Venting Thread

[Blackcat31]

Nor I. Two families...here. 4 yr old is crying because none of her friends are here. Mom left her crying with me as she drove home.......cold....just cold.

Oh heck no.... I am open and have kids that have parents that are off but if I had one that was crying because of it, I'd call for pick up.

It's one thing to dump your kid but when the kid knows you are dumping them and you leave me to deal with it, it changes everything.

I won't deal with that.

I'm sorry you have a client so disrespectful to you and her own child. :hug:

[Ms.Kay]

I have one family that always does that, too. She ALWAYS brings her kids when she has the day off and I'm open. I decided to be closed today since none of my families needed care and I rarely get days with my youngest anymore. She was so annoyed that she couldn't dump them off with me. She has admitted to me that she's ready to send them back to daycare by Saturday night. I'll never understand.

Nor I. Two families...here. 4 yr old is crying because none of her friends are here. Mom left her crying with me as she drove home.......cold....just cold.

[CountryRoads]

When a parent doesnt work because of a holiday and still brings their child knowing he will be the only one alone in daycare because the other parents have off ..
How sad.

I have one family that always does that, too. She ALWAYS brings her kids when she has the day off and I'm open. I decided to be closed today since none of my families needed care and I rarely get days with my youngest anymore. She was so annoyed that she couldn't dump them off with me. She has admitted to me that she's ready to send them back to daycare by Saturday night. I'll never understand.

[MomBoss]

When a parent doesnt work because of a holiday and still brings their child knowing he will be the only one alone in daycare because the other parents have off ..
How sad.

[springv]

Thanks @josiegirl, next week will be better because I'm only working three days happyface. The one that had the youngest one without diapers complained and stated that she should keep her mouth shut. She got ill and complained enough that I heard it and went and told the administrator what she had said so the other girl that overheard it went and told the original teller what I had told. If that makes sense.

[Josiegirl]

We had 2 kids start this and two more starting Monday, the 2 new kids that started this week came in on the first day the youngest came in with a diaper soaked and no diapers not only that but the oldest had an accident and no clothes to change him into plus their immunization card was fixing to expire. Our administer called the numbers that were listed on their preadmission sheet and all but one was disconnected. That was my week, how was yours??

Wow. I'd be letting them go asap. But it sounds like you work in a center and that's not your call. I really believe administrators/directors of centers should choose to let dcfs go that don't follow rules. I know it's not always that simple but they should support their employees more. Teachers/directors, etc. all seem to let too much go and parents are not held as accountable as they should be. :confused:
Good luck and hope next week improves!!

[springv]

We had 2 kids start this and two more starting Monday, the 2 new kids that started this week came in on the first day the youngest came in with a diaper soaked and no diapers not only that but the oldest had an accident and no clothes to change him into plus their immunization card was fixing to expire. Our administer called the numbers that were listed on their preadmission sheet and all but one was disconnected. That was my week, how was yours??

[CountryRoads]

I had that happen once. I was with my then two year old and my belly never really went back to being flat but still, 140lbs at most. The woman asked when I was due, and I just kind of brushed it off. She kept pushing and I was just like "yeah... I'm not." The look of embarrassment on her face made it a bit better but it still stung. Maybe more so then it would have at that time because I had just had a miscarriage a few weeks earlier. But seriously, you would think people who have more common sense. I'm sorry it happened to you too, ignore them and hopefully they learn from it and don't do it to someone else again.

Yes, I hope she was embarrassed enough that she thinks twice before doing that again.

I wanted to go home and burn the shirt I was wearing

Such a confidence booster

[Josiegirl]

I had that happen once. I was with my then two year old and my belly never really went back to being flat but still, 140lbs at most. The woman asked when I was due, and I just kind of brushed it off. She kept pushing and I was just like "yeah... I'm not." The look of embarrassment on her face made it a bit better but it still stung. Maybe more so then it would have at that time because I had just had a miscarriage a few weeks earlier. But seriously, you would think people who have more common sense. I'm sorry it happened to you too, ignore them and hopefully they learn from it and don't do it to someone else again.

:hug:
Some people are stupid and have no filter.

[finsup]

I thought everyone knows NEVER to ask a woman if she is pregnant.

Yesterday, I had a woman ask me "How long?" I just stared at her and said "What?" She said "Oh, never mind."

It's called belly fat lady. I wish I could have come up with a comeback.

How frickin' rude.

I had that happen once. I was with my then two year old and my belly never really went back to being flat but still, 140lbs at most. The woman asked when I was due, and I just kind of brushed it off. She kept pushing and I was just like "yeah... I'm not." The look of embarrassment on her face made it a bit better but it still stung. Maybe more so then it would have at that time because I had just had a miscarriage a few weeks earlier. But seriously, you would think people who have more common sense. I'm sorry it happened to you too, ignore them and hopefully they learn from it and don't do it to someone else again.

[CountryRoads]

I thought everyone knows NEVER to ask a woman if she is pregnant.

Yesterday, I had a woman ask me "How long?" I just stared at her and said "What?" She said "Oh, never mind."

It's called belly fat lady. I wish I could have come up with a comeback.

How frickin' rude.

[Ac114]

I’ve had enough of one of my DCMs. I’ve had to remind her about policies from the beginning. First it was her being extremely late, then her not paying on time. Now she has this demeanor that she’s just annoyed with everything and everyone every single day. She was rude to one of my other daycare moms on the way out the door and also my son which I was unaware of but my husband caught the whole thing. Looking for a replacement as we speak but I’m just over her.

[Snowmom]

Ugh Husbands.

It's hard enough when he decides to work from home and is completely oblivious to how loud he is during nap time.
But now that we have a new puppy, he lets her out of the kennel and forgets to watch her 2.5 minutes after letting her out. I've walked upstairs twice today finding the pup chewing on daycare kid's shoes or pooping on my entrance rug. I blow my gasket on him and he gets mad that I'm disrupting his business phone call.

Oh no you didn't!

I may be a widow later today.

[sharlan]

Saying "NO" won't harm your child.

If you can't control a 2/3 year old, how in the world are you going to control a 14/15/16 year old? Learn now.

[Blackcat31]

I'm starting to hate those shirts with sequins that flip over to another picture. I just had to forcibly remove my ADHD sensory seeker's hands from someone's body because he basically tackled her to touch the sequins

I've banned them already.

One of my little DCG's showed up with a long sleeved top and pants all made from the same sequin stuff.

The other kids spent the day following her around like she was a mobile petting zoo....it got to be way too much so I just told all my DCM's that those types of shirts were no longer allowed.