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Thats the only reason why i would bring in the car seats because you know she isn't going to replace them should they get soaked. But I would be clear in letting her know that it only would have taken her one extra second to do that and you won't allow her to leave car seats if they are not properly stored in the future.
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I wouldn't pick them up and I wouldn't take responsibility if they are ruined by the rain. You aren't a meteorologist and you aren't a personal servant...you are a childcare provider.
If she wants to leave the carseats out on your lawn like trash, tell her she took the chance of them getting trashed by the weather (which it sounds like you already did). If a bird wants to poo on them, so be it, it's not your job to babysit the carseats!
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:I wouldn't pick them up and I wouldn't take responsibility if they are ruined by the rain. You aren't a meteorologist and you aren't a personal servant...you are a childcare provider.
If she wants to leave the carseats out on your lawn like trash, tell her she took the chance of them getting trashed by the weather (which it sounds like you already did). If a bird wants to poo on them, so be it, it's not your job to babysit the carseats!
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Note to self:
Add "meteorologist" to my long list of "skills" on resumeComment
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I would pray for rain and when she shows up and asks why you left them out tell her you told her in the am to put them inside so you assumed she did so. I would say, "oh I never got your text." if she says she texted to tell you to do it. And I would move on. Post an ad and get rid of her. Maybe you can text her the term letter (JUST KIDDING!)
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Im sorry what text? this would be my response....
i had a parent text me and tell me that I need to bring their childs bike inside my backyard, that they left it out front and don't want it to get stolen....
I didnt get the message until 4pm and decided well it sat out there this long I am not going to go do anything about it now..... I just ignored the text.Comment
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I would either: A) Act like I didn't see the text. "I was very busy. Guess I didn't hear it"
Or B) Text back "I can't leave the kids unattended" Period. No explanation, no "sorry", nothing.
C) If it didn't rain, spray them with the hose! (Of course that's my joke answer. But I'd be tempted!)Comment
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U guys have some really good replies, Thanks for all the help!! I almost didn't reply to her text but I was so mad I had to say something. Once I replied I was kicking myself for it because she just ignored it and didn't reply back with a thanks or I'm sorry anything. Here is what my text said.
I will NOT leave the children unattended in my home. This is why I recommended that u put them on the porch before u even left. I will go down when the kids are asleep and put them on the porch ONLY because I CARE about your CHILDREN and don't want them sitting in a soaked seat!
My Mother stopped by so I grabbed the seats and put them on the porch. I think it may have sprinkled this morning when we were finishing our Mothers day projects but I couldn't leave them. The seats feel dry and the sun is out now (figures).
I can't afford to term them really, even if I could I don't know that I would for the kids sake. A couple weeks ago I had calls from people I was turning away and now none. Summer is so close people probably already have placement. Her kids are well behaved for me (usually). We have potty issues but that's nothing really. I feel very bad for her children because they don't have much, haven't seen much, don't get to do much and don't know much. (they are 2 and 3 1/2) I have taught them a few things already and the DCG seems to pick up routine quick so I think they are just being ignored at home. I have plans for them this summer and really am excited about teaching them the basics like colors and shapes, taking them to the zoo for the 1st time and the nature center, the children's museum and just spend time with them teaching them about things. They have never been to any of those places. The DCM said they played in sand for the 1st time here at my house! Now why? Sand costs $5 for a 25 lb bag!! Anyway u get the picture.
I want to keep the kids but not the parents is that possible?
I think DCM has mistaken my generosity for a weakness. I will have to fix that. I will be cracking down on DCM.
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How funny...I thought all these things too!! Go with Plan B. If she argues and send another text. Don't respond. When she gets there act like you didn't get it but if she responds tell her you don't have time to do battles over the phone. The kids are more important then arguing over her stupidity.
oops noticed you already responded.
I understand how you feel. I have a parent similar but I had to put a stop to some of the madness bc it was driving me baty. With a nice talk, I started to see progress. I just don't deal well with disrespect. I only have a select few kids and families. I know now what kind of families I want in my home and each parent knows how hard I work to make sure these little ones are well cared for and safe. I love what I do if I start feeling that I am getting taken advantage of...changes will be made. It starts with you though. Work towards what you want and expect from this parent. If you don't put your foot down she will continue to push your limits.
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Know what I'd do? I'd bring them in, but about a half hour before pick up time, I'd take them right back outside and leave them as if they'd been there all day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please, please, I beg you -do NOT let her get away with treating you that way.Comment
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I would not have responded at all to her text. When she came to pick were right where she left them. If she has the gall to say anything about it (which it sounds like she does) I would tell her that after I suggested she bring the seats to the porch and she chose not to, it was out of my hands and I didn't think about it. I would also tell her that I SAW her pick up the car seats and then change her mind and put them back down.
I like Crystal's suggestion:
"At pick up time today I'd be handing her a letter stating all of her episodes and give her a firm warning that if it occurs again, you will have no choice but to terminate services. "
ETA: Oh I forgot the Dad was picking up today. As long as the seats are dry when the mom checks them, she will assume that you followed her orders
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