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  • wdmmom
    Advanced Daycare.com
    • Mar 2011
    • 2713

    Potty tTaining

    I've only worked with a few kids when it comes to potty training and either they are ready or they aren't.

    I have a DCB 2.75 years and DCD brings him in this morning with a package of pull-ups. Great! I do require those when potty training.

    He says, they've sorta worked with him at home and they'd like to get him working with it more.

    I just talked to DCM last week. My policy is this:

    You work with him at home for a solid weekend, bring him on Monday and we'll set him on the potty every hour on the hour. Nap time will require a diaper (not a pull-up). Once he/she hasn't had an accident for 2 weeks, he/she can come in underwear. Once he/she remains dry during nap time for 4 weeks, we will eliminate using diapers.

    I am going on vacation in 2 days so I'm not even going to bother. This child clearly isn't ready. His mom enrolled him in pre-school in the fall and one of the stipulations is he must be potty trained. I think she's unrealistic if she thinks he's going to be fully potty trained in less than 2.5 months. Especially when he shows no interest.

    Can someone help me out on this. I'm sure DCD will pick him up this afternoon and ask. Do I set him on the potty after nap just to see if he does anything and send him home in a pull-up or do I just tell him that I'll start July 5th when I return from vacation?

    Background: They've attempted potty training 4 times before but these young, busy parents don't have what it takes to do it successfully. Not to mention DCB has kicked, screamed, said "NO!" in the past. Is it really a good idea to even attempt it when I know that they probably won't work with him for the 11 days I am off anyway???
  • Cat Herder
    Advanced Daycare.com Member
    • Dec 2010
    • 13744

    #2
    I personally would not "work" with him at all...that is a parental responsibility.

    Obviously you plan to do it differently.

    I feel the parent should understand your starting AFTER your Holiday since it is something they should be doing in the first place.

    They should be grateful you are willing to do it at all.
    - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

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    • wdmmom
      Advanced Daycare.com
      • Mar 2011
      • 2713

      #3
      I don't really think I should have to but considering he's here 10 - 10.5 hours a day, he's gotta start sometime. Unfortunately I don't think he's ready, nor is he going to "get it" any time soon.

      They've been clients for 2 years (DCB started when he was 9 months) so I'm thinking it's time to send home a copy of the PHB for them to review the Potty Training Policy.

      Catherder~ What's your policy on Potty Training?

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      • Christian Mother
        Advanced Daycare.com Member
        • Feb 2011
        • 875

        #4
        I think I should charge a extra fee for potty training...!! So far I've fully trained one of my dcb's and he was fully in undies by the 2nd week and also particularly potty trained another who was here for 1 week and went on a 1 month vacation so I never got to complete the 2nd week of training. I am strict with my potty training though. I go by how my mother trained us which was the no undies nothing for the first week before only undies no pull ups or diapers on the 2nd. The parents bring a bunch of undies for that 2nd week. We use a sticker chart and also cup full of cheerios to throw in the toilet for aiming. We make a huge deal out of every pee in the potty. If the kids show disinterest then its best to pull away and revisit. I had one little guy who was scared and just plain did not want to so we stopped and then revisited it a couple months later. U can't really rush or force a child to potty bc it just hinders them in the long run. For some reason I end up fully potty training my kido's but I don't mind makes it easier on me.

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        • Cat Herder
          Advanced Daycare.com Member
          • Dec 2010
          • 13744

          #5
          *Toileting: Potty training is a parental responsibility. Child must be accident free for two weeks while in my care, AND must be able to verbally tell me he/she needs to go to the restroom, every time, before wearing cloth undergarments in childcare. If child has an accident the two week cycle will begin again in its entirety. Please understand this is for the benefit of the group at large consisting of infants and toddlers whom crawl on the floors. Thanks in Advance.



          Mine is short and sweet.

          It is fairly common.

          All my kids are here from newborn on. I always tell them in the interview that it is best for them to do potty training on their two week vacation between the 2nd and 3rd years depending on the child's verbal ability.
          - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

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          • wdmmom
            Advanced Daycare.com
            • Mar 2011
            • 2713

            #6
            Can I steal your policy? It's short and sweet and to the point. I like it!

            I would change it a little though. I require all children be diapered or wear pull ups for nap time for 4 weeks before they can go in to bed in underwear.

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            • Cat Herder
              Advanced Daycare.com Member
              • Dec 2010
              • 13744

              #7
              Originally posted by wdmmom
              Can I steal your policy? It's short and sweet and to the point. I like it!

              I would change it a little though. I require all children be diapered or wear pull ups for nap time for 4 weeks before they can go in to bed in underwear.
              Absolutely...

              I, personally, keep it "any accident" to prevent the entire "I am not buying any more diapers" discussion with parents and allow a consistent supply of diapers/pull-ups until I feel they are ready.

              I find parents get very frustrated to have stopped buying them, get that little bit of extra cash in their hands, then have to go out and buy them again when the child regresses for some reason or other. If it says 4 weeks they will likely go out and buy "Your 4 last packs of pull-ups, horray!! I am done paying for those!"...or something similar.

              How I deal with the kids is between me and them . I do help them if I see them trying...I have even bought celebratory character undies . I just think eating and toileting should be stress free. The burden of parents financial wishes on that is unfair, so I take the deadline and pressure out of it where I can. .

              I will not allow the parent to MAKE it my responsibility. YKWIM?

              If they expect nothing and get something then they are happy with the results.

              If they expect miracles and get reality your life is going to be filled with drama....::::
              - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

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              • wdmmom
                Advanced Daycare.com
                • Mar 2011
                • 2713

                #8
                I understand. And I think this mom is for a rude awakening!

                You and I both know that she's only pushing this because it's a requirement for him to be potty trained to start pre-school in September. What I don't understand is how this became my responsibility or how she could even enroll him because he'll still only be 2 in September!

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                • Cat Herder
                  Advanced Daycare.com Member
                  • Dec 2010
                  • 13744

                  #9
                  Originally posted by wdmmom
                  I understand. And I think this mom is for a rude awakening!

                  You and I both know that she's only pushing this because it's a requirement for him to be potty trained to start pre-school in September. What I don't understand is how this became my responsibility or how she could even enroll him because he'll still only be 2 in September!
                  Oh, yeah...I get that too.

                  Here preschool is free, Government Sponsored so they push it off on us, too.
                  - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

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