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I just want my vehicle fixed with the Ford service and quality I have received in the past.
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I am tired of tired dcks.
1 spends the morning whining about how tired he is and alternates between lying on the floor and running around like a wild man. He naps well for me but the mornings are draining the life out of me.
The other has never napped well and now doesn't nap at all. She is only 19 mos and her schedule has been floppy since she was out sick a while back. She just came back from being sick again and spent the morning whining, 'rested' in her cot and then had meltdown after meltdown in the afternoon because she was so tired. I don't care if they are done in 3 months. Dcm is getting the "She needs to get back on our schedule and nap for me or I will not be able to continue care for her" spiel as soon as the holidays are over.
ETA: Just got a text from mom that they let her sleep in this morning... guess who probably won't nap for me today.
I have been actively trying to replace them both for the past few months but it is slower than molasses here for new recruits. The ones that i have interviewed all have NAP issues.
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Thank, dcm, for completely ignoring all safe sleep regulations I'm required to follow with your 7 week old. Lets list the ways shall we?
1. Sleeps in a swing during the day and bouncy seat at night.
2. When baby DOES sleep in his pack n play or crib you have him on his side. You say it's so the back of his head doesn't get flat. Well, with all of his time in the swing and bouncy seat the back of his head is flat and not just a little bit.
3. Blankets. So many blankets.
On another note, when I asked how often and how much he eats at a time I got the answer of 4 oz every 4 hours. The last 3 days here he's eating every 1-3 hrs and he snacks, an oz here an oz there. Come to find out it's because you bottle prop and "just make a new bottle every 4 hours and prop it up for him" while he's in his bouncy seat or swing.
You also told me he didn't spit up much. :: You could've told me that his first day here was his first full day on formula, with a bottle he had never used. That would explain why I was dealing with Mount Vesuvius every time he ate.
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Have a new family starting next week. A 9 month old. Great interview but the meeting to give them paperwork and get to know in more detail of their daughter's day gave huge red flags. Terrible napper, baby led weaning(which I don't agree with), sick all the time. They're coming from a center so I know they just take kids sick, I had to explain that I don't do sick care. I told them baby food needs to be provided for her, they commented about how they just want her to eat table food as much as possible. Ummm, no. I told them that not every meal I make for the older kids would be appropriate for her age and I don't make different meals for different kids. She has no teeth!!! After asking several times what their times would be because I try to contract hours, it's been so hard in my area to do, they couldn't give me a solid answer. Asked me how much room in my freezer to store breastmilk. I laughed and said I don't store any more than i should need for a couple days at a time.
What bothers me is that everyone thinks your whole house is up for grabs for their needs and their childs. My daycare space is shared as I am on one level, I have to install an egress window to do care in the basement. I have one room that is dedicated to the daycare, which is mainly nursery and sleeping stuff along with some toys. The rest of my home except for my room is daycare and living space. Also, I'm a single mom and I hate when my days off are questioned. I need one on one time with my 2 year old and he gets sick of daycare towards the end of the week. They don't seem to understand that I'm cleaning, caring for their children, and my business and doing the work of mothering after work, that during the week, there's no fun time with my son. Anyway, whew, glad to just get that off my chest!- Flag
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Have a new family starting next week. A 9 month old. Great interview but the meeting to give them paperwork and get to know in more detail of their daughter's day gave huge red flags. Terrible napper, baby led weaning(which I don't agree with), sick all the time. They're coming from a center so I know they just take kids sick, I had to explain that I don't do sick care. I told them baby food needs to be provided for her, they commented about how they just want her to eat table food as much as possible. Ummm, no. I told them that not every meal I make for the older kids would be appropriate for her age and I don't make different meals for different kids. She has no teeth!!! After asking several times what their times would be because I try to contract hours, it's been so hard in my area to do, they couldn't give me a solid answer. Asked me how much room in my freezer to store breastmilk. I laughed and said I don't store any more than i should need for a couple days at a time.
What bothers me is that everyone thinks your whole house is up for grabs for their needs and their childs. My daycare space is shared as I am on one level, I have to install an egress window to do care in the basement. I have one room that is dedicated to the daycare, which is mainly nursery and sleeping stuff along with some toys. The rest of my home except for my room is daycare and living space. Also, I'm a single mom and I hate when my days off are questioned. I need one on one time with my 2 year old and he gets sick of daycare towards the end of the week. They don't seem to understand that I'm cleaning, caring for their children, and my business and doing the work of mothering after work, that during the week, there's no fun time with my son. Anyway, whew, glad to just get that off my chest!, no option there. As to contract hrs... if they can't give me definant hours of care that are 10 or less hrs a day then I don't write the contract (always done in person when deposit is made). That and bringing a kid sick would make me say sorry not a good fit right there.
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First day back (yesterday) from vacation and I swear, I almost quit. I almost called them all and closed my doors.
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I just saw a documentary about this on TV the other night. It talked about the minute details of the area and how JK Rowling insisted on being part of the construction of it so that everything was exact.- Flag
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Here in TN licensing requires we allow soft finger foods, teeth or not, once a child can sit at the table (most mine starts by 7-8 months) - I'm infants only & prefer to mush up stuff that the older kids eat so babies don't fight over something different too (baby led weaning allowed here). You would be surprised how much of the stuff younger ones can manage that the older toddlers eat. As to BM, I only keep a 16oz back up in the freezer & they send fresh daily, no option there. As to contract hrs... if they can't give me definant hours of care that are 10 or less hrs a day then I don't write the contract (always done in person when deposit is made). That and bringing a kid sick would make me say sorry not a good fit right there.
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LUCKY DUCK! happyface- Flag
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Worst nap ever! I don't think we've had the whole room sleeping all at one time yet. We just get them all sleeping and then someone wakes up and cries. Then they fall back asleep and someone else wakes up. For the past hour and 40 mins!- Flag
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