NONE of you asked her what was up. NONE of you asked her why she was so angry. NONE of you asked about the circumstances or the details of her post. NONE of you offered any type of support.
I was not tying in her post to Michael about money or any of her other posts.
But still, as Lolaland pointed out, they all happened within a small time frame on the same day. Maybe she had a really bad day. Maybe her dog died, maybe she just got a foreclosure notice.
Obviously, she was very angry at the time of her post(s) and that is what is showing through. Maybe she kept it all together and was super professional all week and finally let it all out after hours..... Maybe she had a few galsses of wine before posting.....I have no idea as I cannot speak for her but I do know that I have been angry before in my life. I have been so angry that I was steaming mad and out of my head. We all have.
I also have no issue with the word hate either. She didn't say it to a child. She said it about a child. BIG difference. When my own kids were mad at me when they were young, they said they hated me but I knew it was their frustration and lack of maturity that spawned their words.
Again, I am NOT condoning Cozyhome's words or her aggressiveness but she vented in a venting thread and the way I see it......it was just a vent. She didn't want anything more than to just get it out and off her chest.
I have kept a journal all my life and if anyone read my venting words, you would think I was crazy.....

But anyways, back to my point.....MY vent wasn't about Cozyhome in the first place. It was about the other thread and the double standard some posters have in regards to who is and isn't worthy of our support, advice and a hand out to help them....NO MATTER what kind of situation they are in.
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