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If you are serious about this, take the advice given you already. The people here ARE daycare providers and we KNOW what is/isn't allowed. We have NO obligation to let a crazy person into our home at 9PM. We can smoke and drink all we want outside of daycare hours. We don't have "personal" or "me" time? What the hell would make you think that? Call the cops or DHS...they'll tell you the same thing.Comment
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We have enough bottles at home! But we were out driving to get her to go to sleep! Since we were already in the car and the provider lives by us. We went to go pick it up! I wash all the bottles by hand. I don't want them in the dishwasher and I didn't want her to put them in the dishwasher or to wash them by hand. Too many children get thrush from dirty bottles! Why in the world do you people think this is a joke?! It's not funny, it's serious!Comment
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Surely this is spam!
You are lucky she even responded to your text outside of business hours!
If a daycare parent showed up at my house outside of business hours, I would most likely terminate.
You are correct that during business hours when your child is there, you do have the right to be there. If business hours are over and/or your child is not there, you have no business being there. She owns the house, so if you are told not to come over, you are not welcome.
What she does on her property, on her time, outside of business hours, is her business-not yours. Having a glass of wine or smoking outside when no children are present does not have anything to do with the service she provides during the day.
I'm sure if you were not quitting, you would be getting terminated. Good luck in finding your next provider. I don't know of any provider that would allow you to dictate what they do on their own time.Comment
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Also please make sure to let all prospective providers know that you expect full access to their home 24/7 whenever you should choose. And let them know they are not permitted to any personal, me, or family time in their life what-so-ever. I'm sure if you make your expectations clear you will have no issues finding an awesome provider very soon
Make sure you get acquainted with reality before choosing another daycare provider.Comment
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I'm not sure where you got the information you have but it is incorrect.
There are no regs in any state that give parents permission to trespass after hours.
There are no regs in any state that say having a glass of wine or having a cigarette after hours is any kind of illegal.
There are no regs in any state that say providers are not ENTITLED to "personal" or "me" time.
You are 1000% in the wrong here. If you were to call my licensor to report me for having personal time and doing things that are perfectly legal after hours she would probably first laugh at you, and if you persisted she would hang up.
If you choose to attempt to slander or libel your provider for doing things she has a right to do please prepare yourself to retain and attorney and face one heck of a lawsuit....I could see a judge not only granting an enormous defamation suit but laughing/scolding you out of the courtroom.
Eta....please don't pull law enforcement from taking care of real emergencies to deal with your incredible ridiculousness.Comment
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Why would you delete responses?
I am not in the wrong! For all I know she drinks and smokes in the house when my child is there! If I need to I can stop by at 3am to talk to her if I needed too! Daycare providers have NO right to privacy! If they did they would do this and other illegal things! If I hadn't gone over there then my daughter would have been exposed longer to this junk and who knows what else!Comment
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WOW! What a joke:
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I think the provider should actually call the police on YOU for thinking you could show up at her house at 3am and violate her privacy. Thank God for her that you left. Wow. IF you are for real... you are seriously insane.Comment
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Wow! Just wow! You are wrong on everything! I feel horrible for that provider!Comment
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