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    Personal Question

    I am a registered user but logged off for this question......I have always played with the thought of getting breast augmentation, but I'm getting really serious about it now, before children, I used to be a nice full B, and after, I dropped to zilch nothing, can even barely fill out a AA, and I really want to go back to a full B, I'm tired of not fitting in shirts, and bras, I'm tired of everytime I bend over in a t shirt, you can see right into my bra, since I can't fill out my bras, same with any swimsuit, the minute I bend over you can see right in, because theres nothing there to fill it out, I am really not concerned with self image, I have a good self image, my husband is super happy with me. I just want them, now the one thing really holding me back, is the line of work, I'm scared what parents would think, now I don't want ot go over the top, like I said a nice full B, so its not like I would look like "WOW" but I don't know, is this innapropriate, an how do you approach this, I'm not looking for opinions on "you should just be happy the way you are comments" I'm just wondering what you think, it would never be anything during the day that I would "show off" I just don't know, if its a good decision.
  • tulip1969
    Daycare.com Member
    • Mar 2011
    • 59

    #2
    I don't think there is anything wrong with doing it. It is not like you are looking to wear low cut blouses around the daycare kids and show yourself off or anything. You sound like you have a very good reason. I would do it but I wouldn't tell anyone. It is none of their business anyway. Go for it!
    I you think my hands are full you should see my heart!

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    • Stacy214
      Daycare.com Member
      • Jan 2011
      • 197

      #3
      I agree, do it! I am a B but not as "full" either as I would like and if I didn't have great bras that push me up I would do it. I am not sure about the parents, if they would even need to know. I would be comfortable telling mine though.

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      • Unregistered

        #4
        I had a reduction....from a g to a c. I was paranoid about the first time I'd see someone afterwards...yeah, ppl just don't notice. Or if they do they don't act like they do. Do what makes you happy!!!

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        • cheerfuldom
          Advanced Daycare.com Member
          • Dec 2010
          • 7413

          #5
          Why not just make an appointment and see what your options are? and the cost. I don't see anything wrong with doing it.

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          • TBird
            Advanced Daycare.com Member
            • Mar 2011
            • 551

            #6
            NONE OF THEIR BEE'S WAX!!! I won't even let the parents go into my refrigerator...much less my cup size!!!

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            • MyAngels
              Member
              • Aug 2010
              • 4217

              #7
              I don't see anything wrong with it.

              Do make sure you do your research on whatever surgeon you choose. I worked for an attorney when I was younger and we handled a malpractice case for two women who had it done. They were disfigured by this guy and it could have been avoided had they done their homework.

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              • missnikki
                Advanced Daycare.com Member
                • Mar 2010
                • 1033

                #8
                Go for it! It is not unusual where I'm from, so I wouldn't so much as bat an eye at it. I don't think anyone needs to know or that you need to justify it- if you want it, it is a safe procedure that makes you feel good. Have fun shopping!

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                • jen2651
                  Daycare.com Member
                  • Mar 2011
                  • 230

                  #9
                  I would love to get some work done up there as well...nice c cup, two babies later and i'm one of those adults who would be able to wear a training bra (you know, the ones you insisted your mother buy you and she was just laughing inside?!).

                  Hmm....yes, they are sad. I know I will be getting mine done. We need to make sure-sure (permanent solution sure) we are done with kiddos and then...bada bing bada boom....I will have cute little size b boobies...

                  It almost makes me want to be done having kiddos?!

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                  • PitterPatter
                    Advanced Daycare.com Member
                    • Mar 2011
                    • 1507

                    #10
                    Personally I think it is your choice what u do with your body. I wouldn't worry about what the parent's may think. I don't think they would dare say anything either even if they disagreed. If it makes u happy then it can only bring more happiness to everyone around u. (did that make sense?) ::
                    I have quite a few things I would love to correct/enhance on my body but I just can't afford it otherwise I would have it done. I would just make the appt and see what u think after going over everything with the Dr. I heard some Dr's suggest wearing umm "falsies" to see how u really like them before actually having the process done.

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                    • Unregistered

                      #11
                      Well I scheduled the consultation, its over a month from now, but I'm excited, I guess thats just what I was wondering, Do I tell them (not the dads, the moms) or just say I'm going on vacation, but I think thats great advice, to not tell anyone, if they notice they notice, whatever.

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                      • cillybean83
                        Daycare.com Member
                        • Dec 2010
                        • 544

                        #12
                        i was/am very overweight, and from my highest weight, i needed to lose 125 pounds....once I hit goal i am getting my boobs done and a tummy tuck and I AM NOT ASHAMED! I told my daycare parents, my daddy, heck i'll tell my pastor too if he asks! This is my body and I"m busting my you-know-what to make it look great and if i need surgery to help me with that then so be it!

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                        • PitterPatter
                          Advanced Daycare.com Member
                          • Mar 2011
                          • 1507

                          #13
                          Originally posted by cillybean83
                          i was/am very overweight, and from my highest weight, i needed to lose 125 pounds....once I hit goal i am getting my boobs done and a tummy tuck and I AM NOT ASHAMED! I told my daycare parents, my daddy, heck i'll tell my pastor too if he asks! This is my body and I"m busting my you-know-what to make it look great and if i need surgery to help me with that then so be it!
                          Did I post this and forget? :: Sounds just like me!!

                          I actually thought about Gastric bypass but my son is scared and begged me not to so there goes that idea. Not that I had the money anytime soon anyway.

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                          • SandeeAR
                            Advanced Daycare.com Member
                            • Sep 2010
                            • 1192

                            #14
                            I would happily share some of my 44DD with you!!!! I got bigger after babies and nursing, not smaller. Well and adding diabetes and insulin in the last 10 years hasn't helped!

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                            • sahm1225
                              Advanced Daycare.com Member
                              • Jun 2010
                              • 2060

                              #15
                              To the girls who have had the surgery - how long was your recovery time? I know that everyone is different, but I am curious about how quickly you were able to return to daycare

                              I am glad you posted this. I have been thinking about this too. I am curious if any of the parents would think negatively and whether or not it would bother me. I was a full B before kids, went up to a DD, then down to barely B. it's depressing LOL!

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