4 year Old Cries At Dropoff OMG

[AllDeezBabies]

And do it TODAY dated because when DHS comes to your door, you'll have documentation ready to go.

Additionally, I would tell mom to TEXT you. I'd text and say "I see you have been calling, did you forget something here?" And let her sink herself by begging you back> When she does that, save the text. When DHS comes over, show them that obviously, you couldn't have abused the kid because if so, why would mom beg you back? Exact type of situation happened to me, and the parent DID call dhs on me but then I let her put all her dirty laundry in writing.

She left me 3 voice messages asking me to call her back because she over reacted when I told her I wasn't taking dcg. I saved the messages but I'm not calling back. I can't face this situation again now that I see how you really are. I'll send the invoice for damages and the term letter off tomorrow. At this point I could care less about the two weeks notice pay. I'm just glad they are no longer here.

[AllDeezBabies]

I'd send her a demand for payment of two weeks notice, a termination letter, and a bill for damages. To be due in full IMMEDIATELY.

I will send the term letter and invoice for property damage tomorrow. I don't care about the two week payment. Im done with her.

[Familycare71]

She left me 3 voice messages asking me to call her back because she over reacted when I told her I wasn't taking dcg. I saved the messages but I'm not calling back. I can't face this situation again now that I see how you really are. I'll send the invoice for damages and the term letter off tomorrow. At this point I could care less about the two weeks notice pay. I'm just glad they are no longer here.

Jeez!! No kidding she over reacted!!! Ugh!
So sorry you had to go through this- a lot of parents just don't understand how much we put into all of this and each kid! Glad you will be done with her!
As others say: NEXT!!

[nannyde]

She left me 3 voice messages asking me to call her back because she over reacted when I told her I wasn't taking dcg. I saved the messages but I'm not calling back. I can't face this situation again now that I see how you really are. I'll send the invoice for damages and the term letter off tomorrow. At this point I could care less about the two weeks notice pay. I'm just glad they are no longer here.

She just doesn't have daycare tomorrow. She took a stand today telling you you WILL be a witness and victim to her and her child's outrageous behavior. She thinks you want the money badly enough to put up with her dog and poney show every day. You told her you don't want the money and now her whole mindset went up in smoke.

Now she is trying to get back on top of the relationship because she doesn't have care. As soon as you allow her back Iin she will give you an encore performance day one.

[Familycare71]

She just doesn't have daycare tomorrow. She took a stand today telling you you WILL be a witness and victim to her and her child's outrageous behavior. She thinks you want the money badly enough to put up with her dog and poney show every day. You told her you don't want the money and now her whole mindset went up in smoke.

Now she is trying to get back on top of the relationship because she doesn't have care. As soon as you allow her back Iin she will give you an encore performance day one.

[Unregistered]

I have two boys that have started to do the same at drop off. After the 3rd instance, I just started walking out to meet them in the driveway. They're my first drop off of the day. I let Mom know that the freak outs were waking my family, and that I'd just be picking them up outside. I walk right to the car, grab each kid by the hand, and walk back inside. No long goodbyes, no kisses, just see you later! They're just fine now.

[AllDeezBabies]

Jeez!! No kidding she over reacted!!! Ugh!
So sorry you had to go through this- a lot of parents just don't understand how much we put into all of this and each kid! Glad you will be done with her!
As others say: NEXT!!

That's the thing that kills me. They think we just sit and look at their children. I mean I put a lot into these children. But like you said NEXT!!

[AllDeezBabies]

She just doesn't have daycare tomorrow. She took a stand today telling you you WILL be a witness and victim to her and her child's outrageous behavior. She thinks you want the money badly enough to put up with her dog and poney show every day. You told her you don't want the money and now her whole mindset went up in smoke.

Now she is trying to get back on top of the relationship because she doesn't have care. As soon as you allow her back Iin she will give you an encore performance day one.

OMG this is sooooo true. You are saying the exact same thing my husband said.

I finally took her call today. I told her no one will put up with her child acting in that manner. I just so happen to be the one to deal with it as long as I did because I was convinced I would be the one to make her comfortable enough to not do it. It had nothing to do with money but everything to do with my love of children.

I told her I'm not willing to take her back as a client because I refuse to be responsible for correcting what she created. If she wants consistent childcare, she needs to get her and her daughters act together.

[Familycare71]

That's the thing that kills me. They think we just sit and look at their children. I mean I put a lot into these children. But like you said NEXT!!

:hug: here's hoping the next one is a great fit!!! And the parents aren't crazy!!

[akpayne]

OMG this is sooooo true. You are saying the exact same thing my husband said.

I finally took her call today. I told her no one will put up with her child acting in that manner. I just so happen to be the one to deal with it as long as I did because I was convinced I would be the one to make her comfortable enough to not do it. It had nothing to do with money but everything to do with my love of children.

I told her I'm not willing to take her back as a client because I refuse to be responsible for correcting what she created. If she wants consistent childcare, she needs to get her and her daughters act together.

Good for you for standing up for yourself! Hopefully this is a wake up call for this woman to get her act together