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  • Josiegirl
    Daycare.com Member
    • Jun 2013
    • 10834

    Dcb comes in all sweet looking and smiley this a.m. As soon as his mom walks out the door, he's in full attack mode to the 2 1/2 yo dcg and has been nonstop eversince. Then when 1 yo dcb arrives later this a.m., I'm hovering literally right over LO, 2 yo dcb tries to take his toy away right off the bat so I scoop up 1 yo and 2 yo kicks him.

    I have never ever had a 2 yo battling the terrible twos as bad as this guy is. He's constantly angry. I'm constantly frustrated and disheartened and always placing him separate from the other 2 dcks. I've only got 3 ATM,you'd think I could handle it!! Honestly, I haven't been able to turn my back for a second. Not one.

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    • Snowmom
      Daycare.com Member
      • Jan 2015
      • 1689

      I am so sick of policing policies. I'm so sick of the lack of respect from grown adults. I'm basically so sick of this job.


      I'm not potty training an 18 month old who doesn't talk and poops 4 times a day. I don't care that her cousin did it in the big, expensive Montessori school at 16 months.

      I'm not staying open late so you can make an afternoon DR appointment. I can't believe you even asked. You know the answer.

      No, you can't avoid a late fee by paying late 'this one time'.

      I'm not ok with you wearing shoes into my home and I'm not ok with you sitting your child on my table to take off hers. In fact, you're not allowed past the entry, the living room is mine and not daycare. Get off my furniture.

      Quit allowing your child to pull at my door handle and hang on my hooks. I will charge you if your child breaks them because it's your fault for allowing it while my back is turned.

      Stop letting your child touch my outdoor decorations and flowers. I am sick to death of having to turn my solar lights back on everyday because you let your child turn the off switch. It's NOT cute, knock it off.

      Take the freeaking jewelry back home. !@*%!

      And no, your child did not just poop in the car on the 2 minute drive to my house. I know what stale poop looks like you moron. It's not my first rodeo.

      (yes, I'm extremely bitter today and yes, all of this was said in the last 7 days... just maybe not as abruptly.)

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      • Blackcat31
        • Oct 2010
        • 36124

        Originally posted by Snowmom
        I am so sick of policing policies. I'm so sick of the lack of respect from grown adults. I'm basically so sick of this job.


        I'm not potty training an 18 month old who doesn't talk and poops 4 times a day. I don't care that her cousin did it in the big, expensive Montessori school at 16 months.

        I'm not staying open late so you can make an afternoon DR appointment. I can't believe you even asked. You know the answer.

        No, you can't avoid a late fee by paying late 'this one time'.

        I'm not ok with you wearing shoes into my home and I'm not ok with you sitting your child on my table to take off hers. In fact, you're not allowed past the entry, the living room is mine and not daycare. Get off my furniture.

        Quit allowing your child to pull at my door handle and hang on my hooks. I will charge you if your child breaks them because it's your fault for allowing it while my back is turned.

        Stop letting your child touch my outdoor decorations and flowers. I am sick to death of having to turn my solar lights back on everyday because you let your child turn the off switch. It's NOT cute, knock it off.

        Take the freeaking jewelry back home. !@*%!

        And no, your child did not just poop in the car on the 2 minute drive to my house. I know what stale poop looks like you moron. It's not my first rodeo.

        (yes, I'm extremely bitter today and yes, all of this was said in the last 7 days... just maybe not as abruptly.)
        :hug: sadly I totally understand
        Thank goodness the liquor store is open after my business hours.

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        • CountryRoads
          Daycare.com Member
          • Nov 2018
          • 678

          So, apparently a phlegmy cough is a sign of teething?

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          • Snowmom
            Daycare.com Member
            • Jan 2015
            • 1689

            Originally posted by CountryRoads
            So, apparently a phlegmy cough is a sign of teething?
            Why hasn't teething been declared an epidemic?
            Someone should get on top of that.

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            • Baby Beluga
              Daycare.com Member
              • Aug 2014
              • 3891

              Originally posted by Snowmom
              Why hasn't teething been declared an epidemic?
              Someone should get on top of that.
              Teething is the new ebola :: ::

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              • BumbleBee
                Daycare.com Member
                • Jun 2012
                • 2380

                Originally posted by Snowmom
                Why hasn't teething been declared an epidemic?
                Someone should get on top of that.
                I agree! I'm on my 3rd round of "teething" this year already.

