I have been caring for a DCB since birth and he's now 3.5 yo. I love this child to pieces but can no longer care for him for many reasons. Mostly behavior. Talking to DCD is no good because he has an excuse for every action. I need to term this child. I am so unhappy everyday and night. I dread him coming and I vent all night to my husband. Which has put a damper on "our life".
The very few days he is not here everything is so different. The other kids are actually so much happier and we have great days. I am also suddenly reminded how much I do love this job.
I dont know what to say to DCD. He is totally oblivious and encourages his childs behavior by turning misconduct into games for distraction. Whatever I say about why i need to term will be turned around to something im doing wrong or he just wont get it.
I have actually had other families leave cause this child is to much to handle and their affraid of his behavior rubbing off.
How do I do this without letting the dad blame me? I have dreamed about terming him since a month after I got him as a newborn. I have stuck it out as long as I could but I just cant do it anymore.
Any advice on what to say would be appreciated
Thanks
The very few days he is not here everything is so different. The other kids are actually so much happier and we have great days. I am also suddenly reminded how much I do love this job.
I dont know what to say to DCD. He is totally oblivious and encourages his childs behavior by turning misconduct into games for distraction. Whatever I say about why i need to term will be turned around to something im doing wrong or he just wont get it.
I have actually had other families leave cause this child is to much to handle and their affraid of his behavior rubbing off.
How do I do this without letting the dad blame me? I have dreamed about terming him since a month after I got him as a newborn. I have stuck it out as long as I could but I just cant do it anymore.
Any advice on what to say would be appreciated
Thanks

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