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    Would It Bother You?

    My daycare room has a big picture window and you can see when parents pull up. I don't know why it bothers me but it does. I have a daycare dad who will sit in front of the daycare talking on his cell phone for 15 or 20 minutes when his son can see him through the window he crys gets upset and I just tell him it's ok daddy will be in to get you in a minute. I hate when he talks on the phone for 20 minutes and waits in the car until the last minute until I close . Would it bother you? Would you take the kid out to him? Would you say anything or let it go? I just feel like you need to get your kid and go so the next parent can park and come in. It's just rude!
  • Blackcat31
    • Oct 2010
    • 36124

    #2
    Originally posted by Unregistered
    My daycare room has a big picture window and you can see when parents pull up. I don't know why it bothers me but it does. I have a daycare dad who will sit in front of the daycare talking on his cell phone for 15 or 20 minutes when his son can see him through the window he crys gets upset and I just tell him it's ok daddy will be in to get you in a minute. I hate when he talks on the phone for 20 minutes and waits in the car until the last minute until I close . Would it bother you? Would you take the kid out to him? Would you say anything or let it go? I just feel like you need to get your kid and go so the next parent can park and come in. It's just rude!
    Once a parent enters my property (including the driveway) they MUST come in immediately. If they want to chat on the phone, they need to do it off site.

    I am very verbal about that too. ESPECIALLY if their child is old enough to see them.

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    • craftymissbeth
      Legally Unlicensed
      • May 2012
      • 2385

      #3
      "DCD, as soon as you pull into the driveway you need to come in and get dcb."

      If you really feel like telling him why he needs to then I'd tell him what you said... it disrupts his child's day to see him outside AND (and this would be the biggest reason for me) he's blocking the freaking driveway.

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      • SignMeUp
        Family ChildCare Provider
        • Jan 2014
        • 1325

        #4
        Most of mine 'run out the clock' sitting on the public street outside my yard.
        Annoying? Yes. The kids notice and wonder why their parent is not coming.
        I tell the parents. Does it change? Not one single time so far

        It kind of seems like nothing works anymore unless there is a dollar sign attached. And sometimes that doesn't even work

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        • Play Care
          Daycare.com Member
          • Dec 2012
          • 6642

          #5
          I agree with the others. I've walked kids out to their parent with a "see you tomorrow!"

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          • Hunni Bee
            False Sense Of Authority
            • Feb 2011
            • 2397

            #6
            Really?

            You have to use up every last second you "think" you're paying for??

            I know, I know. This is just one of the things that burns me up. Your kid has waited all day to see you. Don't do that to them.

            Jeez.

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            • melilley
              Daycare.com Member
              • Oct 2012
              • 5155

              #7
              Ugh, I had one like that too. She would even come in on her phone and sign thank you to me and leave. Then she would call to ask about dcb's day, later.

              I eventually would just talk normally or a little louder when she was here and on her phone. So annoying! She is no longer a dcp here, but in the future, I would definitely say something!

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              • Kabob
                Daycare.com Member
                • Jun 2013
                • 1106

                #8
                My property is for my personal and daycare use only.

                "Hey Jim Bob, please use my driveway for drop offs and pick ups only. It is really disruptive to our day if you linger here for any other reason. Thank you for being so understanding! "

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                • Blackcat31
                  • Oct 2010
                  • 36124

                  #9
                  You might want to try and call the DCD while he is sitting in the driveway.

                  Most cell phones have call waiting. I would call until he answered and tell him you can see him, as can his son and that he needs to hang up and come in.

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                  • spinnymarie
                    mac n peas
                    • May 2013
                    • 890

                    #10
                    Love this idea.
                    Originally posted by Blackcat31
                    You might want to try and call the DCD while he is sitting in the driveway.

                    Most cell phones have call waiting. I would call until he answered and tell him you can see him, as can his son and that he needs to hang up and come in.

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                    • lovemykidstoo
                      Daycare.com Member
                      • Aug 2012
                      • 4740

                      #11
                      Originally posted by Blackcat31
                      You might want to try and call the DCD while he is sitting in the driveway.

                      Most cell phones have call waiting. I would call until he answered and tell him you can see him, as can his son and that he needs to hang up and come in.
                      LOVE IT!!happyface

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                      • originalkat
                        Daycare.com Member
                        • Dec 2009
                        • 1392

                        #12
                        I would just tell him plainly that he needs to come in when he pulls into the driveway because his son can see him through the window and does not understand why daddy isn't coming in. THANKS! If he did not comply, I would get the kids coat on and walk him out to the car.

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                        • Josiegirl
                          Daycare.com Member
                          • Jun 2013
                          • 10834

                          #13
                          I would definitely let dcd know that it upsets his child to see him out there and you need your driveway space for pick-ups, not loitering. Geez, if he wants to sit and talk on his cell he could just park at the local McD's or Walmart and wait to pick up at the last second. Or even better, how 'bout picking ds up at that time and spend that extra 20 minutes with him??!!

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                          • EntropyControlSpecialist
                            Embracing the chaos.
                            • Mar 2012
                            • 7466

                            #14
                            Originally posted by Unregistered
                            My daycare room has a big picture window and you can see when parents pull up. I don't know why it bothers me but it does. I have a daycare dad who will sit in front of the daycare talking on his cell phone for 15 or 20 minutes when his son can see him through the window he crys gets upset and I just tell him it's ok daddy will be in to get you in a minute. I hate when he talks on the phone for 20 minutes and waits in the car until the last minute until I close . Would it bother you? Would you take the kid out to him? Would you say anything or let it go? I just feel like you need to get your kid and go so the next parent can park and come in. It's just rude!
                            If it's the last kid and you know about when his Dad arrives I would be sitting out there drawing with chalk with little Johnny every.single.day. Totally worth getting off of work 15-20 minutes earlier.

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                            • Josiegirl
                              Daycare.com Member
                              • Jun 2013
                              • 10834

                              #15
                              Originally posted by EntropyControlSpecialist
                              If it's the last kid and you know about when his Dad arrives I would be sitting out there drawing with chalk with little Johnny every.single.day. Totally worth getting off of work 15-20 minutes earlier.
                              Or building snowmen?

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