Help! DCM Said I Am Heartless And Her Kid Needs Therapy Because Of Me!

[StrongMommy]

Thank you all so much for your kind responses! I got chills while reading all them because it is really great there are such supportive, kind people on this board!

I agree with everyone that said it is an issue with her and her daughter. It goes so, so, so much deeper than daycare. Clearly there are family dynamics issues that are causing her daughter stress and making her into a bully. It is just such a sad situation!

When I woke up today I said to my husband "it is a new day." I did feel more angry than sad as some of you mentioned. I may just write her a letter, then throw it away, just to get my feelings out.

Thank you all so much!!!

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If she thought you were so terrible, why didn't she pull her daughter before? She was definitely being defensive and speaking out of anger.