I believe my son hit the child. He admited it. He was also provoked. My point is, it is not normal behavior for him. The situation was delt with and he never hit again in the 4 more months he was there. He pushed a child the day before he was terminated. He admitted it, it was addressed with hiim. It was also an out of the ordinary experiance.
I am not makeing excuses for him.... but is not aggressive ANYWHERE else. That is my point. I believe after reviewing the situations it happened, but they were also very avoidable. He is autistic and does have special needs.
I didnt want to let her know i wasnt staying the 4 weeks right away because i was fearful it would affect my childs care. was it a sound fear, maybe, maybe not. I know it was a highly emotional situation for both me and the provider and a possibility.
but you are right. there is one more thing that i have left out. Up until this happend, i was friends with the provider. Our families did things together outside of daycare. I was upset (now just hurt) that she would not talk to me about a problem she was having with my son. Whenever we talked she understood his triggers and avoiding them.
I am not makeing excuses for him.... but is not aggressive ANYWHERE else. That is my point. I believe after reviewing the situations it happened, but they were also very avoidable. He is autistic and does have special needs.
I didnt want to let her know i wasnt staying the 4 weeks right away because i was fearful it would affect my childs care. was it a sound fear, maybe, maybe not. I know it was a highly emotional situation for both me and the provider and a possibility.
but you are right. there is one more thing that i have left out. Up until this happend, i was friends with the provider. Our families did things together outside of daycare. I was upset (now just hurt) that she would not talk to me about a problem she was having with my son. Whenever we talked she understood his triggers and avoiding them.
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