Ugh Help

[wahmof3]

I appreciate all of your help

I am going to hand him off to mom today and see how that goes and then I am going to send DCM an email with a plan of action stating she needs to get control of his behavior or we are going to the hand off at the front door.

Thanks!!!!

[LittleD]

I wouldn't discipline the child in front of a parent because of what happened with another member of this forum. The DC provider intervened and a complaint was filed, licensing came out and wrote her up because according to licensing the parent was present and at that point the parent is responsible for the child. After seeing that, I changed my whole perspective and way of handling a situation like this to be handled just like BC suggested. You make the parent responsible.
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WOW! Did not know that!!

[wahmof3]

well pick up wasn't fun.

DCB kicked his mom as soon as she came in. SMH

[Blackcat31]

well pick up wasn't fun.

DCB kicked his mom as soon as she came in. SMH

Did mom say anything? Did she try to correct or discipline him at all?

[wahmof3]

Did mom say anything? Did she try to correct or discipline him at all?

I got down to his level and told him that was not nice at all and he needs to tell her sorry. I said you don't kick your mom.

She just leaned over and gave him a hug.

[Willow]

I got down to his level and told him that was not nice at all and he needs to tell her sorry. I said you don't kick your mom.

She just leaned over and gave him a hug.

I have a mom who does (did) the same thing.

Unfortunately I had to take charge to regain control of the transitions. Nanny D's Changing of The Guard worked wonders even though mom didn't like it much. We don't have to do it anymore because he finally understood that regardless of her reaction (or non-reaction) he wasn't getting away with that junk here. He still hits and kicks her, but not in my home anymore so it's no longer my problem.