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  • Blackcat31
    • Oct 2010
    • 36124

    Originally posted by Snowmom
    Figures.

    I always get families giving their notice this time of year and daycare hop to the next one after New Years to try and get out of paying for Christmas/New Years.
    Happens every year.
    This time of year definitely brings out the "best" in parents

    My newest family says to me "Since we are paying for the Christmas vacation closure but won't be returning until another week after you re-open would it be a good compromise if we didn't pay for that second week?"

    Um, compromise? I didn't realize the "fees are due 52 weeks a year regardless of attendance or time used" policy was up for debate.

    There is nothing to compromise. :confused:


    Fa la la la laaaaa La la la NO!!

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    • Cat Herder
      Advanced Daycare.com Member
      • Dec 2010
      • 13744

      Originally posted by Snowmom
      Figures.

      I always get families giving their notice this time of year and daycare hop to the next one after New Years to try and get out of paying for Christmas/New Years.
      Happens every year.
      :hug: Every year. They all think they invented it, too.

      That is why I started giving "discounts" for closures and rolling up tuition to cover them (25 days total) over the other 50 weeks. I also make extra the years I decide to stay open a day or two here and there. It works for me.
      - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

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      • Snowmom
        Daycare.com Member
        • Jan 2015
        • 1689

        Originally posted by Blackcat31
        This time of year definitely brings out the "best" in parents

        My newest family says to me "Since we are paying for the Christmas vacation closure but won't be returning until another week after you re-open would it be a good compromise if we didn't pay for that second week?"

        Um, compromise? I didn't realize the "fees are due 52 weeks a year regardless of attendance or time used" policy was up for debate.

        There is nothing to compromise. :confused:


        Fa la la la laaaaa La la la NO!!
        Baffles the mind!

        Originally posted by Cat Herder
        :hug: Every year. They all think they invented it, too.

        That is why I started giving "discounts" for closures and rolling up tuition to cover them (25 days total) over the other 50 weeks. I also make extra the years I decide to stay open a day or two here and there. It works for me.
        So true.
        I wised up and put in a clause a few years ago: Any notice given between October 1st-December 31st will need to pay for the Christmas break before their enrollment fee is applied to the final notice period or the initial enrollment fee is forfeited (equal to two weeks pay).

        They always seem to forget about it and try it anyway. Right around Thanksgiving.

        But, at least I get paid for Christmas.

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        • Jupadia
          Daycare.com Member
          • Nov 2016
          • 836

          Originally posted by Ac114
          DCM types up a long messages about the days she has off during Christmas break and how much she owes and wants to make sure it’s correct, of course leaving out my paid holidays. This is her 3rd Christmas here and has paid for all of my paid holidays since day one but claimed ignorance on this.

          Sorry mom, I wasn’t going to let that slide. You still owe me for my paid holidays just like every other time.

          It’s the season!
          I've got a memo written out for my patents this year. Two are newer and I've not taken vacation with them here. I charge for stat days but not my own vacation days. This year I've got a mix of both during the holidays. Stat days are 25, 26, 1. But I'm taking the 27, 30, 31 off as well for vacation to give myself a week. The notes break it down for parents, so they can tell easy.

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          • Cat Herder
            Advanced Daycare.com Member
            • Dec 2010
            • 13744

            Originally posted by Snowmom
            So true.
            I wised up and put in a clause a few years ago: Any notice given between October 1st-December 31st will need to pay for the Christmas break before their enrollment fee is applied to the final notice period or the initial enrollment fee is forfeited (equal to two weeks pay).

            They always seem to forget about it and try it anyway. Right around Thanksgiving.

            But, at least I get paid for Christmas.
            Brilliant. That never occurred to me. ::

            My vent: I am going to have a horrible afternoon. It is about 15 minutes until our normal lunchtime and we have already eaten and are down for a nap. I had no real choice. Everyone is exhausted from the severe weather last night, most have been up since 3 am with only intermittent sleep. They are all going to think they are here hours late, too. Yay.
            - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

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            • Annalee
              Daycare.com Member
              • Jul 2012
              • 5864

              Originally posted by Blackcat31
              This time of year definitely brings out the "best" in parents

              My newest family says to me "Since we are paying for the Christmas vacation closure but won't be returning until another week after you re-open would it be a good compromise if we didn't pay for that second week?"

              Um, compromise? I didn't realize the "fees are due 52 weeks a year regardless of attendance or time used" policy was up for debate.

