This whole thread interests me. I have one just like this and had one in the past whos issues were never dealt with b/c I never knew how to deal with them. HOW EXACTLY did you go about this last part? What did you tell her? These are the rules at the table and if you can't follow them you will be excused? Do you just keep ignoring the negative comments or do you remove them from the table as soon as they complain? Please share how you get them to the understanding that they need to sit and be there with the other kids but can not complain and cry/fuss/whine etc. I have tried saying different things to my complainer but it seems like she likes the attention, I have tried to ignore but seems like that doesnt work either.
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This whole thread interests me. I have one just like this and had one in the past whos issues were never dealt with b/c I never knew how to deal with them. HOW EXACTLY did you go about this last part? What did you tell her? These are the rules at the table and if you can't follow them you will be excused? Do you just keep ignoring the negative comments or do you remove them from the table as soon as they complain? Please share how you get them to the understanding that they need to sit and be there with the other kids but can not complain and cry/fuss/whine etc. I have tried saying different things to my complainer but it seems like she likes the attention, I have tried to ignore but seems like that doesnt work either.- Flag
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This whole thread interests me. I have one just like this and had one in the past whos issues were never dealt with b/c I never knew how to deal with them. HOW EXACTLY did you go about this last part? What did you tell her? These are the rules at the table and if you can't follow them you will be excused? Do you just keep ignoring the negative comments or do you remove them from the table as soon as they complain? Please share how you get them to the understanding that they need to sit and be there with the other kids but can not complain and cry/fuss/whine etc. I have tried saying different things to my complainer but it seems like she likes the attention, I have tried to ignore but seems like that doesnt work either.
With her, when the gagging and the crying and complaining starting, she was excused from the table...no engaging. Her plate was cleared, her hands were cleaned and she was sent on her merry way. No matter how she cried to come back or try again with a new plate, that was it. I told her later that her friends are hungry and want to eat and talk to each other, not watch her nose run and her spit food back onto the plate. I asked her does she like to sit with her friends and she said yes. And I told her just like I'm not going to make her eat food she doesn't like, Im not going to make her friends have their lunch spoiled, so if she's crying and acting up, she can't be at the table with them. She's high-functioning and very social, so this was important to her and she conformed.- Flag
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