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  • CeriBear
    Daycare.com Member
    • Feb 2017
    • 401

    Originally posted by CountryRoads
    Dcm forgot to put underwear...on her 4 year old...who is also wearing a dress :confused:
    OMG! And I tend to get a little mad when a parent sends a girl in a dress without shorts underneath.

    My vent for the day. Why do some parents think it’s great for 4 year old Johnny to be able to recite his ABCs, name all the dinosaurs, and know that the presidents name is Donald Trump yet not how to put on his own Velcro shoes, peel a banana, or wipe his bottom. Seriously. How about teaching some basic self help skills.

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    • springv
      Daycare.com Member
      • Sep 2017
      • 468

      We have that exact same problem at our center in terms of little girls wearing dresses and no shorts underneath or their shorts being to short. I wish we had a dress code or something saying what they can and can't wear!!!!

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      • Sunshine69
        New Daycare.com Member
        • Jan 2020
        • 182

        Originally posted by CeriBear
        My vent for the day. Why do some parents think it’s great for 4 year old Johnny to be able to recite his ABCs, name all the dinosaurs, and know that the presidents name is Donald Trump yet not how to put on his own Velcro shoes, peel a banana, or wipe his bottom. Seriously. How about teaching some basic self help skills.
        OMG! I hear you! I bite my tongue when dcp brags how smart dcb is compared to other kids his age. It makes it hard for me to give good reports about him because I know it will go strait to dcp’s head, but when I mention Dcb needs to work on some self-help skills they don’t even acknowledge. 🤷*♀️

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        • Josiegirl
          Daycare.com Member
          • Jun 2013
          • 10834

          Originally posted by CeriBear
          OMG! And I tend to get a little mad when a parent sends a girl in a dress without shorts underneath.

          My vent for the day. Why do some parents think it’s great for 4 year old Johnny to be able to recite his ABCs, name all the dinosaurs, and know that the presidents name is Donald Trump yet not how to put on his own Velcro shoes, peel a banana, or wipe his bottom. Seriously. How about teaching some basic self help skills.
          Where's the love button when you need it??!!

          And it's so true. Sadly. My nephew was smart as a whip at age 4 but momma was still spoon feeding him.

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          • Alwaysgreener
            Home Child Care Provider
            • Oct 2013
            • 2519

            Originally posted by springvalley112
            We have that exact same problem at our center in terms of little girls wearing dresses and no shorts underneath or their shorts being to short. I wish we had a dress code or something saying what they can and can't wear!!!!
            Ugh, I have only one dcg and she wears tight shorts, that are so tight that it causes her diaper to bulge off to one size or give her a camel toe bulge when she pees. Then when she has a dress, her shorts are loose.

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            • Former Teacher
              Advanced Daycare.com Member
              • Apr 2009
              • 1331

              Originally posted by CeriBear
              OMG! And I tend to get a little mad when a parent sends a girl in a dress without shorts underneath.

              My vent for the day. Why do some parents think it’s great for 4 year old Johnny to be able to recite his ABCs, name all the dinosaurs, and know that the presidents name is Donald Trump yet not how to put on his own Velcro shoes, peel a banana, or wipe his bottom. Seriously. How about teaching some basic self help skills.
              I hear ya!

              Way back when, we had a 4 year old whose mother told me that I had to spoon feed him lunch otherwise he won't eat :confused:

              Long story short, at lunch that day, I told him that either he eats or he can wait until lunch was over so that he and his new friends can all play. I was NOT going to feed him.

              He sat there a good 5 mins just staring at his plate. Then he started eating. And he ate it all. happyface

              Mom came and first thing she asked was how did lunch go. I told her that it was fine and he fed himself. She went I explained to her that I didn't have time to feed a child that was perfectly capable of doing it himself.

              He did the same thing (where he just sat for a few mins) for the next few days. When he realized that I wasn't going to do it at all, he eventually just starting eating when everyone else did ::

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              • Annalee
                Daycare.com Member
                • Jul 2012
                • 5864

                Originally posted by springvalley112
                We have that exact same problem at our center in terms of little girls wearing dresses and no shorts underneath or their shorts being to short. I wish we had a dress code or something saying what they can and can't wear!!!!
                I'd rather have the dresses worn than these skinny jeans for boys and girls that they can't pull up after pottying. Or the shorts that are made out of the same material and can't be pulled up without help. Some of these kids have to be melted to get into such kinds of clothes.::

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                • Unregistered

                  Parents ugh!

                  Had a mom tell me her kid is wearing new shoes and not to let her get them dirty not a thing on them. Pure whit shoes! WTH.

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                  • springv
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • Sep 2017
                    • 468

                    Had a parent post on FB that they were at a gun range and got a new gun for protection. Hope they don't bring it into the daycare when they pick up their children.

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                    • Blackcat31
                      • Oct 2010
                      • 36124

                      Originally posted by springvalley112
                      Had a parent post on FB that they were at a gun range and got a new gun for protection. Hope they don't bring it into the daycare when they pick up their children.
                      Why would you think they’re going to bring it into the child care? :confused:

                      The vast majority of gun owners are safe responsible adults.

                      In most states in order to get a concealed carry permit (which is required to buy a hand gun) you are required to take a class that educates you in regards to when and where you may carry your weapon.

                      I wouldn’t automatically assume they’re going to come into the center waving their gun around.

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                      • Alwaysgreener
                        Home Child Care Provider
                        • Oct 2013
                        • 2519

                        Originally posted by Blackcat31
                        Why would you think they’re going to bring it into the child care? :confused:

                        The vast majority of gun owners are safe responsible adults.

                        In most states in order to get a concealed carry permit (which is required to buy a hand gun) you are required to take a class that educates you in regards to when and where you may carry your weapon.

                        I wouldn’t automatically assume they’re going to come into the center waving their gun around.
                        🙂 I had a parent tell me that he had just got licensed to sell and make guns, of he wanted to make them.

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                        • springv
                          Daycare.com Member
                          • Sep 2017
                          • 468

                          There's to many crazy folks today and it makes me think the worse. We had a parent once have their personal gun on them while they came to sign their child up for the after school program and if one of the kids had gotten a hold of it, it wouldn't have been good

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                          • Blackcat31
                            • Oct 2010
                            • 36124

                            Glad I don’t live in your area... I’d feel bad that the worst is automatically assumed or that I’m crazy simply because I carry a gun.

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                            • Rockgirl
                              Daycare.com Member
                              • May 2013
                              • 2204

                              I’m in Texas....I know more people who carry than not. As BC stated, people who are legally carrying have been through a licensing process. Honestly, I feel safer knowing responsible gun owners are around me in public places.

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                              • CountryRoads
                                Daycare.com Member
                                • Nov 2018
                                • 678

                                Newborn sibling of a current dck starting soon. Dcm complains all the time about how difficult and fussy baby is.

                                Wonderful

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