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  • deliberateliterate
    Daycare.com Member
    • Apr 2014
    • 179

    Originally posted by daycarediva
    OH NO!!!! He would have been termed already. NO WAY!
    No kidding. I had his kids completely ready to go yesterday. Opened the door, said hello, deposited kids, wished him a good night, closed the door.

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    • daycaremom85
      Daycare.com Member
      • Feb 2015
      • 3

      New Here

      I am new and I am glad found this forum. I have owned my own daycare for 8 years and I have plenty of things to vent about!

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      • jgcp
        Daycare.com Member
        • Dec 2013
        • 134

        I have 2 dck that are potty training buuut one is completely non verbal and I told both parents! They say she talks non stop at home??? She goes to another provider and we talk back and forth and its the same for her so its not me and dcd asked me how I did the other day..... uhhh I did great thanks but when I do put dcg on toilet she crys and doesn't go. id say she's not ready but who am I?? second dcg does talk and can do great here but her mom is so inconsistent and one day will bring her in panties but the next bring her in a diaper??? Then tells me any excuse in the book as to why she can't really commit to it??? But can take a week long trip to Disneyland but can't take ONE day off.... one of the excuses is that there are stepchildren in the house and its just so hard when they are around.... which is all the time....like other ppl havent potty trained their child with other kids in the house ??? Sorry this has been building for a little while I just do what the parents feel is best.....
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        • Leigh
          Daycare.com Member
          • Apr 2013
          • 3814

          Just saw someone post that they are in search of full-time childcare on a Facebook site. They are "willing to pay $30-$40 per week". Already had 5 responses for the "job". SMH.

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          • Blackcat31
            • Oct 2010
            • 36124

            Originally posted by Leigh
            Just saw someone post that they are in search of full-time childcare on a Facebook site. They are "willing to pay $30-$40 per week". Already had 5 responses for the "job". SMH.
            Facebook has been like a trip down the rabbit hole. :confused:

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            • Controlled Chaos
              Daycare.com Member
              • Jun 2014
              • 2108

              I was fuming ready to explode with the need to vent all morning, now they are sleeping and I love them again

              But I am going to give it my best in hope this purges the rest of my anger so I reach a full zen state.

              DCM won't vaccinate 5 yo against measles because it will give him Autism.

              DCB broke my teeter totter. He is the hardest kid. I fixed the teeter totter (thanks little tikes for the free spare part!) and he started to do the same thing today that broke it in the first place. He is 4 and is now banned from the thing. No more!

              DCM oh you are playing tic tac toe?! I always let "L" win or he screams and kicks me... No wonder your kid is the WORST!

              DCD The check I wrote you won't clear, is that ok? NOOOOOO They are gone in 3 weeks, or I would have termed. Check cleared, he tells me he "made it work".. Good for you dcd! So proud.

              DCM lost the end of the year tax receipt I printed out for her. I give each family a form in Jan with everything they need for taxes. Well, now I can't find where I saved it - I have all my numbers and money info but not the per child tally. I REALLY don't want to figure it out again.

              DCM I am going to pay you half now and half later. ME I am going to let you take dcb to work with you until you can pay me in full. DMC Oh... and hands me the full amount :confused:

              People are driving me nuts. Luckily all my problem families are leaving my the end of March and I have a fresh group. Looking forward to new littles and parents I can train correctly from day one, now that I am older and wiser.

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              • sally
                Daycare.com Member
                • May 2013
                • 267

                I am so ready to close. Sometime between now and end of summer I am done for good. Just have to get through til then. Today neighbor calls me. She has her 3 yr old granddaughter and she wants to have her come over to play with my dd and daycare kids. She doesn't want to pay drop in rate. She wants her here for free to play while she sleeps. Ummm NO! Well can she come tomorrow. I have her tomorrow and I'll need to take a nap during the day can she come play tomorrow? If you pay the drop in fee. She just wants to play, its not like you have to watch her. Really? Come on

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                • hope
                  Daycare.com Member
                  • Feb 2013
                  • 1513

                  Dcm is super needy. As in needs her children to prove their love to her all the time. When she drops off and picks up she tells her 10 month old.."remember i am your mom. I am". Creeps me out. When 3 yo dcg was potty training dcm was delighted that dcg would only go for her. Dcg ended up in the hospital with an obstruction from holding it all the time waiting for dcm. Dcg goes to pre school 2 days a week and told me the teacher wouldn't tell her mommy that she missed her so she did. I talked about it with dcm and Dcm took her for ice cream for loving and missing her mom so much. Today dcg walks in past all of the kids and ignores all their greetings. Dcm whispers for a few minutes in dcgs ear and leaves. Dcg doesn't want to play or talk. She only wants her mommy. I am so sick of dealing with this.

