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  • Annalee
    Daycare.com Member
    • Jul 2012
    • 5864

    #46
    Originally posted by daycarediva
    My daycare facebook page is set as a private person- and daycare parents add me as a friend.

    Last night, dcb went out to dinner and then to grandma's. The parents had plans to see a show in the city. They 1. rewarded him and 2. had time together, and therefor lied to ME about dcd's work schedule.

    It's no wonder dcb thinks it's acceptable to lie. SO DONE.
    Children learn more from seeing actions than any word spoken! This child seems to have been taught well.....how to lie!

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    • daycarediva
      Daycare.com Member
      • Jul 2012
      • 11698

      #47
      She filed a complaint. I just got a phone call from my registrar to tell me. The complaint is serious and about me. She said my reputation in the child and family resources community would be a huge help moving forward. I am fighting tears, I really just want to quit, hand everyone notice and never open my doors again.

      I already had my paperwork ducks in a row. Just did a quick check of the house and picked up a little. Nothing left to do but wait for the knock.

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      • sharlan
        Daycare.com Member
        • May 2011
        • 6067

        #48
        Print out every single bit of communication that you have between you and mom. Write down conversations between you and child. Have everything in writing to hand to your registrar. Be sure to keep a copy for yourself.

        I am so sorry that you are going through this. I understand how you feel. I never got that call, but I did shut down my business for 3 years.

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        • Annalee
          Daycare.com Member
          • Jul 2012
          • 5864

          #49
          Originally posted by daycarediva
          She filed a complaint. I just got a phone call from my registrar to tell me. The complaint is serious and about me. She said my reputation in the child and family resources community would be a huge help moving forward. I am fighting tears, I really just want to quit, hand everyone notice and never open my doors again.

          I already had my paperwork ducks in a row. Just did a quick check of the house and picked up a little. Nothing left to do but wait for the knock.
          :hug::hug:

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          • Ariana
            Advanced Daycare.com Member
            • Jun 2011
            • 8969

            #50
            Originally posted by daycarediva
            She filed a complaint. I just got a phone call from my registrar to tell me. The complaint is serious and about me. She said my reputation in the child and family resources community would be a huge help moving forward. I am fighting tears, I really just want to quit, hand everyone notice and never open my doors again.

            I already had my paperwork ducks in a row. Just did a quick check of the house and picked up a little. Nothing left to do but wait for the knock.
            Oh no!!

            This is ridiculous. :hug:

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            • hope
              Daycare.com Member
              • Feb 2013
              • 1513

              #51
              Originally posted by daycarediva
              She filed a complaint. I just got a phone call from my registrar to tell me. The complaint is serious and about me. She said my reputation in the child and family resources community would be a huge help moving forward. I am fighting tears, I really just want to quit, hand everyone notice and never open my doors again.

              I already had my paperwork ducks in a row. Just did a quick check of the house and picked up a little. Nothing left to do but wait for the knock.
              I'm so sorry. This is not fair. I wouldn't fight the tears. Have a good cry. Then breath and know that the truth is on your side.

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              • e.j.
                Daycare.com Member
                • Dec 2010
                • 3738

                #52
                Wow. Dcm didn't waste any time calling licensing after you termed them. Since she had acknowledged the fact that her kid was lying, it's purely vindictive on her end. I'm always amazed at how malicious people can be. I'm so sorry you're going through this.

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                • Rockgirl
                  Daycare.com Member
                  • May 2013
                  • 2204

                  #53
                  I'm so sorry.

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                  • Second Home
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • Jan 2014
                    • 1567

                    #54
                    Ugh . At least your registrar knew about the situation ahead of time , hopefully that will help you out . Also good that you have all the messages from the dcm.

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                    • childcaremom
                      Advanced Daycare.com Member
                      • May 2013
                      • 2955

                      #55
                      :hug:

                      You've had good advice and handled it well and professionally.

                      So sorry you are having to deal with this on top of everything else.

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                      • NeedaVaca
                        Daycare.com Member
                        • Mar 2012
                        • 2276

                        #56
                        I am SOOO sorry and SOOO pissed at DCM!! WTH??? Deep breaths, you will be ok! I'm just sitting here shaking my head saying why why why are people so cruel??

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                        • Unregistered

                          #57
                          She is the C word. Wow, gutsy B.

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                          • Josiegirl
                            Daycare.com Member
                            • Jun 2013
                            • 10834

                            #58
                            She filed a complaint? Even after admitting her son was lying and dcd saying what he said to dcb?? So all she wants to do is cause you misery, worry and grief? What a winner.
                            You have all that written down though right? The conversations/texts where you exchanged words about dcb being a liar?
                            Try not to drive yourself insane thinking about it all. The state, I'm sure, has to follow up on these kinds of things, no matter how crazy they are. All it takes is one rotten person to make any of our lives a living he!!. I'm sorry there's one in your life.

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                            • Play Care
                              Daycare.com Member
                              • Dec 2012
                              • 6642

                              #59
                              Originally posted by daycarediva
                              She filed a complaint. I just got a phone call from my registrar to tell me. The complaint is serious and about me. She said my reputation in the child and family resources community would be a huge help moving forward. I am fighting tears, I really just want to quit, hand everyone notice and never open my doors again.

                              I already had my paperwork ducks in a row. Just did a quick check of the house and picked up a little. Nothing left to do but wait for the knock.
                              What an a$$!!
                              Sending prayers and good thoughts your way.

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                              • MissAnn
                                Preschool Teacher
                                • Jan 2011
                                • 2213

                                #60
                                I am so mad!!!!!!!! Worst part of this job....accusations. So unfair.

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