"Oh, I Forgot To Mention He Has Severe ADHD"

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  • youretooloud
    Advanced Daycare.com Member
    • Mar 2011
    • 1955

    "Oh, I Forgot To Mention He Has Severe ADHD"

    Me: "No kidding???? Gee, I never would have noticed... because that was only the longest two hours of my entire LIFE!"

    The kid needs a warning sign.
  • daycare
    Advanced Daycare.com *********
    • Feb 2011
    • 16259

    #2
    Originally posted by youretooloud
    Me: "No kidding???? Gee, I never would have noticed... because that was only the longest two hours of my entire LIFE!"

    The kid needs a warning sign.
    lmao that is too funny!! If only they did...BOy that would make our job a lot eaiser...

    warning lables should become required...........

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    • Zoe
      Advanced Daycare.com Member
      • Dec 2010
      • 1445

      #3
      Forgot to mention huh. It's funny what they "forget" to tell you.

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      • youretooloud
        Advanced Daycare.com Member
        • Mar 2011
        • 1955

        #4
        In two hours, this kid broke a kitchen stool, knocked over a full pitcher of water, somehow managed to break the doorknob in the bathroom, and pulled the slide off the jungle gym.

        The slide comes off, so it's no biggie, but no kid has ever managed to pull the slide off. It's not made so the kids can pull it off.

        I felt bad for him, because he didn't mean to do any of those things. And, by the time he pulled the slide off, I was mad at him for everything else, so I kinda yelled at him.

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        • Kaddidle Care
          Daycare.com Member
          • Dec 2010
          • 2090

          #5
          Yikes! Be happy he was only there 2 hours!

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          • Country Kids
            Nature Lover
            • Mar 2011
            • 5051

            #6
            Is this a new child? How was he during his interview process? All I can say are my thoughts are with you!
            Each day is a fresh start
            Never look back on regrets
            Live life to the fullest
            We only get one shot at this!!

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            • nannyde
              All powerful, all knowing daycare whisperer
              • Mar 2010
              • 7320

              #7
              Why in the world would a parent of a special needs child place him with someone for ANY length of time before finding out if that person was capable of caring for him? How could she KNOW you could do it without telling you his diagnosis?
              http://www.amazon.com/Daycare-Whispe...=doing+daycare

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              • laundrymom
                Advanced Daycare.com Member
                • Nov 2010
                • 4177

                #8
                Originally posted by nannyde
                Why in the world would a parent of a special needs child place him with someone for ANY length of time before finding out if that person was capable of caring for him? How could she KNOW you could do it without telling you his diagnosis?
                Because she needed care and didn't want her to know he was not the easiest most laid back kid in the world, same reason they mask fevers.

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                • e.j.
                  Daycare.com Member
                  • Dec 2010
                  • 3738

                  #9
                  Originally posted by nannyde
                  Why in the world would a parent of a special needs child place him with someone for ANY length of time before finding out if that person was capable of caring for him? How could she KNOW you could do it without telling you his diagnosis?
                  Desperation??

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                  • Unregistered

                    #10
                    Non-disclosure of a medical condition would be grounds for termination around here. She absolutely did not forget -- she lied. BYE BYE.

                    Maybe you would have taken him anyway, but the fact that she had to lie in the first place says to me "no way." How much damage will he do in a short period of time?

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                    • youretooloud
                      Advanced Daycare.com Member
                      • Mar 2011
                      • 1955

                      #11
                      He's a neighbor, and friend of another kid in my care. Dad had a job interview, and I agreed to watch him for two hours. He's in grade school during the year, so I'd never agree to keeping him anyway.

                      If dad has a second interview, I think I'll be really full that day.

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                      • sharlan
                        Daycare.com Member
                        • May 2011
                        • 6067

                        #12
                        The problem isn't the kid with ADHD but the parent who feeds into all of it and does nothing to teach the child impulse control.

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                        • familyschoolcare
                          Advanced Daycare.com Member
                          • Jun 2011
                          • 1284

                          #13
                          Originally posted by sharlan
                          The problem isn't the kid with ADHD but the parent who feeds into all of it and does nothing to teach the child impulse control.
                          I agree and have personal experience with special needs children

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                          • PitterPatter
                            Advanced Daycare.com Member
                            • Mar 2011
                            • 1507

                            #14
                            Oh no I would wonder what else would she hide or lie about.

                            I have a severly ADHD child with ODD as well but he isn't destructive, just hyper and has a hard time concentrating. He has come a long way and tries to do his best. He has a good heart but the medical disorder is just too much sometimes. He has meds but I only use them for school. I don't like the way the meds change his personality. Maybe this child is on meds also and just wasn't medicated? If he is and u EVER care for him again I would be sure he has been nedicated that day. IF he is already prescribed that is.

                            The hardest I ever had it with disorders was when I had my young son with ADHD, another hyper 3 yr old and another 3 yr old with Autism. The 3 of them combined would wear me out enough plus the other 3 preschoolers. I would just pass out as soon as my head hit the pillow in the evening.

                            Kudos to u for being so patient with him. We all snap a lil sometime. I too have barked at a kid in the past. I think we all have at 1 point or another. We are human.

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