Dishonest

[Greenshadow]

Is it the same "wishy washy" one from this thread?

https://www.daycare.com/forum/showthread.php?t=28005

If so I would be saying bye bye!

Poor you! You should not have to be going through this stuff.

Hahaha. No. Unfortunately. Its not.

[wdmmom]

I had a former parent do the same thing to me....then they gave me their notice. They even went as far as blaming me saying that I exacerbated their child's chronic diaper rash! What the heck?! Really?! I specifically tell parents that I change children at 9am, 12pm, and 3pm and they are checked at departure and are changed in between those times if necessary.

Sorry you are having to deal with this. Hopefully DCM was just having a hard day and didn't come off with accusations. She just wanted to know what was going on. & I know some parents are sick, so as for the pictures, I'd keep a record of the email just in case she decides to be some sicko and turn you in for child ***** or something stupid like that.

[momofsix]

She sent me an email last night and tried to attach the photo of the diaper but the attachment didnt come through. This is what she wrote " Tell me what you think. This is the craziest diaper I've ever seen."

This is what she wrote to me on Friday night.
"Beth, I know he's been there a year, and he's never come home like that. So, I know you change his diapers. I appreciate that you are being honest and might have changed *her other son* and overlooked *this son*. I tried sending you a pic but I'm having trouble with my phone. If you forgot, I can live with that. I was more worried if you said you changed him before I got there and then I would always think you weren't being honest with me. I am so relieved now. I can show you the pic on Monday. Thanks. Have a good weekend. I can sleep now. "

So I thought she was over it. Apparently not. She's trying to send me the photo, like I need to see it.

Wow, it almost seems as if she were just "testing" you to see hopw you would answer, in order to see if you were honest? Weird, that she brings her kids to you every day, yet seems unsure ifr you're honest or not. I would NOT like that at all! At least you passed her "test"!

[SilverSabre25]

for child ***** or something stupid like that.

Was that supposed to say "abuse" or something else? --edit: I guess it's not "abuse" because it didn't bleep it out.

OP, what happened with it this morning? Morbid curiosity here... ::

[Greenshadow]

She showed up this morning and didnt say a word about it. Not a word. Nothing.

She showed up this afternoon to pick them up and we had just pulled up in the wagon from being at the park. She asked if he needed his diaper changed and I told her that I had changed them before we left and he should be fine. She said "Ok" and that was that.

I just hate feeling so on edge. I cant help but rethink everything I do and say now. I dont like it. Im constantly wondering what she might come up with next. Im a clean person and keep my house very clean and am good at my job. Im not lazy and I am thorough with these kids. She is just anal and very extreme with her kids and I feel sometimes that if she is going to become this picky, maybe she should quit her job and stay home with them herself (if she werent in the military, but she is).