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    Kid Told Me He Is Going To See His New Daycare...

    So today one of my dck's says he is going to see his new daycare after he gets picked up tonight.....

    Would you ask parents about it? I really want to text them and let them know I know this information (true or not).

    Also, I figure if they are giving notice, that I will get it Monday. I have the week of T-giving off for my unpaid vacation. My contract says when someone gives two weeks notice, they are required to submit it with payment even if the parents are not bringing the child.
    So, I think, legally I could get that second week paid.

    Should I let them know today that I would like to know asap if they are leaving so i can fill the spot? Should I also remind them to submit two week notice in writing along with a check for those two full weeks (even if I am on vaca???)....thoughts, opinions???
    Thanks all.
  • Breezy
    Daycare.com Member
    • Jun 2011
    • 1271

    #2
    Ugh that is the worst feeling ever!

    I would say something to them at pick up so that you can be sure they don't just blow you off completely. But, that's just me since I was just burned by a DCF!

    Good luck!

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    • Blackcat31
      • Oct 2010
      • 36124

      #3
      I wouldn't panic just yet....it could be for weekend care or for evening care as well. Plus, kids say all sorts of things. I only believe half of what they tell me.

      If you are close with this family and it is really bugging you then maybe you could say "Hey, Sally mentioned to day that she is going to see her new daycare tonight. Are you guys planning on switching care or unhappy about something here?"
      I personally wouldn't say anything but those kinds of things don't bother me. But if they did, I wouldn't be able to stand the not knowing and would have to say something.....

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      • cheerfuldom
        Advanced Daycare.com Member
        • Dec 2010
        • 7413

        #4
        sounds like they are going to ditch out on your vacation time. I think you should expect the one week's paid only but in the future, change your contract to include PAID vacation or require that no term notice be giving within a certain amount of your unpaid vacation

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        • SilverSabre25
          Senior Member
          • Aug 2010
          • 7585

          #5
          No, I think you should just start looking to fill the spot.
          Hee hee! Look, I have a signature!

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          • Unregistered

            #6
            ugh

            Originally posted by cheerfuldom
            sounds like they are going to ditch out on your vacation time. I think you should expect the one week's paid only but in the future, change your contract to include PAID vacation or require that no term notice be giving within a certain amount of your unpaid vacation

            Thanks gals. Blackcat I e-mailed you.

            I so want to send home an addendum to my contract tonight that reads a change in two week notice!!! Should I? That two week notice should be submitted in writing and cannot be given during my vacations and must be in cash???? Or would that be evil....

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            • daycare
              Advanced Daycare.com *********
              • Feb 2011
              • 16259

              #7
              Originally posted by Blackcat31
              I wouldn't panic just yet....it could be for weekend care or for evening care as well. Plus, kids say all sorts of things. I only believe half of what they tell me.

              If you are close with this family and it is really bugging you then maybe you could say "Hey, Sally mentioned to day that she is going to see her new daycare tonight. Are you guys planning on switching care or unhappy about something here?"
              I personally wouldn't say anything but those kinds of things don't bother me. But if they did, I wouldn't be able to stand the not knowing and would have to say something.....
              It could be that the child is going to go to a daycare while you are out on your vacation.

              When I go out on vacation, some of the parents have back-up DCP that they send their kids to.

              They tell me the same thing. I asked and the parents told me..

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              • Blackcat31
                • Oct 2010
                • 36124

                #8
                Originally posted by Unregistered
                Thanks gals. Blackcat I e-mailed you.

                I so want to send home an addendum to my contract tonight that reads a change in two week notice!!! Should I? That two week notice should be submitted in writing and cannot be given during my vacations and must be in cash???? Or would that be evil....
                I would. You are already in the process of updating contract info so it wouldn't be weird or seem out of place.

                I will check my e-mail and get back to you right after my monsters,....hmmm I mean kids, eat lunch.

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                • sharlan
                  Daycare.com Member
                  • May 2011
                  • 6067

                  #9
                  Originally posted by Unregistered
                  Thanks gals. Blackcat I e-mailed you.

                  I so want to send home an addendum to my contract tonight that reads a change in two week notice!!! Should I? That two week notice should be submitted in writing and cannot be given during my vacations and must be in cash???? Or would that be evil....
                  It might be a little bit late for that, now. By giving you two weeks notice, they are planning on getting out of paying for your vacation week.

                  I would ask the parents tonight what is going on. You need to plan accordingly.

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                  • sharlan
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • May 2011
                    • 6067

                    #10
                    Originally posted by daycare
                    It could be that the child is going to go to a daycare while you are out on your vacation.

                    When I go out on vacation, some of the parents have back-up DCP that they send their kids to.

                    They tell me the same thing. I asked and the parents told me..
                    You may be right.

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                    • nannyde
                      All powerful, all knowing daycare whisperer
                      • Mar 2010
                      • 7320

                      #11
                      Originally posted by Unregistered
                      So today one of my dck's says he is going to see his new daycare after he gets picked up tonight.....

                      Would you ask parents about it? I really want to text them and let them know I know this information (true or not).

                      Also, I figure if they are giving notice, that I will get it Monday. I have the week of T-giving off for my unpaid vacation. My contract says when someone gives two weeks notice, they are required to submit it with payment even if the parents are not bringing the child.
                      So, I think, legally I could get that second week paid.

                      Should I let them know today that I would like to know asap if they are leaving so i can fill the spot? Should I also remind them to submit two week notice in writing along with a check for those two full weeks (even if I am on vaca???)....thoughts, opinions???
                      Thanks all.
                      I can go a year in between calling a parent at work.. but this one would do it.

                      I would call her and ask tell her that little Johnny said he will be going to a new child care tonight and ask her if that is going to be a daytime child care.
                      http://www.amazon.com/Daycare-Whispe...=doing+daycare

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                      • laundrymom
                        Advanced Daycare.com Member
                        • Nov 2010
                        • 4177

                        #12
                        I would just say, hey Barb, Dustin mentioned meeting his new daycare tonight, is there something we need to discuss? If something is changing I would reall like to know

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                        • Unregistered

                          #13
                          Quitting?

                          Originally posted by daycare
                          It could be that the child is going to go to a daycare while you are out on your vacation.

                          When I go out on vacation, some of the parents have back-up DCP that they send their kids to.

                          They tell me the same thing. I asked and the parents told me..


                          This family always goes to one of the relatives....always. Never has been any different in 3 years....

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                          • Nellie
                            Daycare.com Member
                            • Sep 2011
                            • 259

                            #14
                            Maybe they are trying to find daycare for when you are on vacation.

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                            • small_steps
                              Daycare.com Member
                              • Oct 2011
                              • 489

                              #15
                              The curiosity would be eating at me all day. I would definately be mentioning something at pick up. Sometimes kids just say things too. Maybe one of his friends is looking at a new daycare and now he's saying it. You never know.

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