Would You Term?

[nannyde]

They need their own adult. They are being raised as wild animals so they need to have their own adult to keep them safe.

Did they mention they got booted from the previous sixteen day care's by any chance?

[lynne]

I termed today, They didn't answer the phone and I called 3 times so I texted. Havent heard back.....They were just starting and were going full time, but there is no way i'll ever have them back. LOL Nannyde.. they have been kicked out of the kids gym that they have here. I'm still shaking my head over the whole mess. The kinder teachers here are gonna have a time with them, Did I mention that I know alot of the teachers here? The will be warned..haahaa::

[lynne]

And I wanted to thank you all again for all your help..:hug:

[lynne]

So got a text this morning from DCM...Long..

This is the text I got from DCM..
" hey sorry our phones got disconected and we just got them back on. I am sorry you had such a problem with DCK.( she named the wrong twin)I know they really like to come to your house,I have to find a different daycare now.DCD and I can not take chances on losing our jobs because our kids were not listening.( well if you had taught them to listen it wouldn't be a problem)FYI they have been home with me for 4 years like I said and you could have put on the TV or took them outside.(They lost movie time for running all over my house and goin in off limets ares, and they really need coats hats gloves to go outside it's still winter here.)They get really board inside and also they fell asleep for 2 hours after DCD picked them up,( and you told me they wont nap) I did tell you that they dont listen and that is why I wanted a job and them to go to daycare. I had to leave work and my boss does NOT tolerate me leaving."

So I guess its my fault that her kids are terrors? When i first read this I was thinking what what what? Then I started LOL..DCP really do try to put thing on us dont they...

[sharlan]

This is the text I got from DCM..
" hey sorry our phones got disconected and we just got them back on. I am sorry you had such a problem with DCK.I know they really like to come to your house,I have to find a different daycare now.DCD and I can not take chances on losing our jobs because our kids were not listening.FYI they have been home with me for 4 years like I said and you could have put on the TV or took them outside.They get really board inside and also they fell asleep for 2 hours after DCD picked them up, I did tell you that they dont listen and that is why I wanted a job and them to go to daycare. I had to leave work and my boss does NOT tolerate me leaving."

So I guess its my fault that her kids are terrors? When i first read this I was thinking what what what? Then I started LOL..DCP really do try to put thing on us dont they...

Wow, Mom wanted a job because she's made a mess and doesn't want to deal with it.

You made the right choice in terming.

[lynne]

LOL! I know right?

[Mister Sir Husband]

So the kids were home with her for 4 years, and it's not her fault that they act like they do? She raised little monsters... I almost feel bad for her thinking of the difficulties she's gonna have in the future..

[lynne]

I can't decide to text back or not...What in the world would I say?

[sharlan]

I wouldn't text her back. Stop all communication, it can get ugly real quick.

[CraftyMom]

This is the text I got from DCM..
" hey sorry our phones got disconected and we just got them back on. I am sorry you had such a problem with DCK.( she named the wrong twin)I know they really like to come to your house,I have to find a different daycare now.DCD and I can not take chances on losing our jobs because our kids were not listening.( well if you had taught them to listen it wouldn't be a problem)FYI they have been home with me for 4 years like I said and you could have put on the TV or took them outside.(They lost movie time for running all over my house and goin in off limets ares, and they really need coats hats gloves to go outside it's still winter here.)They get really board inside and also they fell asleep for 2 hours after DCD picked them up,[COLOR="black"]( and you told me they wont nap)[/COLOR] I did tell you that they dont listen and that is why I wanted a job and them to go to daycare. I had to leave work and my boss does NOT tolerate me leaving."

So I guess its my fault that her kids are terrors? When i first read this I was thinking what what what? Then I started LOL..DCP really do try to put thing on us dont they...

Gotta love her logic, in a matter of 2 days its your fault they were running because you didn't put the tv on or keep them outside all day. It's your fault they took a late 2 hour nap because you could not get them to chill out at nap time. It's your fault because, well she told you her kids were maniacs! And it's your fault she had to leave work because her kids are maniacs and her boss is upset. ::

Now it's your fault she has to find new daycare, and if she lost her job that would be your fault too.

Wow you sure have caused a lot of chaos in 2 days! ::

Of course I'm kidding! Most parents will place blame on their daycare provider before themselves any day, ESPECIALLY the ones with crazy hard to control kids!

[CraftyMom]

If you do text back, I would want to say something along the lines of

"You outlined your problem perfectly in your text, dcm. YOU were home with them for 4 years. YOU caused this. YOU can not control them, how do you expect anyone else to?"

[momofboys]

If you do text back, I would want to say something along the lines of

"You outlined your problem perfectly in your text, dcm. YOU were home with them for 4 years. YOU caused this. YOU can not control them, how do you expect anyone else to?"

Bingo!!!!::

[lynne]

Craftymom, I love this and am going to use it...hope thats ok. I live in a very small town and the only person that I think would take them on is my ex boss, She's all about the money.

[daycarediva]

If you do text back, I would want to say something along the lines of

"You outlined your problem perfectly in your text, dcm. YOU were home with them for 4 years. YOU caused this. YOU can not control them, how do you expect anyone else to?"

and I would add when and where things could be retrieved, it there are any, what money is owed that needs to be brought then, if any.

Then I would block her number.

[CraftyMom]

Craftymom, I love this and am going to use it...hope thats ok. I live in a very small town and the only person that I think would take them on is my ex boss, She's all about the money.