I Have a Dilemma

[nannyde]

OMG..You give cookies but not juice??? Isn't that kinda backwards??

What???????????????????????????????????? :confused::confused:

[thatgagirl]

Wow really?



Maybe I'm wrong but I think you've got Nan and thatgagirl mixed up. Nan's the one that makes the cookies and thatgagirl said that not offering juice in her DC is not the same as giving a vegetarian meat or like giving a child a cookie then says that she would never do either in any case. Just saying.

I think she has gotten me confused with quite a few people to be honest ...

oh well!

[MarinaVanessa]

I think she has gotten me confused with quite a few people to be honest ...

oh well!

Apparently. It is sad when threads get hijacked and then turn sour. Sorry for your experience. It happens sometimes anywhere you forum but I enjoy this forum best. I feel more at home here. I hope you change your mind and come back sometime for advice, suggestions, venting etc. Believe me, there are some of us here that do still use our manners .

[legomom922]

I don't have anyone confused with anyone...The only thing I'm confused about is why people have a problem giving juice, but not with cookies which are full of carbs, sugar and fat........

Oh and for the record, I have a right to my opinions just as everyone else does...

[Lucy]

Will you ever give this a rest???

You totally have a right to your opinion, just don't rub it in our faces over and over and over and over. You seem to be on some sort of vendetta.

[MyAngels]

I don't have anyone confused with anyone...The only thing I'm confused about is why people have a problem giving juice, but not with cookies which are full of carbs, sugar and fat........

Oh and for the record, I have a right to my opinions just as everyone else does...

Geez - talk about beating a dead horse...

[Crystal]

Geez - talk about beating a dead horse...

as is this post...........

[missnikki]

I am the farthest thing from a moderator, for good reason.
HOWEVER- I propose that this thread be closed? I think the OP got her answers, and besides becoming a fascinating train wreck of differing opinions I think it has run its course. Now that is just MY opinion, and all opinions matter here, I just think it's causing more defensiveness and grief than is helpful to anyone.

What do you think, moderator?

[Crystal]

Haha....I'll leave that up to Michael. I'll bring it to his attention for you.

But, on a side note, I do not appreciate your "tone" re. "moderator" For the record, I have been a mod for awhile and yesterday was the first time I have even made one move on the open forum as an acting mod. Although I am here daily, getting rid of spam and unwanted garbage on the forum, I have not been rude and have not overstepped any boundaries....in fact never even mentioned being a mod, I feel I am just another member.

But, thanks for pointing it out and acting as though I have been abusing my "powers" LOL!

[missnikki]

Haha....I'll leave that up to Michael. I'll bring it to his attention for you.

But, on a side note, I do not appreciate your "tone" re. "moderator" For the record, I have been a mod for awhile and yesterday was the first time I have even made one move on the open forum as an acting mod. Although I am here daily, getting rid of spam and unwanted garbage on the forum, I have not been rude and have not overstepped any boundaries....in fact never even mentioned being a mod, I feel I am just another member.

But, thanks for pointing it out and acting as though I have been abusing my "powers" LOL!

Who, me?
If you were referring to me, I in no way said or insinuated any such thing. I simply asked a moderator to look into something.

SHEESH. This is what I was talking about though, the needless accusations and defensiveness. This forum has taken a downward turn over the last couple of months with claws out more than usual- is it a sign of the state of the economy? Why is doing daycare so cutthroat on this forum? Why do we feel the need to take our corner in the ring and go toe to toe with each other over EVERY LITTLE MISUNDERSTOOD THING? There was a time when misunderstandings happened, and were laughed about because people would simply ask, "Did I offend you?" rather than strap on the gloves.

Crystal, since you mentioned it, I do not care what you do as a moderator. I never have. That thing under you- it's called a 'high horse'.

[tenderhearts]

Why would we be discussing someone elses child with another client???? Even if they are friends.

[Crystal]

Why would we be discussing someone elses child with another client???? Even if they are friends.

ITA. NEVER okay to do that, IMO.

[Crystal]

Who, me?
If you were referring to me, I in no way said or insinuated any such thing. I simply asked a moderator to look into something.

SHEESH. This is what I was talking about though, the needless accusations and defensiveness. This forum has taken a downward turn over the last couple of months with claws out more than usual- is it a sign of the state of the economy? Why is doing daycare so cutthroat on this forum? Why do we feel the need to take our corner in the ring and go toe to toe with each other over EVERY LITTLE MISUNDERSTOOD THING? There was a time when misunderstandings happened, and were laughed about because people would simply ask, "Did I offend you?" rather than strap on the gloves.

Crystal, since you mentioned it, I do not care what you do as a moderator. I never have. That thing under you- it's called a 'high horse'.

Oh, my bad. I assumed you were speaking to me, seeing as how you posted your "comment" immediately after I posted.

And, no, no high horse here....only level ground.