Sharing And Mind Your Business Tips...

[Abigail]

I agree with Kendallina, I don't force sharing and I do pretty much exactly what you just described. If it's a situation where someone is "hogging" a toy, then I put a time limit on it. "You've had it for a long time, I think in 5 minutes, it's time to share it with Johnny." Generally they'll give it to Johnny sooner than 5 minutes.

For tattling ..... I've tried posting an ear that they can tell ... but that hasn't worked for me so I'm waiting for some suggestions on that

I like what a PP said about "Do I have ears and eyes" meaning you have seen it and heard it so they don't need to tell you again. Instead of having a poster of an ear on the wall, introduce "Tattle the Turtle" or another cute stuffed animal that they will be told to go tell. The kids usually think it's fun and I recommend you have two of these stuffed animals available because it may be needed.