What The What?

[Josiegirl]

Unfreakinbelievable!

[melilley]

WHAT? UNBELIEVABLE! I have no words....

[sleepinghart]

DCM was a no show & did not reply to my text asking if DCB was coming. DCD does not have custody & I did not know he was coming. I heard him from the bathroom saying, "This is ridiculous!" He left & did not leave DCB. My husband tried to talk to him as he was leaving, but he got in his vehicle with DCB & left. DCM was told nobody was here & he wasn't going to leave the boy with no adult. When I told her I was just in the restroom, that is when she cap locked me.

~I'm sorry, but I'm still not sure if I understand what happened correctly. You were in the bathroom but your husband was there, right? Did DCD not see your husband on the curb with the SA kids or see him when he tried to talk to him?

..And then DCD told DCM that there was no one there and that he wasn't going to leave the boy with no adult? To me, by DCD saying "he wasn't going to leave the boy with no adult", it seems as if he is almost implying that he saw the children and believed that no one/no adult was there supervising them. So, if he saw kids and no adults then why did he leave or why would he leave? :confused: If that is the case, then that right there in itself would be enough to make me question DCD's story/version of events if I were DCM.

[daycarediva]

TERM.

completely unacceptable behavior. IF he didn't see you, he DID see your dh and said NOTHING to him?

And I would love to meet the superhuman woman who can run on 5 hours of sleep, work for 12+ hours and NOT use the restroom.

[julie]

So she wanted for you to wait for your husband to come back in from the curb before it would be okay for you to go to the bathroom? Wow. Yeah, I'd term immediately too. I answer the call of nature when I need to.

If it makes you feel better, try to picture her answering the next daycare provider's question of why she is searching for new care "Well...my kid was dropped off unexpectedly an hour late, and she had the audacity to go to the bathroom and was unavailable to answer the door. There was another suitable adult on the premises that my ex could have left him with, but we thought it was better to make assumptions and yell at her via text. So she termed me! Can you believe her negligence?!" And hopefully that provider says a silent thank you to you and...NEXT.

[butterfly]

So she wanted for you to wait for your husband to come back in from the curb before it would be okay for you to go to the bathroom? Wow. Yeah, I'd term immediately too. I answer the call of nature when I need to.

If it makes you feel better, try to picture her answering the next daycare provider's question of why she is searching for new care "Well...my kid was dropped off unexpectedly an hour late, and she had the audacity to go to the bathroom and was unavailable to answer the door. There was another suitable adult on the premises that my ex could have left him with, but we thought it was better to make assumptions and yell at her via text. So she termed me! Can you believe her negligence?!" And hopefully that provider says a silent thank you to you and...NEXT.

Exactly! I wouldn't feel bad about terming this one at all!!

[Childminder]

Don't be surprised if licensing shows up cause no way was this "their fault".

[coolconfidentme]

Don't be surprised if licensing shows up cause no way was this "their fault".

....cause it's NEVER their fault!

[daycare]

WOOWOWOOWOWOOWOOW..

The DCD could not call you to tell you he was on his way? What about that? Why didn't the parents inform you that there was going to be a change to his routine?

that's their fault, not yours....

They are acting like children, I would term just because of who they are choosing to handle this.

This could have gone so differently if they had any respect for you, it's obvious that they don't. Like maybe dad could have been a normal person and called you when you didn't answer the door????? Or could have called the mom and told her to call you????

:hug::hug:sorry you are dealing with this..

[coolconfidentme]

WOOWOWOOWOWOOWOOW..

The DCD could not call you to tell you he was on his way? What about that? Why didn't the parents inform you that there was going to be a change to his routine?

that's their fault, not yours....

They are acting like children, I would term just because of who they are choosing to handle this.

This could have gone so differently if they had any respect for you, it's obvious that they don't. Like maybe dad could have been a normal person and called you when you didn't answer the door????? Or could have called the mom and told her to call you????

:hug::hug:sorry you are dealing with this..

DCD came inside. I heard the outdoor motion sensor & the bell on the door & thought it was DCH. Well..., until I heard a strange man's voice say, "This is ridiculous!" I sort of freaked & hurried up my business. DCH had to fill me in. I've only met the man once months ago & he is on the pick up list. He is non custodial too. Nobody told me DCD was coming. DCM didn't answered my text inquiring if DCB was coming.

[frugalmama4]

They gotta GO!!!

And please lock your door...moving forward.

:hug::hug::hug: some people are just...ugh!!

[SSWonders]

Any update on this today?

[Brooksie]

I see now. Yeah,eff that.

Term immediately if you are able.

[MarinaVanessa]

Any update on this today?

I curious to know if anyone has said anything about it today as well ????

[coolconfidentme]

I gave her a term letter & she started yelling in front of another parent, "What am I suppose to do with this crap?!" I calmly told her to take the two weeks to find alternative care. She replied, "You can screw yourself & your two weeks!!" She left. I turned to the other parent & said, "I think she is mad." We giggled.