I wouldn't consider this as a play date because this other lady doesn't have any children...so it doesn't make sense to me that she would come "hang out" at a daycare. It is a trust issue, my daycare provider knows what happened at my previous daycare and she also knows what is going on with this other person...so I'm having a hard time that she would even bring this into the mix.
Anyways, I just talked with my dcp and let her know that if she was planning on having certain friend over again to let me know so I could get backup care for that day. This was the only way I felt I could have a say in the situation. This way I am not telling her to not have friends over, but at the same time I can take my daughter out of the situation. Obviously, if it happens a lot I will be looking for a different provider.
Anyways, I just talked with my dcp and let her know that if she was planning on having certain friend over again to let me know so I could get backup care for that day. This was the only way I felt I could have a say in the situation. This way I am not telling her to not have friends over, but at the same time I can take my daughter out of the situation. Obviously, if it happens a lot I will be looking for a different provider.
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