'm sorry that I feel cornered to even have to say these things to you. I'm sorry that, after I said all is forgotton and let's move on, that you just have to keep flapping your gums.

I'm sorry that you can't let it go, and I'm sorry that reading this post right now is probably the highlight of your day. I bet you can't wait to come back with some facetious, self-righteous comment, with your gaggle of followers begging for the scraps from your table while cheering you on. I'm sorry that you feel the need to read and re-read all of my posts. Do you not have anything better to do? If they bothered you so much initially why do you keep reading them? Are you masochistic?

And I'm sorry that people are actually buying all of your crap. Sure, you have lots of great daycare ideas, that's your niche, and for that I applaud you. But you have become extremely narcissistic; as I am willing to bet the farm that this isn't the first forum squabble you have been a part of. Your continual pattern of forum squabbles throughout time with a variety of different people are clearly indicative of some sort of superiority complex. You're just dying to jump in the ring, aren't you? That's called a lack of inhibitory behavior control- you just can't help yourself can you? I challenge you NOT to respond to this anymore and just drop it. Can you do it? Maybe one of your many followers will grab the reins, and pick up where you left off?


I also understand that you took information from my PRIVATE IP address, as well as my PRIVATE profile, like my home state, and chose to disclose that in this PUBLIC thread. Is that even legal? Are mods allowed to post your private information? Clearly I chose to mask my home state for liability purposes, and here you are disclosing it to the world. Isn't there a privacy policy about this somewhere or no? If that is in fact allowed, then I will make sure to make it a point to spread the word about the integrity and privacy of this particular daycare forum, and let everyone know that you disclose private information publicly.

What an abuse of power. Pulling information from a person's private profile and publishing it on a public forum for your own vainglorious personal gain.

The Mod Gods have gone too far. What kind of a dictatorship is this?

Can we PLEASE all just move on, or do you have some more redundant, half-thought out words to spew? I am sick of this, however I will continue to defend myself if you continue to attack me. I was only attempting to gain information.

I beseech you.... again.... drop it and let's move on.

you sound nuts.......drop it and move on. This is a waste and beyond childish. I feel like I went to the forum, but got lossed and found the coo coo farm instead-

In all seriousness it might be time for meds or a med adjustment- not kidding:confused:

[Daycaremomof2]

you sound nuts.......drop it and move on. This is a waste and beyond childish. I feel like I went to the forum, but got lossed and found the coo coo farm instead-

In all seriousness it might be time for meds or a med adjustment- not kidding:confused:

Yet here you are, taking time out of your day to respond. Who is really the one needing medication? If you dont want to get lost, I suggest you press the back button on your browser and read another thread.

[Daycaremomof2]

ummmm seriously can you just keep your word and DROP IT!!!! MOVE ON.............

I have no problem doing that, but I will defend myself each and every time someone attacks me.

I will say nothing more on this thread ever again if none of you do.

[Michael]

I've PM'd several of you and would like everyone to move on. FYI, only an Admin can view/change/delete an account. We have monderators on this forum and they do not have access to anyone's account. I am the Admin.

[nannyde]

Stop blowing things out of proportion. Grow up. Get real. This is a daycare forum. I asked daycare questions. I wanted daycare information. Each time you post something you make everything sound worse and worse than reality. Get things in perspective. You don't like my questions or posts- ok I get it, but get over it. I got the information I needed. Isn't that the purpose of this forum- information? This isn't facebook people.

Again- I was searching for information. I apologize that you do not understand the methodology behind the search. I started this thread to let whomever it bothered know that I was apologetic, and I admitted to the things that I said so that it was out in the open. I even tried to drop it and move on, and told everyone to enjoy the rest of their week. I made several attempts to be the bigger person. YOU are the one who will not stop it. Let it go.

I am sorry that you do not understand the words devil's advocate and methodology. I understand that the overall concept may be difficult to comprehend. You have probably never been exposed to the scientific method before. You have probably never conducted you own cognitive research laboratory before either, nor have you statistically analyzed empiracle evidence, nor have you done any type of research study of any kind. Your words are a reflection of your lack of understanding concerning my methodology, and I don't blame you for your ignorance. Let me provide an analogy that you might understand: it's like asking an infant to start potty training- they just can't do it, and don't understand the overall goal quite yet. You can't blame them for that.

I'm sorry that it seems so out of the ordinary to have a double major undergraduate degree and a master's degree; where I am from, that is very typical. I'm sorry that you couldn't help yourself but to be childish and make more rude comments after my initial apology, and I'm sorry that I feel cornered to even have to say these things to you. I'm sorry that, after I said all is forgotton and let's move on, that you just have to keep flapping your gums.

