Feeling Sad . . . . .

[safechner]

I did tell the boy that I was sorry to hear that (I really was!!) & asked him if he liked coming to us (he said yes!). I went on to say that I am not permitted to spank a child in my care other than my own children if I choose. I went on to tell the child that it's fine for some parents to spank & others to not spank. Parents have their choice to see as they feel fit.

That is good. That is all matter if your dcb liked coming to you then you dont have to worry about that. Be strong.


Otherwise, I know it takes a while for the father like me but after few months later, he had crush on me. He told me he wanted me so bad and I told him I am so sorry to hear that but I am married. He knows that. Of course, my husband knew. A few weeks later, I let them go because I wouldn't comfortable for him to try touch my hands or anything else. I can't image like that but he have a wife. Crazy huh??

[misol]

safechener, nothing good could have come from that situation. That was very disrespectful of him and the only appropriate action was to terminate.