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During the initial shut down of things in March I cut my availability. My one family, my neighbors a couple homes down said they were looking into Daycare, a center. I told them in person that I will not take their child here any days at all if she goes to a daycare center some days and here the others. I just don't want her coming with all her "allergies" and "teething" kids get from large centers. As things stabilized here I offered more days back to them and they declined. I know they both work 5 days a week. Soooo, where is dcg going the days she's not here? I think it's a daycare. I can't be 100% sure but my gut tells me she's in a center. How do I ask the parents if she goes to daycare? Can I ask? She came here with "allergies" yesterday 😔
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I forgot to add that dcg has been talking about her teachers. Her "teachers" would be from her maybe daycare? I know I sound crazy but I did specifically say that dcg could not come here if she attended a daycare center. -
I would ask! It's your business and if you told them that their child cannot attend if they went somewhere else, then you have a right to know.
I would just be blunt and ask them where dcg goes when she's not with you. In todays world, it's not an unreasonable thing to ask at all.Comment
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I would aquire the teacher's name from kid and ask parent "she keeps talking about X, sounds like she has fun" and see how the convo goes or her face.
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"I noticed you work 5 days a week but she isn't here
Who is watching her?"
As a home provider you can tell them-make sure you can reference in your handbook, if not revise it and get a signature- if you feel they are exposing themselves (that sounds wrong) you cannot have it in your home and it is grounds for termination.
I have neighbors in front of me with a little and I introduced myself and they are interested in my 2 hour program...but I have seen people coming to their house a couple of times all unmasked. I will be addressing that when|if they contact for care.Comment
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I like bringing this stuff up face to face as it gives them less time to think of a response!
I would have said “sally keeps talking about her teachers at daycare, is she in daycare?” and see what mom says. Then term on the spot!
I actually found out that a family was leaving because the kid told me they went to a new school and she was going to be starting a new school soon. It is hilarious that parents think kids won’t tell us
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I also like to gauge reactions in person vs text. You can lie through text so much easier.Comment
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I didn't think of actually seeing their response in person if asked. I texted both parents and have yet to hear a response.I like bringing this stuff up face to face as it gives them less time to think of a response!
I would have said “sally keeps talking about her teachers at daycare, is she in daycare?” and see what mom says. Then term on the spot!
I actually found out that a family was leaving because the kid told me they went to a new school and she was going to be starting a new school soon. It is hilarious that parents think kids won’t tell usComment
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Update, I got the word. She goes to a daycare center.Comment
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In light of COVID I would trust my instincts and logic and simplY require 5 days a week attendance or bail and let them go.
They sound like a selfish and risky family.
This pandemic is stressful enough as it.
If your instincts are talking I’d listenComment
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