Thanks ladies! I'm definitely going to say something at pick up!
I do have an extra one and do give it to him at nap only. I too only give pacifiers to children over 1 at nap, but you can tell this dcb gets one at other times at home.
Oh and I have another dcb who chewed the end off of his pacifier so I stopped giving it to him at nap and after 2 days of screaming, he was fine. I told mom and she was surprised. Well a few days later, dcb snuck one in the car and when mom dropped off, she saw it. She tried to take it and dcb threw a fit so she let him have it. She did ask first and I did give in because this child has been over the top and I just didn't want to deal with it, plus he still gets it at home. He did give it to me as soon as mom left. Then mom picks up and asks for it so she has one at home.
This situation doesn't really bother me because this dcm isn't trying to take it yet, it's when they say they took it away and really didn't.
And like unregistered said, children can have different rules here than at home and get used to him, but this particular child cries/throws fits a lot and if they're not going to take it away at home, I'm not going to listen to screaming at nap.
I do have an extra one and do give it to him at nap only. I too only give pacifiers to children over 1 at nap, but you can tell this dcb gets one at other times at home.
Oh and I have another dcb who chewed the end off of his pacifier so I stopped giving it to him at nap and after 2 days of screaming, he was fine. I told mom and she was surprised. Well a few days later, dcb snuck one in the car and when mom dropped off, she saw it. She tried to take it and dcb threw a fit so she let him have it. She did ask first and I did give in because this child has been over the top and I just didn't want to deal with it, plus he still gets it at home. He did give it to me as soon as mom left. Then mom picks up and asks for it so she has one at home.

And like unregistered said, children can have different rules here than at home and get used to him, but this particular child cries/throws fits a lot and if they're not going to take it away at home, I'm not going to listen to screaming at nap.
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