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Yep, my kids did that too.
They would bicker a lot about it. You see, THEY (child #1) are the one telling the other one (child #2) who the boss is. See they are being the boss of the other child when they say that. In reality YOU (the provider) are the boss. YOU are the ONLY one who should be telling them. When they start that bickering YOU stop it, you say "SHHH!!! Go play toys". Then the kids go hey wait she is the boss.
Anyway I am not good at explaining it, That Nan's job.
Now all of us child care providers are nurturing and caring providers but some of us just have more of a nurturing side than others. Some kids do well with that (in the old days most kids did). Some kids see us very nurturing providers as weak. They see that weakness and they go crazy trying to find their limits. I didn't know how to be myself and still take over the leadership role.
Nanny De is the sweetest most nurturing lady I have ever spoken with. I was really wowed when I spoke to her. She has got it figured out. She knows how to be nurturing and sweet and a strong leader. The best part was that she knew how to tell ME how to become that.
She taught me how to break the behaviors down to the basic levels and prevent the misbehavior before it got started.
Man, kids have changed. This generation has put the children in the leadership role, and these kids are outta control.
All the childcare classes I have taken and the workshops I have taken, they have taught me worthless ideas that never helped. But learning to be the LEADER, now, that did it.
Yep, every once in a while one tries me again, I just step it up and LEAD.
Do yourself a favor and don't throw away a very successful career with a full house of kids.
The $50 I paid was the Best money I ever spent!!! Not even 1 weeks pay for 1 kid and all my behavior issues solved!
They would bicker a lot about it. You see, THEY (child #1) are the one telling the other one (child #2) who the boss is. See they are being the boss of the other child when they say that. In reality YOU (the provider) are the boss. YOU are the ONLY one who should be telling them. When they start that bickering YOU stop it, you say "SHHH!!! Go play toys". Then the kids go hey wait she is the boss.
Anyway I am not good at explaining it, That Nan's job.
Now all of us child care providers are nurturing and caring providers but some of us just have more of a nurturing side than others. Some kids do well with that (in the old days most kids did). Some kids see us very nurturing providers as weak. They see that weakness and they go crazy trying to find their limits. I didn't know how to be myself and still take over the leadership role.
Nanny De is the sweetest most nurturing lady I have ever spoken with. I was really wowed when I spoke to her. She has got it figured out. She knows how to be nurturing and sweet and a strong leader. The best part was that she knew how to tell ME how to become that.
She taught me how to break the behaviors down to the basic levels and prevent the misbehavior before it got started.
Man, kids have changed. This generation has put the children in the leadership role, and these kids are outta control.
All the childcare classes I have taken and the workshops I have taken, they have taught me worthless ideas that never helped. But learning to be the LEADER, now, that did it.
Yep, every once in a while one tries me again, I just step it up and LEAD.
Do yourself a favor and don't throw away a very successful career with a full house of kids.
The $50 I paid was the Best money I ever spent!!! Not even 1 weeks pay for 1 kid and all my behavior issues solved!
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