DCM Tries To Make Other DCK Envious Of Her Kids

[crazydaycarelady]

Do you think she is intentionally trying to make the other kids feel bad, or just trying to bribe her kids to come with her without a fuss?

[Laurel]

Okay this is BAD and I WOULD NOT do it but the minute she whipped out the Skittles I'd love to take a basket off the shelf with some goodies in it and say. "Oh those look good. Well Susie's mom I plan to give these to the children when Susie leaves (pull out some treat) so they will have a treat too. Now they won't have to feel bad when Susie shows them a treat that they can't have. So we'll all have a treat, isn't that fun?"

If she balks then say "Well if she wants to share her Skittles than we can share our M & M's."

But really have you tried saying "Please give those to Susie in the car because it makes the other children feel bad when they see Susie with something that they can't have. You understand that, right?" Big smile.

Laurel

[Laurel]

Do you think she is intentionally trying to make the other kids feel bad, or just trying to bribe her kids to come with her without a fuss?

That is possible too.

Laurel

[Unregistered]

At our daycare, we have a policy that states that Friday is share day!!!