I just got a phone call from my only dcb's mom. She lost her job last week because DCB was sick. She said she needed to do breathing treatments every 4 hours during the night, so she missed 5 days. She worked nights.
I didn't have DCB last week because of snow and she keeps him home with the older boys (plus she's home during the day). So she's going to come by today to pay me for last week.
But she's can't pay me for during the time she's out of work.
She's also in the works of buying a home, or so she says. So she's got to get a job now. She said she was getting ready to sign this week on this house.
But the house is in the county over, which means DCB would change schools, which means I lose my 1 dcb. It totally ****s!
I tried a few other times to get more kids. The sibling group I did get didn't work due to the evening hours and the younger one cried all the time, it was just too much stress for DS and me.
There's a bunch of other people with ads in the paper right now looking for kids in our small town. So I don't think I'm going to have much luck.
I just want to cry! Even though I wasn't making that much money on this one child it was something!
It's not worth it for me to find a job and put DS in a child care somewhere. For one I wouldn't bring home much money after paying a sitter. Then I have to worry about his allergies there. And I just don't want to have to deal with the stress of it.
My DH works until 6:00, so I can't really get an evening job.
Why is it just when you think things are going good money wise you have a set back?
I didn't have DCB last week because of snow and she keeps him home with the older boys (plus she's home during the day). So she's going to come by today to pay me for last week.
But she's can't pay me for during the time she's out of work.
She's also in the works of buying a home, or so she says. So she's got to get a job now. She said she was getting ready to sign this week on this house.
But the house is in the county over, which means DCB would change schools, which means I lose my 1 dcb. It totally ****s!
I tried a few other times to get more kids. The sibling group I did get didn't work due to the evening hours and the younger one cried all the time, it was just too much stress for DS and me.
There's a bunch of other people with ads in the paper right now looking for kids in our small town. So I don't think I'm going to have much luck.
I just want to cry! Even though I wasn't making that much money on this one child it was something!
It's not worth it for me to find a job and put DS in a child care somewhere. For one I wouldn't bring home much money after paying a sitter. Then I have to worry about his allergies there. And I just don't want to have to deal with the stress of it.
My DH works until 6:00, so I can't really get an evening job.
Why is it just when you think things are going good money wise you have a set back?
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