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                  • Turquoise14
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • Dec 2014
                    • 39

                    I am getting pretty sick of people who are old enough to know better mouthing toys. Yes, babies are going to do this. 1 1/2 and 2 year olds, let's cut it out. Spit on everything.

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                    • Unregistered

                      Originally posted by hope
                      Dcm is super needy. As in needs her children to prove their love to her all the time. When she drops off and picks up she tells her 10 month old.."remember i am your mom. I am". Creeps me out. When 3 yo dcg was potty training dcm was delighted that dcg would only go for her. Dcg ended up in the hospital with an obstruction from holding it all the time waiting for dcm. Dcg goes to pre school 2 days a week and told me the teacher wouldn't tell her mommy that she missed her so she did. I talked about it with dcm and Dcm took her for ice cream for loving and missing her mom so much. Today dcg walks in past all of the kids and ignores all their greetings. Dcm whispers for a few minutes in dcgs ear and leaves. Dcg doesn't want to play or talk. She only wants her mommy. I am so sick of dealing with this.
                      My version of this is the mom who sad-talks her 2 yr old until he cries. Then she tells me I HAVE TO GO TO WORK in an angr y voice and leaves dcb sobbing on the floor crawling after her.
                      She just cant stand to leave him happy.

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                      • hope
                        Daycare.com Member
                        • Feb 2013
                        • 1513

                        Originally posted by Unregistered
                        My version of this is the mom who sad-talks her 2 yr old until he cries. Then she tells me I HAVE TO GO TO WORK in an angr y voice and leaves dcb sobbing on the floor crawling after her.
                        She just cant stand to leave him happy.
                        The emotional damage is hard to witness. It's sad because as much as I try and put all my efforts into fixing the problem, I just can't compete with crazy. I don't understand it. I have tried to talk and to listen and I just don't get it.

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                        • Turquoise14
                          Daycare.com Member
                          • Dec 2014
                          • 39

                          Two vents in one day....

                          I will never understand why you would coddle and give a pacifier. "Oh, honey it's alright", when your child is acting badly at pickup saying no and unloading the diaper bag.

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                          • Bookworm
                            Daycare.com Member
                            • Aug 2011
                            • 883

                            Originally posted by Unregistered
                            My version of this is the mom who sad-talks her 2 yr old until he cries. Then she tells me I HAVE TO GO TO WORK in an angr y voice and leaves dcb sobbing on the floor crawling after her.
                            She just cant stand to leave him happy.
                            I have a "Klingon" parent who had a full on tantrum complete with crying and everything, because her dd wouldn't tell her bye a billion times. She scared every child in the room and another parent had to help us calm them down. She now has a 2 min dropoffs and if she tries to go beyond that, she is asked to leave.

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                            • Play Care
                              Daycare.com Member
                              • Dec 2012
                              • 6642

                              I decided to delay opening this morning rather than close due to the snow. It's going to take me extra time to clear out walkways and I'm hoping the plow shows up before the parents. I've texted everyone and let them know there will be no breakfast this morning because of it.

                              How much do you want to bet someone shows up at normal time? Or at the later time and hungry?

                              God, I've become so cynical!::

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                              • Unregistered

                                Dcb comes in EVERY morning and the minute someone looks at him wrong or is playing with something he wants he starts screaming and throwing a fit. Mom expects the other kids to hand over whatever he wants. He spends a lot of time in time out for tantrums. He acts as if the other kids should drop everything because he walked in the door! It's frustrating because dcm okays that kind of behavior. He gets away with murder at home so I should tolerate it here?! Not going to happen!

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