When Your Own School Teenagers Are Home On Break

[Cat Herder]

heres the thing my daughter is home from school, she is not my assistant she is not watching the kids, she is just physically here... she saw a kid doing something dangerous and asked them to stop.... its obvious in this case that the child was doing something wrong as the wall with huge holes in it is proof.

I understood that... I am just letting you know our regulations in case your's are the same.

I definitely would tell the mom of the damage, etc... but would probably leave out the "disrespecting" your daughter part. That's all...

I am always surprised at how angry/catty parents can get when you are telling them their child was misbehaved/destructive. They almost always look for something else to blame.... I just don't want your DD get her feelings hurt if they do try to turn it around on her....YKWIM?

She sounds wonderful...

[daycare]

Yea makes 100% sense and a great point.
My dd already feels sad that the DCK is so disrespectful to her and now she said she does not want to play or help them any more.
. Oh well sounds like it's time for DD to go to her friends house.
Thanks for the advice!!!