"We Hate You"

[MarinaVanessa]

The OP stated there were issues already. I get venting, but using the word "hate" to describe the provider? I'm not comfortable watching a child whose parents may talk like that about me.
I guess I see that as completely different than a 4 yo telling me he hates me because I won't let him do something, etc.

Well to me, problems or not, its obvious that they dont hate her or they wouldnt leave their los with her. They may start looking for care now that they're embarrassed but OP is doing the same so not such a big deal. OP went with her gut and what was comfortable for her which is great. Hope she can find quick replacements and get these clients out soon

[Starburst]

I would address the issue, but since you have had issues with them trying to take advantage of you I would definitely consider terming or at least probation. Personally for me, that would be too much of personal issues at that point that would interfere with ones ability to remain professional.

I would also count that as a sign of disrespect that the child said that to you (which is in my policies as a grounds for termination; it's one thing to have an opinion but not to say it out loud to that person) and is violating the other children's rights to not be exposed to toxic words that can create a toxic environment. Especially since kids are copycats, the other kids hear one child say that to you, next thing you know the poison spreads and all the daycare kids are saying that; probably not even just to you but at home (and the other parents will drop their children from your program because they don't want their children to say such hateful words). Either way, it will effect your daycare!

[Mondaygirl]

The blushing mom and gushing dad are highly suspicious. That reeks of guilt. Meanwhile, what parent leaves their kid with a provider they hate?
I'm sorry the kid said that, it's hurtful. :hug:
I hope you find a couple of sweet kidlets to replace them.

[sally]

I just had someone message me for their 3 year old and 1 year old. Wish me luck!!

[daycare]

I just had someone message me for their 3 year old and 1 year old. Wish me luck!!

you will get it !! fingers crossed for you

[MarinaVanessa]

I just had someone message me for their 3 year old and 1 year old. Wish me luck!!

Luck your way!!

[llpa]

Luck!!! Let us know what happens happyface

[TwinKristi]

Good luck!!!!