              There is nothing to compromise. :confused:


              Fa la la la laaaaa La la la NO!!
              And I don’t see this way of thinking getting better. Some text I get lately make me want to start drinking and I’ve never drank in my life:: My mamaw has some pain reliever cream and I told her I was gonna start eating that due to my daysbeing so crazy lately

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              • AmyKidsCo
                Daycare.com Member
                • Mar 2013
                • 3786

                Originally posted by Snowmom
                Figures.

                I always get families giving their notice this time of year and daycare hop to the next one after New Years to try and get out of paying for Christmas/New Years.
                Happens every year.
                Originally posted by Cat Herder
                That is why I started giving "discounts" for closures and rolling up tuition to cover them (25 days total) over the other 50 weeks. I also make extra the years I decide to stay open a day or two here and there. It works for me.
                That's kind of what I do - I pro-rate my vacation weeks into the other weeks (they pay for 52 weeks in 49 payments) and they don't give me a check the weeks I'm closed. If someone leaves before Christmas or vacation I don't care because I've already been paid for it. Unless they haven't been with me a full year, and if they can't stick out a full year it's probably better they're gone anyway.

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                • CenterTeacher20
                  Center Director
                  • Apr 2018
                  • 199

                  This has been the longest week everrrrrrrr. Three more full days of kiddos until my 9 day break. We've never taken a full week off for Christmas at our center before, but I made the call this year. I cant wait to relax! But of course the kiddos have been insane this week.

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                  • Ms.Kay
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • Dec 2018
                    • 104

                    Originally posted by Jociheart
                    This has been the longest week everrrrrrrr. Three more full days of kiddos until my 9 day break. We've never taken a full week off for Christmas at our center before, but I made the call this year. I cant wait to relax! But of course the kiddos have been insane this week.
                    It is longest week ever!!!! My kids have cabin fever already ...we go from pouring rain to sub zero wind chills!!!!! 4 days...4 days....and Monday was gonna be a light day.....now parents are txting me..." they need to get stuff done" can kids come? oye!!

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                    • Leigh
                      Daycare.com Member
                      • Apr 2013
                      • 3814

                      Originally posted by Blackcat31
                      This time of year definitely brings out the "best" in parents

                      My newest family says to me "Since we are paying for the Christmas vacation closure but won't be returning until another week after you re-open would it be a good compromise if we didn't pay for that second week?"

                      Um, compromise? I didn't realize the "fees are due 52 weeks a year regardless of attendance or time used" policy was up for debate.

                      There is nothing to compromise. :confused:


                      Fa la la la laaaaa La la la NO!!
                      New word art sign to put out when decorating for Christmas:

                      Thinking of trying to negotiate my rates because of the Christmas holidays?

                      Fa la la la laaaaa La la la NO!!
                      ::::::

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                      • Baby Beluga
                        Daycare.com Member
                        • Aug 2014
                        • 3891

                        Originally posted by Leigh
                        New word art sign to put out when decorating for Christmas:

                        Thinking of trying to negotiate my rates because of the Christmas holidays?

                        Fa la la la laaaaa La la la NO!!
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                        • Snowmom
                          Daycare.com Member
                          • Jan 2015
                          • 1689

                          Influenza outbreak in our schools (literally over 40% of the school pop).

                          Confirmed Influenza case in my daycare. 2 other kids out with likely symptoms too. Informed all families last night of the confirmed case here.

                          Still have the rest showing up! Bright and early AND ALL 3 ARE NOT WORKING. Wth? One even has a brand new baby at home. I don't get it.

                          Lysol is my friend today.

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                          • Jupadia
                            Daycare.com Member
                            • Nov 2016
                            • 836

                            My kid was nice enough to wake us up last night, poor thing had to throw up. So hope it's only a 24 hour bug and not the flu. Now he is missing his pajama day at school and his class party. He dose get to spend the day at Nana's and Papa's so he should have some fun. I realy hope none of the rest of us get it from my other guy to the daycare kids and us grownups in the house.

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                            • Ms.Kay
                              Daycare.com Member
                              • Dec 2018
                              • 104

                              please tell me why parents give me pictures of their kids?????????????????

                              Im with them more than they are!!!!!!

                              &$%#!!

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                              • AmyKidsCo
                                Daycare.com Member
                                • Mar 2013
                                • 3786

                                Originally posted by Ms.Kay
                                please tell me why parents give me pictures of their kids?????????????????

                                Im with them more than they are!!!!!!

                                &$%#!!
                                No kidding!!

                                Yesterday was our Christmas Party. It was a rare day when EVERYONE napped. Late. I had to wake them up so we'd have time to do special snack before first pick ups. Today only 2 of 7 are sleeping, 1 is quietly looking at books, baby is fussy, the other 3 are rolling around with their books to stay awake. But the parents will be happy they can put the kids to bed early.

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