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                • Josiegirl
                  Daycare.com Member
                  • Jun 2013
                  • 10834

                  My neighbors don't realize my 2 1/2 yo dcg(who is so difficult to get to sleep anyways) is extremely fascinated by the sound of lawn mowers and loves the word why and I wanna see?
                  No, honey, we can't see the lawn mower right now. Why? Because we can only hear it in back of the houses. Why? Because the lawn mower is hiding behind the houses. Why? Because the house is in the way. Why? Because the mower is on the other side of the house. Why? We can't see it, only hear it. Why?
                  I wanna know why too. Why did they choose to start mowing at 12:15, exactly 2 minutes after 2 of my 3 dcks fell asleep?

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                  • littlefriends
                    New Daycare.com Member
                    • Jul 2018
                    • 304

                    Blocked a former dcp today-I’m finally fed up with her enough! I let her kid go back in January and she asked at the time if “we could stay friends” um NO. I definitely don’t need anymore “friends”. So I’ve been ignoring her texts. He has now been let go from 4 daycares since I let him go!!! She texted every single day this week begging me to please let him come back, they can’t find anyone else, she HAS to work. I didn’t reply, just blocked.

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                    • littlefriends
                      New Daycare.com Member
                      • Jul 2018
                      • 304

                      Originally posted by Josiegirl
                      My neighbors don't realize my 2 1/2 yo dcg(who is so difficult to get to sleep anyways) is extremely fascinated by the sound of lawn mowers and loves the word why and I wanna see?
                      No, honey, we can't see the lawn mower right now. Why? Because we can only hear it in back of the houses. Why? Because the lawn mower is hiding behind the houses. Why? Because the house is in the way. Why? Because the mower is on the other side of the house. Why? We can't see it, only hear it. Why?
                      I wanna know why too. Why did they choose to start mowing at 12:15, exactly 2 minutes after 2 of my 3 dcks fell asleep?
                      I put a fan out now during nap because one of my neighbors absolutely loves to do yard work

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                      • Ac114
                        Daycare.com Member
                        • Feb 2018
                        • 573

                        Originally posted by littlefriends
                        Blocked a former dcp today-I’m finally fed up with her enough! I let her kid go back in January and she asked at the time if “we could stay friends” um NO. I definitely don’t need anymore “friends”. So I’ve been ignoring her texts. He has now been let go from 4 daycares since I let him go!!! She texted every single day this week begging me to please let him come back, they can’t find anyone else, she HAS to work. I didn’t reply, just blocked.
                        Good for you! You would be miserable if you took him back!

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                        • theassistant
                          Daycare.com Member
                          • May 2019
                          • 6

                          Originally posted by littlefriends
                          Blocked a former dcp today-I’m finally fed up with her enough! I let her kid go back in January and she asked at the time if “we could stay friends” um NO. I definitely don’t need anymore “friends”. So I’ve been ignoring her texts. He has now been let go from 4 daycares since I let him go!!! She texted every single day this week begging me to please let him come back, they can’t find anyone else, she HAS to work. I didn’t reply, just blocked.
                          We had this issue. A huge red flag should've been that they had been through two nannies prior to us. They just expected way too much from a home daycare and didn't understand that their children weren't the only children. Since then, the kids had two more nannies before they finally put them in a pre-school, where I hope they've been shown that they need to learn to work with child care providers.

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                          • BumbleBee
                            Daycare.com Member
                            • Jun 2012
                            • 2380

                            Newsflash: your baby is not "behind" because your friends baby is the same age and already crawling.

                            2nd newsflash: I don't "need to force" your baby to crawl.

                            Your baby will crawl when your baby is ready. There are no delays, at all. The multiple developmental assessments that have been done on your child all show the same thing. Meets or exceeds all developmental milestones for his age.

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                            • Mom2Two
                              Daycare.com Member
                              • Jan 2015
                              • 1855

                              Originally posted by BumbleBee
                              Newsflash: your baby is not "behind" because your friends baby is the same age and already crawling.

                              2nd newsflash: I don't "need to force" your baby to crawl.

                              Your baby will crawl when your baby is ready. There are no delays, at all. The multiple developmental assessments that have been done on your child all show the same thing. Meets or exceeds all developmental milestones for his age.
                              For crying out loud... Don’t they believe their pediatrician?

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                              • BumbleBee
                                Daycare.com Member
                                • Jun 2012
                                • 2380

                                Originally posted by Mom2Two
                                For crying out loud... Don’t they believe their pediatrician?
                                Apparently not.

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