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  • SandeeAR
    Advanced Daycare.com Member
    • Sep 2010
    • 1192

    #16
    [QUOTE=momatheart;108851]One thing i have said before to a parent who does NOT have any control in her house was, How do you deal with this behavior at home? We may need to do the same here. She was speachless and didn't say a word. CAUSE SHE DOESN'T [QUOTE]



    OH!!!! I REALLY like this!!! I'll have to remember that one!

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    • nannyde
      All powerful, all knowing daycare whisperer
      • Mar 2010
      • 7320

      #17
      Originally posted by momatheart
      One thing i have said before to a parent who does NOT have any control in her house was, How do you deal with this behavior at home? We may need to do the same here. She was speachless and didn't say a word. CAUSE SHE DOESN'T do anything and we know it.
      Naw
      The best defense is a good offense.

      How do you deal with this behavior at home?

      We don't have this behavior at home.

      clear
      http://www.amazon.com/Daycare-Whispe...=doing+daycare

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      • Meyou
        Advanced Daycare.com Member
        • Feb 2011
        • 2734

        #18
        Originally posted by melskids
        well, dont'cha know thats WHY they dont sleep well at night? cause we let 'em sleep all day here
        Well how am I going to watch soaps and eat bon bons if they're all awake??

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        • daycare
          Advanced Daycare.com *********
          • Feb 2011
          • 16259

          #19
          Nannyne you made hot coffee come out my nose... Lol
          That was funny!!


          CLEAR!!

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          • seashell
            Senior Member
            • Apr 2009
            • 180

            #20
            Dont ya know anything good they do is because they are good parents, and anything bad they do is because they learned it in daycare???

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            • Blackcat31
              • Oct 2010
              • 36124

              #21
              Originally posted by Meeko60
              In the 25 years I have been doing child care I have noticed an interesting phenomenon.

              Children only ever mis-behave at day care. At home they are completely angelic 24/7.

              At least that's what the parents say..........
              See, now I have the exact opposite here. ALL my dck's are basically very well behaved and act appropriately but as soon as a parent walks in they become one of Rosemary's offspring!!! I get parents always saying, "How come they aren't good at home but are so good here?" (I NEVER answer BTW) I just smile and say "I wouldn't do this if they weren't."

              Seems the behavior of the child is directly related to the caregiver. Hmmm, NOT a new concept but a tough one to digest for some.

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              • WDW
                Daycare.com Member
                • Apr 2011
                • 238

                #22
                Originally posted by momatheart
                One thing i have said before to a parent who does NOT have any control in her house was, How do you deal with this behavior at home? We may need to do the same here. She was speachless and didn't say a word. CAUSE SHE DOESN'T do anything and we know it.
                LOVE this! Using it!

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                • dEHmom
                  Advanced Daycare.com Member
                  • Dec 2010
                  • 2355

                  #23
                  Originally posted by Blackcat31
                  See, now I have the exact opposite here. ALL my dck's are basically very well behaved and act appropriately but as soon as a parent walks in they become one of Rosemary's offspring!!! I get parents always saying, "How come they aren't good at home but are so good here?" (I NEVER answer BTW) I just smile and say "I wouldn't do this if they weren't."

                  Seems the behavior of the child is directly related to the caregiver. Hmmm, NOT a new concept but a tough one to digest for some.
                  nailed it...

                  i just want to say....

                  CLEAR! yay

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                  • Meyou
                    Advanced Daycare.com Member
                    • Feb 2011
                    • 2734

                    #24
                    Originally posted by Blackcat31
                    See, now I have the exact opposite here. ALL my dck's are basically very well behaved and act appropriately but as soon as a parent walks in they become one of Rosemary's offspring!!! I get parents always saying, "How come they aren't good at home but are so good here?" (I NEVER answer BTW) I just smile and say "I wouldn't do this if they weren't."

                    Seems the behavior of the child is directly related to the caregiver. Hmmm, NOT a new concept but a tough one to digest for some.
                    Hahaha. I hear the same thing. I tell them my kids are the worst of the bunch to make them feel better. :P

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                    • busymomof2
                      Daycare.com Member
                      • Jun 2010
                      • 171

                      #25
                      I had a 3 year old boy who was acting out bad- slamming doors, talking back, hitting, and so on. I talked to the bm about it and she told me he acts out because I put him on time out. Hello I wouldn't have to put him on time out if he didn't act up. Parents...do they really hear what they are saying? LOL

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                      • Meeko
                        Advanced Daycare.com Member
                        • Mar 2011
                        • 4349

                        #26
                        Originally posted by Blackcat31
                        See, now I have the exact opposite here. ALL my dck's are basically very well behaved and act appropriately but as soon as a parent walks in they become one of Rosemary's offspring!!! I get parents always saying, "How come they aren't good at home but are so good here?" (I NEVER answer BTW) I just smile and say "I wouldn't do this if they weren't."

                        Seems the behavior of the child is directly related to the caregiver. Hmmm, NOT a new concept but a tough one to digest for some.
                        I was being sarcastic!

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                        • Blackcat31
                          • Oct 2010
                          • 36124

                          #27
                          Originally posted by Meeko60
                          I was being sarcastic!
                          Oh, I know... I was simply adding to the same thought process. Sorry if it came out as something else....

                          Message boards need something like a color coded key for tone like:

                          red colored font for when we are yelling at someone
                          green fonts for jealous
                          orange font for sarcasim
                          blue for sympathy
                          maybe purple for when we are being snide...
                          etc...etc...etc....

                          LOL!!

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                          • dEHmom
                            Advanced Daycare.com Member
                            • Dec 2010
                            • 2355

                            #28
                            Originally posted by Blackcat31
                            Oh, I know... I was simply adding to the same thought process. Sorry if it came out as something else....

                            Message boards need something like a color coded key for tone like:

                            red colored font for when we are yelling at someone YES BUT THAT IS WHAT CAPS IS FOR!
                            green fonts for jealous
                            orange font for sarcasim
                            blue for sympathy
                            maybe purple for when we are being snide...
                            etc...etc...etc....

                            LOL!!
                            hehehehe my msg is too short

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                            • Blackcat31
                              • Oct 2010
                              • 36124

                              #29
                              Originally posted by dEHmom
                              hehehehe my msg is too short
                              LOSING CONTROL CAN'T GET A GRIP, SPITTING WHILE YELLING vs REGULAR YELLING (???) LOL!!!::

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                              • daycare
                                Advanced Daycare.com *********
                                • Feb 2011
                                • 16259

                                #30
                                Originally posted by Blackcat31
                                LOSING CONTROL CAN'T GET A GRIP, SPITTING WHILE YELLING vs REGULAR YELLING (???) LOL!!!::
                                love it!!!!!

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