2 Year Old Bully!

[Live and Learn]

::I hear ya'::,

Like I said he would have been long gone here. I keep a non violent daycare so that everyone can remain safe.

It will be an act of kindness when you term him and send him him lovingly on towards a provider who probably has way fewer children so that they have the time to shadow him and give him a fresh start.

When I say "the love is gone" it is obvious from all of your exclamation points and capital letters that you are not loving the situation that you are choosing to remain in.

Good luck.

[Mrs.Ky]

Why am I keeping him? Well I may or may not be! This post sounds absolutely horrible in which it is.... However I would like to say this since it has been mentioned that the love is obviously gone! In which is NOT true what so ever, if the love was gone he would have been out a LONG time ago! I show my love over and over again by continueing to try along with countless other ways!! I will continue to show my love by terminating this child if things aren't improving greatly in the next few weeks! My love will be shown in this simply because it isn't working, the child needs help from someone who can give it to him in a better manner than I! If my consistency, my structure, myself, my group and my home are not working for him than why would I keep him here - that would NOT be loving!! My last resort is to get everyone on board NOW, not tomorrow, not next week, not in a month, NOW! If at that point things aren't comming around well then he needs to move on because I simply can't do for him what he needs and by myself making that decision is LOVE in itself! The reasons why I want it to work and not want him to leave goes on and on, however I didn't explain these reasons because that isn't the problem at hand! But since this post sounds horrible I am going to list just a few reasons why I LOVE having him here to show that the Love isn't gone: Every morning my door pops open and he greets me with the grinnyiest "Good Morning Megan!" He is as cute as a bugs ear and even though there is mischief behind his smile he has one alot of the day and I love that about him! He is squishy and loveable and always is willing to give me a hug! He is adventurous, imaginitive and fun! His parents are respectful of my hours! They are considerate and understanding if I need time off! They ALWAYS pay on time! They show up on time and call if they will be late at dropping him off even if it is for 5 mins! The love certainly isn't gone and I could go on and on to show this! He has some behavior issues that are aggressive and that is all and I came on here looking for advice on what my next step should be! I do certainly love and care for him just as much as I do all of the families I care for and that is why I have tried and why I will term if need be!

I didnt want you to think I was saying YOU where throwing your dcb out like trash I just meant ive seen it before and its been done to my own child at his school. Good luck I hope you and Mom have a good meeting and she understands where you are coming from if he doesnt improve he might do better in a smaller group or with a Nanny who can provide one on one care. I wish you and his Mother all the best of luck and hopefully he out grows it and he doesnt have anything wrong.