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  • KiddieCahoots
    FCC Educator
    • Mar 2014
    • 1349

    #16
    Originally posted by TaylorTots
    Always. No one can accept a general answer. They poke and prod and if you open up about it, they will jump on you and try to turn it around (well, some will.) It goes from DCB spitting/hitting/arguing/etc to how CCP isn't able to handle the children in her care, etc.

    Don't. Give. Her. More. -- unless you want the storm after. Sound like a record "sorry, made business changes." "sorry, not a good fit for the changes I made" "I wish you the best of luck in the future, I need to go be with my family" shuffle out door and shut.

    Ohhh.... so true! Sometimes it can even be the people who you believed to have been developing a friendship with, that'll show their true colors once you put your foot down.



    Originally posted by Heidi
    I termed a whole family for bad behavior once (4 kids).

    Mom pushed (although she knew), and all I would say was "There is nothing I can say that will make you feel okay with this, so I am not going to discuss reasons".
    ....awesome! I have to remember this. Sweet, simple, direct & professional!

    Love this forum!

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    • Unregistered

      #17
      Originally posted by TaylorTots
      Always. No one can accept a general answer. They poke and prod and if you open up about it, they will jump on you and try to turn it around (well, some will.) It goes from DCB spitting/hitting/arguing/etc to how CCP isn't able to handle the children in her care, etc.

      Don't. Give. Her. More. -- unless you want the storm after. Sound like a record "sorry, made business changes." "sorry, not a good fit for the changes I made" "I wish you the best of luck in the future, I need to go be with my family" shuffle out door and shut.
      And then mail her Nannyde's book anonymously.

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      • Unregistered

        #18
        Originally posted by Heidi

        "There is nothing I can say that will make you feel okay with this, so I am not going to discuss reasons".
        Love this! Stealing (I mean borrowing!) this !

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        • TaylorTots
          Daycare.com Member
          • Dec 2013
          • 609

          #19
          Originally posted by Unregistered
          And then mail her Nannyde's book anonymously.

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          • AmyKidsCo
            Daycare.com Member
            • Mar 2013
            • 3786

            #20
            Originally posted by Baby Beluga
            How does this sound?

            Dear XXXX,

            This letter is to inform you that I will no longer be able to offer my child care services to XXXX effective November 21, 2014. I will continue to provide my regular child care services until this date.

            Thank you for your cooperation and understanding in this matter and I wish you all the best.

            Sincerely,
            XXXXX
            Perfect!! Don't give her any more than that. Also ITA that you should give licensing a heads up if you think she's going to be a problem.

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            • Heidi
              Daycare.com Member
              • Sep 2011
              • 7121

              #21
              Originally posted by Unregistered
              Love this! Stealing (I mean borrowing!) this !
              You know, to give proper credit where it is due, I think long discussions with Blackcat prior to terming lead to me saying that to mom.

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              • e.j.
                Daycare.com Member
                • Dec 2010
                • 3738

                #22
                Originally posted by Unregistered
                And then mail her Nannyde's book anonymously.
                Made me choke on the water I'm drinking! :: Based on so many of the problem parent threads I've read since I became a member here, the child care providers on this forum alone could make Nannyde a millionairess!

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                • Baby Beluga
                  Daycare.com Member
                  • Aug 2014
                  • 3891

                  #23
                  So, gave mom notice at pick-up. She was surprised and of course asked why. I told her business changes and I was no longer able to accommodate her schedule. She asked again and then asked if it was personal. I told her no, business.

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                  • nannyde
                    All powerful, all knowing daycare whisperer
                    • Mar 2010
                    • 7320

                    #24
                    Originally posted by e.j.
                    Made me choke on the water I'm drinking! :: Based on so many of the problem parent threads I've read since I became a member here, the child care providers on this forum alone could make Nannyde a millionairess!
                    I highly recommend gifting my book to parents!
                    http://www.amazon.com/Daycare-Whispe...=doing+daycare

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                    • Unregistered

                      #25
                      Mail the book to the parents. Mail the chocolate to Nannyde ::

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                      • Wednesday!
                        Still Wednesday!
                        • Nov 2014
                        • 175

                        #26
                        Is she still bringing her child until Nov. 21st?

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                        • Baby Beluga
                          Daycare.com Member
                          • Aug 2014
                          • 3891

                          #27
                          Originally posted by Wednesday
                          Is she still bringing her child until Nov. 21st?
                          Nope, child's last day was yesterday which is what I was hoping for anyway

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                          • CraftyMom
                            Daycare.com Member
                            • Jan 2014
                            • 2285

                            #28
                            Did everything go smoothly?

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                            • Cradle2crayons
                              Daycare.com Member
                              • Apr 2013
                              • 3642

                              #29
                              Originally posted by Unregistered
                              And then mail her Nannyde's book anonymously.
                              I wish I was rich because I have several parents if like to mail her book to.

                              But first, ME. I'm still too broke but I'm working a second and third job he last few weekends so I hope I can get it soon!!!!

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                              • Thriftylady
                                Daycare.com Member
                                • Aug 2014
                                • 5884

                                #30
                                Glad it went smoothly!

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