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We had a huge blow out on Wednesday. My sub was here and could not handle him. I text my sister to come pick him up (she was already an hour later than she told him she would be, told him she'd pick him up after nap to go play outside).
She accused me of only complaining about my nephew's behaviors because she "didn't do everything I wanted her to do", because she's late on payments, and I treat the other parents better than her because they do follow the rules, pick their children up on time, and pay on time.
Ummmmmm, isn't that following the rules of the business you are patronizing? Instead of thinking you can get away with constantly bending the rules because we're related? I told her she should expect hard feelings when she's taking advantage of our sisterhood, and no, there's no hard feelings with my other parents because they respect my rules, my hours, my personal time, where she does not.
She hasn't brought my nephew since. I'm so sick of her bs attitude and always accusing me of not doing enough, when I do WAY more to work with him than she ever has. She does what's easiest for her, not what's best for him.
He's almost 5 and still gets a sippy cup, he was almost 4 before he potty trained (which I did myself in a week's time). She's lazy. He's not delayed in anyway, she's just delayed in giving a damn. Grrrrrrr!
She blames his behavior on adhd (undiagnosed of course, because she can't be bothered with Dr appointments) and yet she still gives him all kinds of processed foods, high fructose corn syrup and tons of preservatives in the strawberry milk she puts in his SIPPY CUP right before he comes in the mornings, so of course, he's extra wired up. Eliminating processed foods would be too inconvenient for her, so I'm sure he'll end up on medication, which she'll routinely forget to give him.
Oh, and she's 27. Plenty old enough to know how to take care of a child and recognize his needs. Instead, she makes excuses and ignores it, hoping it will just resolve itself. God forbid she would have to, I don't know, make an effort.
Ok. Rant over. Thank you if you made it to the end!
She accused me of only complaining about my nephew's behaviors because she "didn't do everything I wanted her to do", because she's late on payments, and I treat the other parents better than her because they do follow the rules, pick their children up on time, and pay on time.
Ummmmmm, isn't that following the rules of the business you are patronizing? Instead of thinking you can get away with constantly bending the rules because we're related? I told her she should expect hard feelings when she's taking advantage of our sisterhood, and no, there's no hard feelings with my other parents because they respect my rules, my hours, my personal time, where she does not.
She hasn't brought my nephew since. I'm so sick of her bs attitude and always accusing me of not doing enough, when I do WAY more to work with him than she ever has. She does what's easiest for her, not what's best for him.
He's almost 5 and still gets a sippy cup, he was almost 4 before he potty trained (which I did myself in a week's time). She's lazy. He's not delayed in anyway, she's just delayed in giving a damn. Grrrrrrr!
She blames his behavior on adhd (undiagnosed of course, because she can't be bothered with Dr appointments) and yet she still gives him all kinds of processed foods, high fructose corn syrup and tons of preservatives in the strawberry milk she puts in his SIPPY CUP right before he comes in the mornings, so of course, he's extra wired up. Eliminating processed foods would be too inconvenient for her, so I'm sure he'll end up on medication, which she'll routinely forget to give him.
Oh, and she's 27. Plenty old enough to know how to take care of a child and recognize his needs. Instead, she makes excuses and ignores it, hoping it will just resolve itself. God forbid she would have to, I don't know, make an effort.
Ok. Rant over. Thank you if you made it to the end!
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