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  • coolconfidentme
    Daycare.com Member
    • Oct 2012
    • 1541

    What The What?

    DCD (non custodial) came to drop off DCB an hour late. (My husband was on curb with the SA kids, I was in the bathroom while little ones were asleep.) DCD stormed outta here & pulled away, burning rubber. I get a text from DCM mad cause she had to leave work. I told her what happened & mentioned he came unexpectedly. She cap locked me, "YOU SHOULD HAVE WAITED UNTIL HE CAME BACK INSIDE!!!"

    Seriously?!?
  • CedarCreek
    Advanced Daycare.com Member
    • Jan 2013
    • 1600

    #2
    Wait, what's the issue? I'm sorry, maybe I'm not reading it right.

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    • EchoMom
      Daycare.com Member
      • May 2012
      • 729

      #3
      Huh? I don't understand. Why was the DCD mad? Did he drop off the child? Why did DCM have to leave work?

      Why couldn't DCD drop off DCK with your DH? Or why couldn't he have just waited for you to be done in the bathroom?

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      • SSWonders
        Daycare.com Member
        • Sep 2013
        • 292

        #4
        Why was dcd mad? Did he drop off dck or did he take him with him?

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        • MotherNature
          Matilda Jane Addict
          • Feb 2013
          • 1120

          #5
          I'm confused too..please elaborate.

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          • momofboys
            Advanced Daycare Member
            • Dec 2009
            • 2560

            #6
            I'm guessing he drove off thinking you were unavailable? Weird that he wouldn't at least try to speak with your husband & inquire where you were.

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            • MamaBearCanada
              Blessed
              • Jun 2012
              • 704

              #7
              DCM, perhaps you are not aware but using all Caps is equivalent to shouting. I will not tolerate being shouted at in any manner. I understand you were frustrated, but if you have an issue please call and discuss it with me calmly.

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              • Rockgirl
                Daycare.com Member
                • May 2013
                • 2204

                #8
                We're supposed to be super-human, and should never need to use the restroom?

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                • coolconfidentme
                  Daycare.com Member
                  • Oct 2012
                  • 1541

                  #9
                  Originally posted by coolconfidentme
                  DCD (non custodial) came to drop off DCB an hour late. (My husband was on curb with the SA kids, I was in the bathroom while little ones were asleep.) DCD stormed outta here & pulled away, burning rubber. I get a text from DCM mad cause she had to leave work. I told her what happened & mentioned he came unexpectedly. She cap locked me, "YOU SHOULD HAVE WAITED UNTIL HE CAME BACK INSIDE!!!"

                  Seriously?!?
                  DCM was a no show & did not reply to my text asking if DCB was coming. DCD does not have custody & I did not know he was coming. I heard him from the bathroom saying, "This is ridiculous!" He left & did not leave DCB. My husband tried to talk to him as he was leaving, but he got in his vehicle with DCB & left. DCM was told nobody was here & he wasn't going to leave the boy with no adult. When I told her I was just in the restroom, that is when she cap locked me.

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                  • butterfly
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • Nov 2012
                    • 1627

                    #10
                    Originally posted by coolconfidentme
                    DCM was a no show & did not reply to my text asking if DCB was coming. DCD does not have custody & I did not know he was coming. I heard him from the bathroom saying, "This is ridiculous!" He left & did not leave DCB. My husband tried to talk to him as he was leaving, but he got in his vehicle with DCB & left. DCM was told nobody was here & he wasn't going to leave the boy with no adult. When I told her I was just in the restroom, that is when she cap locked me.
                    TERM! That's ridiculous that you aren't allowed to use the restroom - in your own home - when you need to go. Then the storming off and burning rubber... he could have killed someone driving like that.

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                    • CedarCreek
                      Advanced Daycare.com Member
                      • Jan 2013
                      • 1600

                      #11
                      Originally posted by coolconfidentme
                      DCM was a no show & did not reply to my text asking if DCB was coming. DCD does not have custody & I did not know he was coming. I heard him from the bathroom saying, "This is ridiculous!" He left & did not leave DCB. My husband tried to talk to him as he was leaving, but he got in his vehicle with DCB & left. DCM was told nobody was here & he wasn't going to leave the boy with no adult. When I told her I was just in the restroom, that is when she cap locked me.
                      I see now. Yeah,eff that.

                      Term immediately if you are able.

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                      • christine19720
                        New Daycare.com Member
                        • Jun 2012
                        • 95

                        #12
                        Originally posted by CedarCreek
                        I see now. Yeah,eff that.

                        Term immediately if you are able.
                        I agree!

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                        • JoseyJo
                          Group DCP in Kansas
                          • Apr 2013
                          • 964

                          #13
                          Originally posted by butterfly
                          TERM! That's ridiculous that you aren't allowed to use the restroom - in your own home - when you need to go. Then the storming off and burning rubber... he could have killed someone driving like that.
                          Exactly!

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                          • coolconfidentme
                            Daycare.com Member
                            • Oct 2012
                            • 1541

                            #14
                            I replied to her cap lock, "Do you have someone come over when you use the restroom?" She texted back, "THAT'S DIFFERENT. I'M A MOM." (again with the cap locks)

                            I am writing up the term letter at nap time. I do need to fill all these parents I have termed recently.., UGH!

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                            • Tdhmom
                              Daycare.com Member
                              • Jun 2013
                              • 314

                              #15
                              Originally posted by coolconfidentme
                              I replied to her cap lock, "Do you have someone come over when you use the restroom?" She texted back, "THAT'S DIFFERENT. I'M A MOM." (again with the cap locks)

                              I am writing up the term letter at nap time. I do need to fill all these parents I have termed recently.., UGH!
                              And what does she think you are? Does she seriously expect you to not use the restroom during daycare hours??! What the heck is wrong with people?!

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