I'm sorry that you can't let it go, and I'm sorry that reading this post right now is probably the highlight of your day. I bet you can't wait to come back with some facetious, self-righteous comment, with your gaggle of followers begging for the scraps from your table while cheering you on. I'm sorry that you feel the need to read and re-read all of my posts. Do you not have anything better to do? If they bothered you so much initially why do you keep reading them? Are you masochistic?

And I'm sorry that people are actually buying all of your crap. Sure, you have lots of great daycare ideas, that's your niche, and for that I applaud you. But you have become extremely narcissistic; as I am willing to bet the farm that this isn't the first forum squabble you have been a part of. Your continual pattern of forum squabbles throughout time with a variety of different people are clearly indicative of some sort of superiority complex. You're just dying to jump in the ring, aren't you? That's called a lack of inhibitory behavior control- you just can't help yourself can you? I challenge you NOT to respond to this anymore and just drop it. Can you do it? Maybe one of your many followers will grab the reins, and pick up where you left off?


I also understand that you took information from my PRIVATE IP address, as well as my PRIVATE profile, like my home state, and chose to disclose that in this PUBLIC thread. Is that even legal? Are mods allowed to post your private information? Clearly I chose to mask my home state for liability purposes, and here you are disclosing it to the world. Isn't there a privacy policy about this somewhere or no? If that is in fact allowed, then I will make sure to make it a point to spread the word about the integrity and privacy of this particular daycare forum, and let everyone know that you disclose private information publicly.

What an abuse of power. Pulling information from a person's private profile and publishing it on a public forum for your own vainglorious personal gain.

The Mod Gods have gone too far. What kind of a dictatorship is this?

Can we PLEASE all just move on, or do you have some more redundant, half-thought out words to spew? I am sick of this, however I will continue to defend myself if you continue to attack me. I was only attempting to gain information.

I beseech you.... again.... drop it and let's move on.

You put the states out there not us. Do you need a link to those posts? I don't even know where you live because the information you gave us is different depending on what post you look at.

Whatever education you claim is on you. I can prove my degree and I can prove that I'm a Registered Nurse. My name is Tori Fees. I went to Grand View College in Des Moines Iowa and graduated in 1983 with a BSN (which by the way included research and statistics as part of the core curriculum). I live in Des Moines Iowa and I have a current nursing license. Feel free to look me up if you don't believe.

You can call your deceit information gathering or you can call it fluffy white rabbits. It's just words and we know it. Bottom line is that you pretended to be a number of different people with a number of different stories and you got got.

Have some respect for this board and the hard work we have put into it to make it the greatest resource on the net for all things day care. Getting view counts is great but what the numbers reflect are views of a wrong done on an unsuspecting group of women who are doing a great community service by providing free information and helping those in need of real advice. We don't need to be tricked into giving it... we do it because we dig what we do, we care about each other, and we lovethis kids.

Those of us who are standing up to your ruse are doing it because we love this place and it means a lot to us. We all built this archive.. this treasure trove of information... and we are going to protect it.

[Sugar Magnolia]

I've PM'd several of you and would like everyone to move on. FYI, only an Admin can view/change/delete an account. We have monderators on this forum and they do not have access to anyone's account. I am the Admin.

Thank You Michael! This thread gave me heartburn. ::

[iheartkids]

Wow, kind of feeling like Daycaremomof2 could use SOMEONE on her side. I also have 2 registered names because after I registered I decided I didn't like that part of my name was in my username AND I have posted as unregistered before. Mainly my reason for this is because I was worried about other providers in my area figuring out who I was and using any info I write about as a way to judge or critique me. To me part of the nice thing about getting online to find advice is the anonymity of it. I have friends that are also providers, but I come here when I'm too embarrassed to ask them the questions or I want to vent and I don't want to bother my real friends with that.
Reading this thread makes me feel like I'm watching a playground fight (like 2 against 30). I haven't even read what she wrote but the reaction is a major turn off. People are calling her names and just going off. Why do they not have to follow the "RESPECT" rule?

[Michael]

Wow, kind of feeling like Daycaremomof2 could use SOMEONE on her side. I also have 2 registered names because after I registered I decided I didn't like that part of my name was in my username AND I have posted as unregistered before. Mainly my reason for this is because I was worried about other providers in my area figuring out who I was and using any info I write about as a way to judge or critique me. To me part of the nice thing about getting online to find advice is the anonymity of it. I have friends that are also providers, but I come here when I'm too embarrassed to ask them the questions or I want to vent and I don't want to bother my real friends with that.
Reading this thread makes me feel like I'm watching a playground fight (like 2 against 30). I haven't even read what she wrote but the reaction is a major turn off. People are calling her names and just going off. Why do they not have to follow the "RESPECT" rule?

I can always change your username if you'd like. PM me.